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You Just Broke Your Child. Congratulations.

Young Child Looking Sad

Dads. Stop breaking your children. Please.

I feel a need to write this post after what I witnessed at Costco yesterday. Forgive me for another post written in desperation and anger. Please read all the way to the end. I know it’s long, but this is something that needs to be said. It’s something that needs to be heard. It’s something that needs to be shared.

As Noah and I stood in line to make a return, I watched as a little boy (he couldn’t have been older than six) looked up at his dad and asked very timidly if they could buy some ice cream when they were done. The father glared him down, and through clenched teeth, growled at the boy to “leave him alone and be quiet”. The boy quickly cowered to the wall where he stood motionless and hurt for some time.

The line slowly progressed and the child eventually shuffled back to his father as he quietly hummed a childish tune, seemingly having forgotten the anger his father had just shown. The father again turned and scolded the boy for making too much noise. The boy again shrunk back and cowered against the wall, wilted.

I was agitated. I was confused. How could this man not see what I see? How could this man not see what a beautiful spirit stood in his shadow? How could this man be so quick to stub out all happiness in his own boy? How could this man not cherish the only time he’ll ever have to be everything to this boy? To be the person that matters most to this boy?

We were three from the front now, and the boy started to come towards his dad yet again. His dad immediately stepped out of the line, jammed his fingers into his son’s collar bones until he winced in pain, and threatened him. “If you so much as make a sound or come off of that wall again, I promise you’re going to get it when we get home.” The boy again cowered against the wall. This time, he didn’t move. He didn’t make a sound. His beautiful face pointed down, locked to the floor and expressionless. He had been broken. And that’s how his father wanted it. He didn’t want to deal with him, and breaking him was the easiest way.

And we wonder why so many of our kids grow up to be screwed up.

I’m going to be blunt. People see my relationship with Noah, and quite often put me up on a pedestal or sing my praises for loving him more than most dads love their own kids.

Damn it. I don’t understand that, and I’ll never understand that. Loving my son, building my son, touching my son, playing with my son, being with my son… these aren’t tasks that only super dads can perform. These are tasks that every dad should perform. Always. Without fail. There is nothing special about me. I am a dad who loves his son and would literally do anything for his well-being, safety, and health. I would gladly take a rake in the face or a jackhammer to my feet before I cut my own son down or make him feel small.

[sigh] I am far from a perfect dad. And I always will be. But I’m a damn good dad, and my son will always feel bigger than anything life can throw at him. Why? Because I get it. I get the power a dad has in a child’s life, and in a child’s level of self-belief. I get that everything I ever do and ever say to my son will be absorbed, for good or for bad. What I don’t get is how some dads don’t get it…

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11431 comments
Robert P
Robert P

Thanks for sharing your observations; the world is messed up and we all dance to a slightly different tune. I grew up with a father that was extremely harsh and his anger was something to fear. I learned later in life that he (my father) was beat by his father almost everyday - not because he did something wrong, but in case he did something wrong. Anger/ abuse can alter the brain wiring of a child for the rest of his life - this I now understand about my own father. He missed out on a lot of beauty, but still deserves compassion for his own journey through hell.

MariamLeonard
MariamLeonard

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d sullivan
d sullivan

i totally agree with everything you said, and then some, but i am wondering how come you never called the dad out, in front of the boy to show the boy that all dad's are not like this, after all this is the only dad he knows and in his little mind this is normal, and also the dad(not picking up for him at all he is so wrong)he might not know the differance after all we learn from our parents and his dad might of been the same, so if you had to at least speak to the dad and call him out on his parenting skills with his son he might of got angry at first but you would've set the seed in his mind and maybe the next time he goes to do the samething again he just might stop and remember your conversation,just my thought thank you, ...and i know alot of great dad's no perfect ones though:) have a nice day:)

TwilaB
TwilaB

Your an amazing writer. They way you expressed your love for your child had me in tears. Kudos!

lost
lost

When I read this I cried so much. Cause I know my dad never really cared. He wanted to put fear in us. And my mother was never around. So my dad raised us. I love my dad and we get along great now. But he made me who I am now. He made me feel low, said something about my size to where I have no self esteem today. I know I get my anger from him. And I try not to yell, that's not the person I want to be. With my dad it was your damned if you do and your damned if you don't. Though time as I've grown up I know he did the best he could being a single father, I just wish he would have done it with a little less anger. And I know I'll cry like he did the first time his father told him he's proud of me.

roseline
roseline

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when i pucked the call it was my husband when i said hello

he just said chan please i am very sorry for all i have done 

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later i opened my eyes i was on my husband lap at the hospital

that was the day we settled and she told me never to remind him

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AnnieJames
AnnieJames

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SuePreedy
SuePreedy

 Hi I am SUE PREEDY from London I got a love spell done on my fiance actually he left me after one year of engagement I was shocked when he told me he does not love me any more he is going to marry with another girl it was very difficult to believe because we were in love from last 5 years he was the guy who never thought to live without me for a second he used to give thousands of phone calls in a day and he was saying to me he does not love me any more, it was a worse news for my family because I gave a very good treat to my friends and raletive on my engagement and we put engagement ring to each other in front of hundreds of people now if he didn't marry me so it was shame for me in my society so I decided that I will get him back any how, than I found Dr.Trust on Internet I told him my problem he told me not to worry I will fetch him back to you he said that he will come himself and will beg me.he gave me 48 hours time and of course it happened before 48 hours he come back to me and said he is sorry for what he did to me,that he is ready to marry me. we get married and we are happy now as husband and wife. really Dr.Trust is a Miracle Man. contact him for your own help [email protected] or [email protected] call me +2348156885231,


SuePreedy
SuePreedy

Hi I am SUE PREEDY from London I got a love spell done on my fiance actually he left me after one year of engagement I was shocked when he told me he does not love me any more he is going to marry with another girl it was very difficult to believe because we were in love from last 5 years he was the guy who never thought to live without me for a second he used to give thousands of phone calls in a day and he was saying to me he does not love me any more, it was a worse news for my family because I gave a very good treat to my friends and raletive on my engagement and we put engagement ring to each other in front of hundreds of people now if he didn't marry me so it was shame for me in my society so I decided that I will get him back any how, than I found Dr.Trust on Internet I told him my problem he told me not to worry I will fetch him back to you he said that he will come himself and will beg me.he gave me 48 hours time and of course it happened before 48 hours he come back to me and said he is sorry for what he did to me,that he is ready to marry me. we get married and we are happy now as husband and wife. really Dr.Trust is a Miracle Man. contact him for your own help [email protected] or [email protected] call me +2348156885231


AnnieJames
AnnieJames

Am so excited and i really want to thank GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION a very POWERFUL and i mean a very POWERFUL female spell caster for getting my husband back to me within 2 days. My name is Annie James and when my husband left me and our two kids to suffer i was so tired and frustrated and i thought all hope was lost until i came across this GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION on her email at [email protected]  and i was reading how she has helped so many people with different problems so i contacted and i explained my problem to her and she laughed and told me to calm down that my problem is so simple and that she will help me in two days time my husband will come back home again and i really believed her without any doubt. Can you imagine just as this POWERFUL WOMAN said in two days time my husband called me and started begging for forgiveness. In fact words won't be enough to thank this POWERFUL WOMAN called GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION and i assure you that If you want all your problems to be solved contact GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION now on her email at  [email protected]  and she will help you because she is so real, reliable, trust worthy and very powerful. Please i mean please i advise you all to believe and listen to her because she is very real and unique. Thank you GREAT MOTHER and may your good gods always bless you for your wonderful deeds and good works. Once again thank you GREAT MOTHER.

michael walter
michael walter



Just wanted to thank you and let you know how much you have helped me. since my divorce from a21-year marriage. It started out being one of the most difficult things I have ever attempted in my life. After a spell at [email protected], My ex sent me an apology email and i sent him a response the next day…within seconds he called me and asked to see me and was crying because he was glad I was talking to him. We are starting out very slowly again as friends (which is difficult for me since I am still deeply in love with him). An interesting note is this is a long distance relationship and your Dr.oduma spell still worked!! I am so happy to have him in my life again.
Thanks again,

AnnieJames
AnnieJames

Am so excited and i really want to thank GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION a very POWERFUL and i mean a very POWERFUL female spell caster for getting my husband back to me within 2 days. My name is Annie James and when my husband left me and our two kids to suffer i was so tired and frustrated and i thought all hope was lost until i came across this GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION on her email at [email protected]  and i was reading how she has helped so many people with different problems so i contacted and i explained my problem to her and she laughed and told me to calm down that my problem is so simple and that she will help me in two days time my husband will come back home again and i really believed her without any doubt. Can you imagine just as this POWERFUL WOMAN said in two days time my husband called me and started begging for forgiveness. In fact words won't be enough to thank this POWERFUL WOMAN called GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION and i assure you that If you want all your problems to be solved contact GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION now on her email at  [email protected]  and she will help you because she is so real, reliable, trust worthy and very powerful. Please i mean please i advise you all to believe and listen to her because she is very real and unique. Thank you GREAT MOTHER and may your good gods always bless you for your wonderful deeds and good works. Once again thank you GREAT MOTHER.

AnnieJames
AnnieJames

Am so excited and i really want to thank GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION a very POWERFUL and i mean a very POWERFUL female spell caster for getting my husband back to me within 2 days. My name is Annie James and when my husband left me and our two kids to suffer i was so tired and frustrated and i thought all hope was lost until i came across this GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION on her email at [email protected]  and i was reading how she has helped so many people with different problems so i contacted and i explained my problem to her and she laughed and told me to calm down that my problem is so simple and that she will help me in two days time my husband will come back home again and i really believed her without any doubt. Can you imagine just as this POWERFUL WOMAN said in two days time my husband called me and started begging for forgiveness. In fact words won't be enough to thank this POWERFUL WOMAN called GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION and i assure you that If you want all your problems to be solved contact GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION now on her email at  [email protected]  and she will help you because she is so real, reliable, trust worthy and very powerful. Please i mean please i advise you all to believe and listen to her because she is very real and unique. Thank you GREAT MOTHER and may your good gods always bless you for your wonderful deeds and good works. Once again thank you GREAT MOTHER.

gfhgjhjk
gfhgjhjk


I broke up with my wife last 5 months due to many misunderstandings i was fighting so hard to get her back. none of her friends would give me any information about her. The only thing I could do was to go find help from anywhere, so i looked for a way to get her back then a friend recommended me to contact Therapist Oniha of the [email protected] that he will help me and as my friend said, Therapist Oniha helped me to bring back my wife in just in 3 days, I now have her back and this is the biggest joy of my life oohhhh am so happy now with her forever.

Jaycey
Jaycey

Thank you for sharing. Too many days pass that dad's don't understand that what they say and how they act doesn't matter because they think that children won't remember what was said to them. This is true. Children do forget what you said, but they will never forget how you made them feel.

MISS EMILY
MISS EMILY

You should have contacted the local DHHS Child Services Dept. about that. If we advocate for domestic violence laws about physical violence (i.e. choking) for victims that are often young adults, please tell me WHY this is permitted to happen to a young child like the one in this story. 

Allowing physical acts like 'spanking with an open hand' to discipline ANYONE automatically opens the gateway for boundaries to be blurred and children to perceive this behavior as 'OK.' As a Family Studies major & an educator, I can tell you firsthand that the only thing that is accomplished through physical acts like spanking achieves is the IMMEDIATE, short term response that produces minimal long term results to whatever behavior the child is being disciplined for at the time. 


Children, especially those between the ages of 0-5, are UNABLE to decipher the difference between anything beyond clear cut boundaries & rules in a formulated, concrete manner resembling something similar like that of a young adult. It is a well-known fact that's been studied, researched, and proven to be scientifically-sound notion in the academic, medical, & sociological community.


When nobody takes action against the perpetrator immediately, that child doesn't have that opportunity to learn that what his father was doing to him was NOT OK and any opportunity for change the situation and its outcome are lost forever. 


While I empathize with your frustration for this boy, the perspective we should be analyzing this situation should be one that's PROACTIVE to find a solution for what can be done to STOP the behavior immediately instead of REACTIVE in the afterthought, where nothing can be done now except process the feelings taken away from the situation's aftermath and move forward with the goal to take action next time FIRST. 

Remember, put YOURSELF by promising to place your son in that situation. I've always told anybody I've ever known or taught to have this perspective: 

'SEE THESE (HANDS)? THEY CANNOT SPEAK FOR YOU. COMMUNICATE USING YOUR MOUTH AND MIND."

NatashaMichael
NatashaMichael

I am Natasha i lives in Alabama and i was in a serious relationship with my Ex Guy for 3 good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to THE HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON and i contacted him on [email protected], at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement information of me and my Ex Guy,so i did what i was ask to do, after 24Hours after the spell was cast i was in my office when my Ex Guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Anita)...i wish you the best of luck... friends you can contact HIGH PRIEST OZIGIDIDON on his email, [email protected]  I know you will Thank me later.

DaniSanto1
DaniSanto1



i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr papa for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr papa casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Papa for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact [email protected] and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

angelsunrise
angelsunrise

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DaniSanto1
DaniSanto1




An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is Dani Santo,i live in United Kngdom,and I'm happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn't love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{[email protected]}. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn't call me for the past seven {7}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster. So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {[email protected]},if">{[email protected]},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Dr PAPAr for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. {[email protected]}, Thanks..

BellaWilbert
BellaWilbert

Attention every body..

I want to say a very big thank you to Dr Akpan for casting a spell on me that makes my wife to come back to me, i was very frustrated and confused when i saw a testimony on the Internet about Dr Akpan on how he help Mrs Michele to bring back her husband back and i decided to contact him and he casted a spell on me but now i am very happy to say to you all that i am living a happy life with my wife without any problem so i will advise you all to contact Dr Akpan via email: drakpansolutioncenter@gmail.com for your solution today and i guarantee and assure you 100% that your problem will be solve with 24 hours.

Thanks.

nancyalfred0089
nancyalfred0089

Jim asked me if we could be back together this morning. Of course I said yes. Thanks to you Esango priest , thanks to the spirits, thank you God. I cannot thank you enough Esango for bringing him back into my life. I didn’t think it was never gonna be possible possible after all i did to him, I had lost my hope and most of any little faith that I had to begin with, but thanks to you, I have my love and my life back. Thank you. God bless you many many times over for all the help you give to people, you have a beautiful gift to humanity, his email is [email protected] contact him on relationship or life issues.

Nate Maclean
Nate Maclean

My advice to any one who might be thinking of contacting a spell caster,is to contact Metodo i know he the only real spell caster i think still leaves his methods will speak and make you believe. I am not really that kind of person that disclose  much about myself experience especially on the internet but today i am going to make an to exception  I really never intended to say to anybody that i used a spell to get what i wanted in life not cos i am ashamed of it but cos some may never believe cos its seem like something that can never happen. All it take is to find the real and right spell caster. Am that kind of person that have always thought that marrying a rich man will set me free in financially as a matter of fact i have been married to to four different men all for money i guess after every divorce with every one of them i didn't as much as i expected even when there was no prenuptial agreement signed. But When i met my firth to be husband,i never expected i will fall for him so much i mean he was so charming cute and for the first time he made me feel safe like he will always be here for me not matter what happens. For the first time i was in love. Maybe i don't know what love is cos i never felt it for any one my ex husband the only detail i can give is that my heart literally beats fast when he was around me, anytime he ran his finger through my hair. I always knew my past will come to hurt me no matter what i do but i never gave it to much thought cos i never thought i will meet this kind of man. At the time i meant him ,it was not a while before the relationship became serious cos i bet he loved me also. We moved in together and our relationship just blosoomed. He was gentle with me always i mean my life was a fairy tale for a moment. But then again my past life that was to be left in the closet got out. I was so much in love to not tell him about my pasted life i just wanted to left him know like this was the person i use to be but cos of him i changed .He brought me to the light. I guess that was not the case he grew mad at me and  thought i was going to do the same thing to him just like my exes. I don't know if it was that in the last 4 years i have been married four time to four different men cos of their bank statement that made him mad of was that i didn't tell him all this while. All the same after a while of not speaking with me he moved out. I thought he was going to call i just wanted to give him space i mean my friends suggested i did that but time few by with no call no text the only time he came back to our house was to pick his remaining things. The first man i have ever loved was walking out of my life just like a mist that comes and go i wanted him back to show him that he changed me to show him with him am a different person,He kept saying he would not want the same thing to happen to him just like my exes i believed he still loved he though he never said but that thought made me contact Metodo the spell caster for help. I saw positive comments about him and someone said she has actually seen, that is come in contact with him during the time he helped her. Was not really sure what to believe i just thought i was desperate i need help right away or i was going to lose my dream man for life. Like honestly i was not going to travel for over thirteen hours or so  to look for metodo in were he leaves cos one i din't know anybody there and two my run my private spa so i had little all not time and it will be an expensive thing to do. I could not also get the materials he needed to cast the spell so i had to ask him to get them for me so i can give him the money to pay for them. Within the first seven week he sent me a some candle with some hand written don't really know what to call it but will say words to recite at night at the right hour. At that time within the seven days, Stephen started coming around all the time i mean i don't think it was coincidental cos really it wasn't. I believed what Metodo was doing was working. Just after those seven day i received a parcel with something he gave me instruction on how to use. This is no lie in anyway Stephen and i are back together now he is no slave to anything cos of the spell he is just the way he was before the spell only made him love me more and never talk or think about my past life. Not everybody will believe this more over its just something on the internet but my heart knows every of this word that formed this entire comment is true. Living Metodo contact for those who believes me and needs help metodoacamufortress @ yahoo. com

JesseHoward
JesseHoward

I'm now married to the father of my two kids who i love so much.Before all these sudden happiness took place in my life i went through hell.I dated my fiance for 8years with little breakup's between until a whore came into our life who was my best friend.When i discovered my fiance was cheating on me with her i was so mad at him that i could not even look at him anymore.As time went on i and my fiance was trying to fix things but my best friend wanted us to be apart from each other in other to have him to herself which she later achieved.Soon my fiance wasn't paying attention to me anymore.All he could think of was how he could dump me and his two beautiful kids in other to be with my best friend.I was so heart broken because i loved him so much i tried all means to get him back but it wasn't possible.After a long while of unhappiness i meant a spell caster on-line whose name is dr jatto i explained my problem to him and he demanded for some materials to prepare a spell and i proved the materials and since then my life has been transformed from sadness to total happiness.If you have a similar problem he might be the right person to solve your problem so if you need help contact him via [email protected] all your problem will be solve

bakerlaura009
bakerlaura009


Whoever is reading my testimony now this is a must share testimony on how I got back my husband after 2 years separation.
My husband is the most lovable man on earth we got married when we have nothing God bless us with two lovely kids, But I don’t know what happen to him in his work place a lady I brought to him for job got into my husband head and he started an affair with her secretly I never knew this because I trusted my husband so much because he has never cheated on me in our courtship so I have no reason to suspect him. After months of their secrete affairs my husband change completely keeping late night, not taking my calls, rude to me and the kids,  the lady in question she is my friend, on my way from bank one afternoon I decide to check on my husband in our company  I went into his chamber I couldn’t find him I was told by the secretary he went out for launch I waited a while few minus they both  worked in they were so perplex seeing me at once I just figure they were dating I maintain a composure  but I was spent anyway   my husband denied  everything I prayed for weeks, my husband abandon his family and move in with her for almost two years I lost hope, I never stop praying but God just directed me to a blog where I saw a lady sharing  similar testimony I pick up the mail and explain my predicament to Dr saulat he require few details  of me and my hubby few minus he replied back and told me  24hour my husband will call and apologize to me 12hour same day he called asking for forgiveness I can’t go in details now . But Dr saulat is a helper to this generation so many others do this for money but he is different from them all you can reach him on his mail [email protected]  he can fix whatever situation you might be in martially, thanks doc.

ClaraHarry
ClaraHarry

Hello every body Am CLARA HARRY , from USA, Dr,)OGUDO is the only Traditional root and herbs man that can cure your HIV who could ever get my HIV-AIDS cured with his healing spell, i have tried almost everything but i couldn't find any solution on my disease, despite all these happening to me, i always spend a lot to buy a HIV drugs from hospital and taking some several medications but no relieve, until one day i was just browsing on the internet when i come across a great post of !Michelle! who truly said that she was been diagnose with HIV and was healed that very week through the help of these great powerful healing spell doctor, sometime i really wonder why people called him Dr,OGUDO, i never knew it was all because of the great and perfect work that he has been doing that is causing all this. so i quickly contacted him, and he ask me some few questions and he said a thing i will never forget that anyone who contacted him is ! always getting his or her healing in just 6 hours after doing all he ask you, so i was amazed all the time i heard that from him, so i did all things only to see that at the very day which he said i will be healed, all the strength that has left me before rush back and i becomes very strong and healthy, this disease almost kills my life all because of me, so i will to hospital to give the final test to the disease and the doctor said i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr,OGUDO gave to me from the ancient part of Africa, you can email him now for your own healing too at:DROGUDO thank you sir for healing me from HIV, i am Doris Carter So viewers DR OGUDO,  is a God Gifted man and can help you to cure all types of sickness like HIV AIDS, CANCER, PILE, KIDNEY PROBLEM, SYPHILIS, DIABETES and lot's more. You can contact him through his email on [[email protected]

wirthe1233
wirthe1233


I use to be hiv positive but now i am HIV negative, i am very amazed and happy about the healing Dr Esusu gave to me from the help of his ancient herbs  if you have  any question for me concerning all i have said email me at: [email protected]  But if you feel like contacting Dr Esusu at once you can email him now for your own healing too at: [email protected] call his phone number which is +2348154207044 for direct contact good luck i am Mark Margan...

SandraJames1
SandraJames1

THE TESTIMONY HOW I SURVIVE MY HIV/AIDS

My name is Sandra, I am from Denmark, who have been HIV/Aids victim. One day was inside taxis, when I met a friend of mine that have a HIV/Aids sicks and she introduce me to a man called Dr Ehi that have HIV/Aids tradition medicine. And after that he gave me the tradition medicine to drink, and drinking it he told me that after 3 months I will see the result of his medicine, Dr Ehi ; have use traditional medicine to cure HIV/AIDS to treat mine, and now I am happy to be life today, and I am married with 2kids, his contact: [email protected]

FernadoSmith
FernadoSmith

I really never believed in Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster called Dr ADUWAWA via ( [email protected] ).
The woman i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down,she was with me for 5years and i really love her so much she left me for another man with no reasons,when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In less than 45 hours she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this because i believe there are many people out there who might need his help here is his contact email:( [email protected] )

Marian_Gregory
Marian_Gregory

My life is back!!! After 8 years of marriage, my husband left me and left me with our three kids. I felt like my life was about to end, and was falling apart. I contacted Dr. OKORO LOVE SPELL and after I explained my problem, In just 3 days my husband came back to us and show me and my kids much love and apologize for all the pain he have bring to the family. We solved our issues, and we are even happier more than ever before Dr. OKORO you are the best spell caster. I really appreciate the love spell you cast for me to get the man back to my life i will keep sharing more testimonies to people about your good work. Thank you once again Dr. OKORO. You can also contact Dr. OKORO via email address: [email protected]  in case you are in any problem you can contact this man for help he is always there in his temple to help you solve your problem Contact Email is: [email protected] CONTACT HIM TODAY VIA THIS EMAIL ADDRESS: [email protected]  AS HIS POWERS ARE SO STRONG AND VERY EFFECTIVE AND HAS NO BAD EFFECT INSTEAD IT HAVE A VERY GOOD RESULT AFTER CASTING THE SPELL.

Dr. OKORO NUMBER: +2348110496023
Contact Dr. OKORO Via email: [email protected]

DaniSanto1
DaniSanto1


i am here to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 9 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come home again and he called me that he want a divorce, i asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying is that he want a divorce that he hate me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just want to try if something will come out of it. i contacted Dr papa for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman, that she cast a spell on him that is why he hate me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they casted the spell and after 1 week my husband called me and he told me that i should forgive him, he started to apologize on phone and said that he still live me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that he Dr papa casted on him that make him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you Dr Papa for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want you my friends who are passing through all this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact [email protected] and you will see that your problem will be solved without any delay.

HopeSonia
HopeSonia

Hello My name is hope Kenneth, I have been frustrated for the past 2 years with my two kids living without my husband who surprisingly left home with a girl named Mercy, One faithful day a friend of mine came visiting and I told her about the situation I am in for the past four years, she then told me about Dr Johnson. That he is a very powerful man, at first I never wanted to believe her because I have spent a lot going to different places but she convinced me so I had no choice because I really need my husband back. So we contacted Dr johnson who told me all I needed to do which I doubted. But the greatest joy in me today is that Dr johnson was able to bring my husband back to me and now we are living happily as never before, thanks to you Dr johnson. If you have problems of any kind I will advice you to contact him with this Email ([email protected]) and you will never regret it. Once again Thanks to you Dr Johnson

beachpeach
beachpeach

A good dad, my husband, gives our son and daughter kiss after kiss, hug after hug, tickle after tickle, a constant presence.  A good dad, my husband, does not always say, "no" he does not always say, "yes" but he is there to say something.  A good dad, my husband, sometimes gets angry and frustrated but follows that with an explanation of the feeling, a closure to the "episode" (which truly is not an episode, but perhaps a raising of the voice).  A good dad, my husband, is my teammate in parenting.  A good dad, my husband, will allow for the occasional failure, but will be the biggest cheerleader upon a success of our children.  A good dad, an amazing husband, is Devin.  :) 

csommerfeldt88
csommerfeldt88

Funny how this post would get to a mother, I am crying at your point of view and saddened that it took your penance to write this article. I am moved to be a better person and God willing, all of these things "Dads" need to work on... I feel as a mother I have just as much to do. I am saddened at myself and my past behaviors as I read this, being unaware of the things that we say sometimes is terrible and can hurt so very much. I love my children to the end of this earth and back again. Thank you for this... A million thank yous for this. 

JoesCandra
JoesCandra

I am joes candra, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR.OSAUYI for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR.OSAUYI released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR.OSAUYI for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. [email protected] OR [email protected] that is his email address bye or you can call is hot line on +2348100515075


JohnLucy
JohnLucy

my ex broke up with me for the fact that he wanted space, i tried telling him how much i love him but he was just so stubborn, he suddenly changed, he started cheating, I was so hurt and depressed. so a friend suggested the idea of contacting a spell caster, which I never thought of myself. after i contacted Dr Wu for his help. I asked him to do a love spell for me so that my lover can come back to me, but before the spell was done, I was a bit skeptical about the capacity to bring my lover back to me. 3 days after the spell was actually cast, my lover returned to me and since then, it seems that there is no more mistrust and no more lies between us. He doesn't cheat anymore. there is no word to say how grateful I am, I am leaving a testimonial on this page, email [email protected]

blendapark
blendapark


my boyfriend of two years let me for another girl because i accuse him of seen another girl and since then i have been trying to get him but he refuse to come back to me,he was not responding to my call or email and he even unfriend me in facebook and he told me that he is done with me.i was searching on the internet for help and i saw a testimony of how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so i decided to give it a try and i contacted him and i explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me and guarantee me of 3days that my ex will come back to me and to my greatest surprise the third day a great miracle fell on me and my ex come back to me on the third day and he beg me for forgiveness.Dr Azima of ([email protected]) i will continue to publish his name because he is my Savior and we are about to get married.if you need him to help you Email [email protected]

Andrea
Andrea

I am the mother of a six year old boy. I cried when I read the part about the kid starting to sing and the dad shooting him down - because I do that all the time! I get frustrated at my little one when he doesn't move as fast as I would like him to so we can get out of the door in the morning, I yell at him for constantly singing and being "excessively happy". He drives me crazy with all of his questions and I have barked at him on more than one occasion. But now that you have opened my eyes I will vigilantly be on the lookout for my horrible behavior towards my happy-go-lucky, spunky, inquisitive son. Thank you so much for giving me the proverbial "kick-in-the-rear" I needed.

LD
LD

This brought tears to my eyes as I have seen things like this happen as well - and not just by Dads but by Moms as well.  There are so many people out there who SHOULD NOT be parents, but there are also people out there who try to make things better, for ALL children not just their own even though it isn't easy to undo what the "parents" have done.  I am grateful that my husband is a good dad - not perfect by any means, but he does his best to let our daughter know she is loved and valued.

New Mommy
New Mommy

Hello, Dan!


I appreciate this post very much. I work in a certain, well-known, family-oriented theme park where things like this happen all the time when parents do not think that anyone is watching. It breaks my heart to see children cower from or be ignored by their parents. It scares me to think how many parents feel that breaking their children is the same as disciplining them. Discipline has its root from the word "disciple", which is someone who follows another. So, if we were to literally discipline our children, it should be in such a way that they wish to follow in our footsteps, not cower against a wall and hang their heads in shame. I do know, though, that many parents today did not have the best example of discipline in their own childhood. Of course, that is not an excuse for horrific behavior from those parents, but it does explain some of the issue. :/


I am sorry that you get so many awful comments on your posts. I usually do not read them, so I have no idea if you will read mine at all--I wouldn't blame you if you didn't--but I wanted, to tell you about a superdad that I know, since you asked to hear about them. 


My husband and I had our first child nearly four months ago. I come from a large family in which I helped to raise my siblings, but he didn't have that experience in his "growing up years", so I didn't know how he'd be initially with the baby and the long nights. I am so pleased to share with you that he is what I think you and I agree should be a natural dad--one who, though he doesn't have much experience with babies, loves the little man and does everything he can to show that love to the baby (and to the baby's mommy!). He is, as far as I can see, a superdad. He will step away from anything to play with the baby, even though "playing" could be seen as boring to an adult at this stage in our child's development. (Too many guys I have seen refuse to play with babies because the babies cannot move around or be handled roughly. What's up with that? Isn't getting a baby to illicit a smile after you help him kick his feet and smile down at him the best reward ever?!) I have noticed that it is my generation that seems to have this parenting thing pretty wrong for the most part, and that saddens me. Luckily, my husband is a young father who seems to have his priorities straight as that young father... even to the point of trying to get out of his current position at the company he works at in order to make sure he stays in the best health possible for our child and other future children.

There are other great dads out there, Dan. :) I am so glad that you are one of them. 

Jordan
Jordan

I was abused physically and emotionally by my father, and I still to this day have a ton of issues in regards to making relationships with others, especially those with men. I have never been able to let someone love me, and I am trying my very best to overcome that with the person I am with now. I am damaged. I still have a voice in the back of my head telling me that I am worthless, that I will become everything he said I would. But I also know somewhere that it is not true - I am a nursing major at a top 50 university. I know I am nothing like he told me I would be, but I am still broken. What I did not like about this article is that you made it seem like only little boys can be broken by their fathers. I find that more girls are broken by their fathers. "Daddy's little girls" and "momma's little boys" are that way for a reason. Of course men are huge influences on a little boy's life, but I find it disheartening how this article seems to think that the man is always the most important to the little boy. Girls get hurt too, and those girls hurt by their fathers grow up with very different issues. Commitment issues, attachment issues, trust issues, you name it, I have it. I like the way the article was supposed to go, I just feel like you left out a major part of the problem. 

marian jane
marian jane

My name is MRS JULITE wood I married with two wonderful kid and I am a Canadian.My husband and i have been married for 10years and we were such a big happy family.But he started changing " for the worse " he looked at me like a stranger and he treat the kid like they weren't even his.I knew at ones that he had another woman.I hired a private investigator that cost me a lot.It turned out that i was right all along.I couldn't just believe it so I confronted him with the pictures I had but he denied it bluntly.He said she just just a girl he has some working project with and foolish of me i so believed him.But on bad day i caught them red handed at that moment my heart stopped for a while as i bust into tears.I was furious that i hit the whore so hard before I could ask why with my shaking voice my husband
hit me so hard.I have never seen in his eyes so much hate before.I fell to ground crying my heart out it was so hurtful.He was no longer living with me and our kids I still remember his words " keep the house and your sick kids ".I wanted to drop dead but my lovely kids gave me strength to fight for what was my.He was asking for a divorce but i wanted to my husband back so i had to delay the process to buy time for myself so as to figure out a way to get him back.On a good day "god bless the internet "i stumbled on an ad of how a girl got her boyfriend back after he broke up with because of some girl with the help of a witch doctor or a spell caster at first I told myself it's scam but as pressure from my husband lawyer increased I became desperate and gave it try .I contacted him with his email address she left in her ad.His mail were so had to his English was not so clear but he helped me any way off course not for free he charged me and i pay every cent. thank the stars it work.I paid for the material which he used for the rite And when he claimed to have finished whatever he was doing i paid for his services.He sent me a hand written enchanting words and asked me to recite morning and night for seven day " as he said seven is the perfect number "I did just that but at first nothing happened out of frustration i sent all kind of insult to him even calling a low life scam.He said he could destroy the entire thing he did but he wouldn't so I can see how wrong i was.he said those enchanting words he gave me will make my husband see the demon in his new lover and its going to make him hurt badly.just a
week later my husband was sued for physical abuse on his so called New girlfriend.he gave a black eye and didn't show remorse in the court house.just what the spell-caster had said " he would hurt her badly ".he literally confessed that he hated her all of a sudden.All the witch dr peter did worked.Thank the stars she only wanted him to stay away from her so the judge asked him to pay $5000.after all this is trouble my husband came back asking for my forgiveness and I did without thinking it was all I wanted for him to come back to me and the kid.My husband and i have never since this kind of happiness before.He his as faithful to me and as a saint.I know cos I hear his friends say "what happened to the fun guy we know ".so if you have a similar problem just contact [email protected] i bet you this one is know fake.You can only choose to believe me cos i haven't tried this spell thing before and now that I have i can only happily share with who ever is reading this. my contact is +2348143877990

Dodie
Dodie

Okay, This by far is the most ridiculous thing I have ever read.  Not on the behalf of the parent in the store but on the behalf of the original poster of this message.  It is your duty as a parent to teach them how to behave and that includes in public.  It is your job to teach your children the difference between right and wrong and to teach your child to be respectful of others and to have some manners.  To not bother to teach you children these things is to do your children a horrible injustice--to not teach your children the reward of work or good behavior is poor parenting and you are setting your child up for failure.  For all the original poster of this message knows--maybe that child was in the back seat of the car on the way to Costco out of his seat belt screaming at the top of his lungs and almost causing a car accident or maybe he was the cause of dad's smashed care on the parking lot...And it all happened on the way to the store to replace grandma's microwave because he smashed it with his toy. So, let's give him an ice cream cone?? YOU DO NOT KNOW.  Teaching you children the reward of work--good behavior--not handing them everything on a silver platter--making them feel as if they deserve everything and the best of everything just for being---is responsible parenting.  Society has created many a folk that believe someone owes them something-----and what has become of this---a WELFARE SYSTEM that is overwhelmed!!!!  What you should be doing and teaching your own children is to mind your own business.  I am not saying that I condone beating children to a bloody pulp--but come on.  I teach for a college and what do I see way to frequently?  Young adults that do not want to do his or her work and expect a good grade and if they don't get the good grade we have to be fearful that we will get sued by someone's rich parents that have not bothered to teach his or her children a good work ethic and have spoiled the child beyond belief.  So, now that I have wasted this time--I am going to get off my soap box and I believe you should too--and I am going back to work.

WayneKimberly
WayneKimberly



 I was skeptical about magic spells. For me i thought love spell was a movie thing though but I was ready to try anything to get my husband back, which this spell caster [email protected] did for me, I've appreciated the fact that he solved my relationship issue in a perfect way, call him +2347060552255  if you need help to get your lover back
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NoMoreChildAbuse
NoMoreChildAbuse

 I am wondering, did you do anything to help this child? Did you follow them out, get a license plate number...ANYTHING? Did you speak up and let the man know he was out of line? I have spoken up before when I saw a child was not being treated properly, I have also called the police to protect children, I will do it every time, no questions asked. That child obviously lives a horrible life and someone needed to step in and help him.


My father was a wonderful man, I lost him at the age of 12, but he used to take us camping ALL the time. He took us fishing and I remember digging the worms and cleaning the fish. I always wanted to go hunting, but he would never take me. I am 50 years old now and I know why he never took my hunting, it was to protect me from the images of the animals being shot and killed. I think he knew that it would some how scar me, though it never did with the fish. 


I am glad that you have a wonderful relationship with your son, he will be a good person by following your example!

awhitmanmom
awhitmanmom

@DaniSanto1 what the hell does his have to do with the story........seriously, get a grip on the nonsense!

Kaitlin
Kaitlin

@Dodie I do understand that there could potentially be a backstory to this child and his father. However, it's one thing to say no to ice cream as to not reward bad behavior. It's a totally different thing to tell your child in public nonetheless to "leave you alone." That is NOT the way to speak to a child. If the child has done something wrong, it is OUR job as parents to speak to them about their behavior and make them understand why it was wrong. The author also wrote that man jammed his fingers into his son’s collar bones until he winced in pain, and threatened him by saying, “If you so much as make a sound or come off of that wall again, I promise you’re going to get it when we get home." Do you honestly think threatening your child or using any type of violence on a child is right? Let's be honest, the threat didn't sound like a spanking. And again, this was done in public. I am a mother and I understand parents can get frustrated when out with their children especially during grocery shopping. However, this is still not something you a) say or do in public and b) say or do to a child. Children are going to make wrong choice or do silly or stupid things that is a given. It is again OUR job as parents to guide them, help them understand right from wrong, talk to them, and most of all LOVE them no matter if they do the wrong thing or the right thing. You 100% missed the point of the article. Right away you blamed the child because the child may have done the wrong thing on the way to Costco. You did not even focus on what this child's father said, did and above all how this father made his child feel. If the father can make his child feel like that in public then I could only imagine how he would make him feel at home. I truly feel sad for you Dodie. Maybe you shouldn't be a teacher because i too am a teacher, a 3rd grade teacher to be exact. I teach in an area where not all the parents teach their children right from wrong and some don't give a shit about their kids half the time. I know what it's like to have students think things are supposed to be just handed to them because many of the parents in the area where I teach are on welfare and refuse to get a job. Their kids all believe they should have everything given to them. Knowing all of this, instead of being mad at the children or blaming them, I empathize with them. Again, I truly feel sad for you.

gamerghanda
gamerghanda

@NoMoreChildAbuse are you serious you are the reason kids cant go to the park alone anymore you call the cops over the smallest bullshit. you think you're doing good but you don't know if his home life is better. you just assume that because he wants him to be calm at the store that he must be beating him or some shit.