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You Just Broke Your Child. Congratulations.

Young Child Looking Sad

Dads. Stop breaking your children. Please.

I feel a need to write this post after what I witnessed at Costco yesterday. Forgive me for another post written in desperation and anger. Please read all the way to the end. I know it’s long, but this is something that needs to be said. It’s something that needs to be heard. It’s something that needs to be shared.

As Noah and I stood in line to make a return, I watched as a little boy (he couldn’t have been older than six) looked up at his dad and asked very timidly if they could buy some ice cream when they were done. The father glared him down, and through clenched teeth, growled at the boy to “leave him alone and be quiet”. The boy quickly cowered to the wall where he stood motionless and hurt for some time.

The line slowly progressed and the child eventually shuffled back to his father as he quietly hummed a childish tune, seemingly having forgotten the anger his father had just shown. The father again turned and scolded the boy for making too much noise. The boy again shrunk back and cowered against the wall, wilted.

I was agitated. I was confused. How could this man not see what I see? How could this man not see what a beautiful spirit stood in his shadow? How could this man be so quick to stub out all happiness in his own boy? How could this man not cherish the only time he’ll ever have to be everything to this boy? To be the person that matters most to this boy?

We were three from the front now, and the boy started to come towards his dad yet again. His dad immediately stepped out of the line, jammed his fingers into his son’s collar bones until he winced in pain, and threatened him. “If you so much as make a sound or come off of that wall again, I promise you’re going to get it when we get home.” The boy again cowered against the wall. This time, he didn’t move. He didn’t make a sound. His beautiful face pointed down, locked to the floor and expressionless. He had been broken. And that’s how his father wanted it. He didn’t want to deal with him, and breaking him was the easiest way.

And we wonder why so many of our kids grow up to be screwed up.

I’m going to be blunt. People see my relationship with Noah, and quite often put me up on a pedestal or sing my praises for loving him more than most dads love their own kids.

Damn it. I don’t understand that, and I’ll never understand that. Loving my son, building my son, touching my son, playing with my son, being with my son… these aren’t tasks that only super dads can perform. These are tasks that every dad should perform. Always. Without fail. There is nothing special about me. I am a dad who loves his son and would literally do anything for his well-being, safety, and health. I would gladly take a rake in the face or a jackhammer to my feet before I cut my own son down or make him feel small.

[sigh] I am far from a perfect dad. And I always will be. But I’m a damn good dad, and my son will always feel bigger than anything life can throw at him. Why? Because I get it. I get the power a dad has in a child’s life, and in a child’s level of self-belief. I get that everything I ever do and ever say to my son will be absorbed, for good or for bad. What I don’t get is how some dads don’t get it…

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11498 comments
Keri77
Keri77

what an awesome article! I am literally crying and can totally relate. My husband, step-dad to my boys, often yells at any little thing my 12 year old does wrong and it kills me to see the look on his face every time it happens.  He often feels like he does nothing right and I feel he has started to just not care.  He's having trouble following rules and doing what is asked of him because he feels he's just going to get in trouble anyway.  I'm hoping and praying that having him read this will make a difference.  He's a great guy and has so much to offer my boys I can't understand why he always reverts to yelling and put downs.  I pray to God on a daily basis that something gives before its too late and my son is so affected by the negativity that there is not fixing it.


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Womi


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Womi
Womi

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CarolenAndrew
CarolenAndrew

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Womi
Womi

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Womi
Womi

I contacted Mother Deity, after wasting time on other so called witches, psychics and occultists.  I spent thousands of dollars with no results.  Up to the point where I contacted Mother Deity I had NO contact with the person Mother Deity is helping to bring back to me permanently.  I realized Mother Deity was special, because:  the day and moment Mother Deity received my imprints, the guy in question asked me to call him, after two months of NO contact at all. CONTACT mother deity via EMAIL: [email protected]

Womi
Womi

Mother Deity, thank you for everything you have done so far.  We both know that Jon has re-invented the concept of stubbornness and deceit, but I have all the faith in the world that you will return him to me a better person, when Divinity deems the time right.CONTACT mother deity via EMAIL: [email protected]

Womi
Womi

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Womi
Womi

I have known Mother Deity for over a year now.  I came to Mother Deity after much searching and frustration.  The love of my life, and the man I believe to be my soul mate had left me because of my stupidity.  Though now as I write this testimonial, I realize that the separation was the best thing to ever happen.  For me it has been a time to learn about myself and the way I treat my partner.  I have grown much over the last year and continue to grow even now…CONTACT mother deity via EMAIL: [email protected]

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Womi

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CaraGia
CaraGia

So well written. Thank you for sharing such an impassioned and empowering message. It's needed today more so than ever. I sent this to my ex and sincerely hope he reads it. God bless you, Dan! 

Janet
Janet

I wish all dads were as "ordinary" as you. I'm married to a wonderful man who is an awesome dad, just like you. What most people fail to understand is that love is sacrifice. When I'm making a sandwich using the last of the peanut butter and jam in the house and my child walks into the kitchen and says, "I'm hungry." What do I do? I give them the sandwich I just finished making for myself. Many people don't get that. That's what love is. My kids are teenagers now and they are amazing young people. My husband and I look at each other and know that at least we got this one right. We're so proud of our kids.

shelleyguertin
shelleyguertin

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Guest
Guest

One of my best moments as a Dad is when my young son first told himself that he had done a "good job" because I didn't tell him fast enough.  These were the words he hears from me, so they are the words he hears about himself in his head.  I wouldn't have it any other way.  He usually wakes up cranky, but I always greet him with excitement in my voice and a smile on my face.  He, having just crawled out of bed, may seem seem to ignore me, but he will never doubt that I am happy to see him. 

DavidEric1
DavidEric1

I am David Eric,I want to say thank to dr.trust for everything he did in my life. To everyone who doesn't believe in spell, I was one like you at first. I wasn't quite sure if I wanted to do this since I've tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read so many testimonials of dr.tust how he help people to get back their ex lover. dr.tust  answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my ex girlfriend back. So my story is that I was at my office when the girl I suppose to marry  told me that she wasn't in love with me and never will it be and that she didn't want to speak or see me again, especially since she was talking to this other guy. i email dr.trust and tell him everything.he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the one that was to get her back to me and stay with me and  to marry me.As soon as he finish the spells, my girlfriend came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful to him, that is why i am sharing this testimony to those who need his help. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what dr.trust said would happen. I’m very happy for the love spell dr.trust have done for me, my ex girlfriend is now back to me and we are living so happy. if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! contact is email address ([email protected] or [email protected] tell +2348156885231) David Eric

Nikki
Nikki

I think you are making assumptions. You do not see the private life of this son and his father, you saw a micro-snippet at best. Heck, you didn't see what they were doing right before or after standing in line. Seems to me this is a holier than thou post and you need to get off you soapbox and stop assuming you are the only super father. There is no inspiration here, just judging when you have no real evidence.

CindyPendergrass
CindyPendergrass

Thank you so much for this blog. This really weighs heavy on my heart. I'm a mom and although I love my daughter with everything I have, I know there are times I can come across as harsh. It hurts my heart to see her feelings hurt by something I've said and I immediately apologize, but you can't retract words or anger once you've put them out there. Your article is forcing me to reexamine the way I respond to my daughter and hopefully improve myself as a mother. Thank you for the awakening!

Claire
Claire

This is THE most wonderful and emotional thing i have read for quite some time. Your son is a very, very lucky boy :) :)

Bravo for speaking up in such an inspirational way. I hope many dads take notice.xx

SandraAlvarez1
SandraAlvarez1

I and my boy friend as been separated for a long period, I cam across different spell caster and they were all unable to bring my lover back. I was so sad and almost gave up on him when i met a spell man called DR OLOKUM, who helped me get my lover back. Ever since then i have been so happy and couldnt believe it would happen. He also helped me with success spell, I have been living happily with my lover now and will be getting married soon. Here is his contact if you need his help. [email protected]  

Womi
Womi

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JamesHansce
JamesHansce

My name is Lorna Harron, and I base in USA...My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr jaja , which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped Dr jaja e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before Dr jaja, is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man... If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High [email protected] anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here's his contact: [email protected]

LillyBerrend
LillyBerrend

I'm currently going to school to be an elementary teacher and im focused on early childhood as well. Its incredible the impact this kind of treatment really does affect children. These are the children that don't learn well and continue to fall behind. It truly is heartbreaking. 

kjb1025
kjb1025

This is some of the best parenting advise I have ever read.  The only thing I would have changed is that it should have been aimed toward moms and dads.  Dads are not the only parents that belittle their kids or walk out on their families.  I know many wonderful dads as well as many wonderful moms, but I also know a handful of moms, as well as dads, that should step up to the plate and be the parents their kids deserve.

don Fefinho
don Fefinho

Those filthy, nasty, evil dads. Thank God that moms are the epitomes of perfection and nothing like nagging kids to substance abuse or suicide happens under them.

AnnieJames
AnnieJames

Am so excited and i really want to thank GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION a very POWERFUL and i mean a very POWERFUL female spell caster for getting my husband back to me within 2 days. My name is Annie James and when my husband left me and our two kids to suffer i was so tired and frustrated and i thought all hope was lost until i came across this GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION on her email at [email protected]  and i was reading how she has helped so many people with different problems so i contacted and i explained my problem to her and she laughed and told me to calm down that my problem is so simple and that she will help me in two days time my husband will come back home again and i really believed her without any doubt. Can you imagine just as this POWERFUL WOMAN said in two days time my husband called me and started begging for forgiveness. In fact words won't be enough to thank this POWERFUL WOMAN called GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION and i assure you that If you want all your problems to be solved contact GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION now on her email at  [email protected]  and she will help you because she is so real, reliable, trust worthy and very powerful. Please i mean please i advise you all to believe and listen to her because she is very real and unique. Thank you GREAT MOTHER and may your good gods always bless you for your wonderful deeds and good works. Once again thank you GREAT MOTHER.

AnnieJames
AnnieJames

Am so excited and i really want to thank GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION a very POWERFUL and i mean a very POWERFUL female spell caster for getting my husband back to me within 2 days. My name is Annie James and when my husband left me and our two kids to suffer i was so tired and frustrated and i thought all hope was lost until i came across this GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION on her email at [email protected]  and i was reading how she has helped so many people with different problems so i contacted and i explained my problem to her and she laughed and told me to calm down that my problem is so simple and that she will help me in two days time my husband will come back home again and i really believed her without any doubt. Can you imagine just as this POWERFUL WOMAN said in two days time my husband called me and started begging for forgiveness. In fact words won't be enough to thank this POWERFUL WOMAN called GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION and i assure you that If you want all your problems to be solved contact GREAT MOTHER OF SOLUTION now on her email at  [email protected]  and she will help you because she is so real, reliable, trust worthy and very powerful. Please i mean please i advise you all to believe and listen to her because she is very real and unique. Thank you GREAT MOTHER and may your good gods always bless you for your wonderful deeds and good works. Once again thank you GREAT MOTHER.

ldl01
ldl01

I totally agree with everything you just wrote and agree there are too many children being mentally abused by their own parents, and not just dads.  It's a shame and heartbreaking to see a little child broken.  I had the very opposite kind of dad.  Bless all the little children who have been broken and give them strength to try and understand that it's not their fault but their parents inadequacies.

matildamor97
matildamor97

I’m Mercy Brown by name I have a few testimony to share with you all about myself, I was in a relationship with this guy and for 3years and we were about getting married when we both have misunderstanding with each other and he ask me for a divorce and we both agreed and after 4months I head that he was having an affair with one of my closest friend and I was very upset and worried so a friend of my advice me and told me if I still love my ex and if I really want to have him back so I told her yes, and she ask me to contact Dr iayaryi the spell caster and I did although I never believe on spell so he gave me something when he was casting the spell and ask me to say my wishes on it and after the casting of the spell a receive a phone call from my ex and was ask me at which I did and now we are back together again I’m so happy and I wish not to ever have this mistake again in my life. I will also advice anyone with this kind of issue to contact him for help he is really nice on phone and always there to answer you question giving you the good advice that you need. his email is ([email protected])

Liz
Liz

Your kids are lucky to have you. I became a Christian as an older teen and God as a father was a foreign concept to me. You'll be happy to know that there were honest real men who then stepped in and filled the sport that my dad never did. Maybe one day you'll be that for someone. There's no way to be a perfect dad. There are millions of ways to be a great one.

Shlynne
Shlynne

Great words of encouragement.  But, may I add one thing...  When you see this happening straight in front of you, don't turn the other way and put your own head down, pretending not to notice.  Instead, face the offender and speak up, show the child that someone has their back. Otherwise, your only further proving to the child that the offender has all the power and he has nothing.  Defeated.   Something to remember is a crowd full of people standing by watching and doing nothing are just as guilty as the offender.

GregLumpkin
GregLumpkin

Yesterday, I was playing with my son as we waited for my daughter at her dance class. One of the moms told me she thought I was a great dad. I enjoyed the comment, but honestly, I don't think I really deserved it. I have anger issues sometimes but I'm working on it. Thanks for the article.

MissyKay
MissyKay

you are so right. and i know as a mom and watching my husband and   son it's not always easy but makes all the difference! i wish more men thought like you do!

AlbertMark1
AlbertMark1

I want to share my testimony to you all which i believe you can still try your best to give a testimony like me so i was married to james at first will both love each other but short time he started a new behavior which i cannot even explain to any one then i keep it to my self hoping one day he will change for good no way he did not change so i was in pain every day don’t no what to do on till one day when a friend of mine visited me in my office she met me crying then she was asking me what is going on i try to be cam but i could not then i open up to her telling me there is a way out which i will do before he left me with my kids i look up and not knowing what to do then i ask her to tell me. shortly she open up to me and say there is a man called Dr ekpenspelltemple he is a spirit man he can do it with in two days then i look an said okay i will try my best to contact him three days later, my husband did not come home i called his phone switch off then i try my possible best i did not hear from him so i began to look for one way for a help so i remember my friend told me about one man call Dr ekpenspelltemple i quickly run to my friend asking her if she still have Dr ekpenspelltemple contact then she gave it to me that was how i contacted this great man of spirit he did it for me so quick so now i can now control my husband in any thing even i can tell him that i don’t want him outside today he will not. Now i have a happy family so via email;dr ekpenspelltemple@gmail.

KateJudd1
KateJudd1

After being in relationship with my lover for five years, he left me for another woman. I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love we shared and I knew we could still be together, I begged him with everything, I made promises and all but he refused. Luckily a friend of mine suggested that I contact a famous spell caster dr Sanu that she is 100% sure he could help me cast a spell to bring my ex back but I was the type that never believed in spells, though I had no choice than to give it a try. I mailed the the spell caster through his mail [email protected], and he told me there was no problem that everything will be okay before three days, that my ex will return to me in two days, he cast the spell and surprisingly on the second day, it was around 5pm when my ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that has happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. I truly don't know how much to thank Dr Sanu for his greatness because the love of my life is back to me and our relationship is more secured than ever, that makes me happy and wants to tell all those out there that is going through any breakup that a great spell caster exists and he is dr Sanu, he is truly a man with dignity. Again [email protected]

MorganKeri
MorganKeri

My name is morgan keri.i want to give thanks to dr.trust for bringing back my ex husband.No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Trust is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn’t seem to care. and he brake up with me again.I was confuse and do not no what to do again,rather them to get in contact with dr.trust. He did a love spell that make my husband come back to me. we are now very much happy with our self. dr.trust make him to realize how much we love and need each other.This man is for REAL and for good.he can also help you to fix your broken relationship. I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counseling, and we’re doing very, very well,in our love life.contact email([email protected] or [email protected] tel:+234186885231)

JeriEdwards
JeriEdwards

Thank you for sharing this story. It is so heartbreaking to say the least. 

Im a mother of 5 and grandmother of 5 and I cant imagine anyone treating a child that way. Children are very special gifts from above which we are entrusted with. 


jannahappy
jannahappy

This was a mix of sadness and happiness for me reading this. I recently got out of a bad marriage in which I stayed too long because I actually thought it would be better for my children and I wasn't financially ready to stand on my own. This described what it was like for our children quite often, especially my daughter. Not quite as extreme but "breaking" them is EXACTLY what he did. Our children are bright spirits and our daughter, especially, is the kind of girl who bounces happily from thing to thing and is genuinely excited to be with you and just around you.  He would be happy and a great dad one day and then exactly the same as the father you describe the next, making everyone walk on eggshells because we never knew what we would get.  I used to tell him that what they would remember wouldn't be the things he bought them or the places he took them but THE WAY HE MADE THEM FEEL. Unfortunately I am not there to help regulate what happens when they are in his custody. But my daughter is now 13 and is in therapy to help her deal with him on a day to day basis and she is doing an incredible job. She is strong, still bright and spirited, and happy. 


The happiness is because I met an incredible man who isn't quite their step dad yet but is the best fatherly role model I could ask for and they all love each other. They still go to their dad's regularly but hopefully our influence and positivity are showing them what loving relationships should be. What you describe as being what should be expected and normal for a father to be is exactly what he has said too. Thank you for writing this. 

Van10
Van10

@Keri77  Who comes first? I do not mean to be rude or disrespectful in any fashion but put it into perspective, who comes first?Yyour precious child that might never feel worth anything here in life due to your BF's constant putdowns or does your BF`s anger issues come first?

Love your child and prove it while you CAN make a difference! <3

heatherino08
heatherino08

@Keri77 Could it be that maybe that's what his Dad did with him? I will pray that things work out for you.

heatherino08
heatherino08

@Nikki Are you freaking kidding me Nikki? What this man was doing to his son was child abuse. You call Dan's post holier than thou? You're wrong. I think if this man treats his son like this in public you can probably bet your bottom dollar it's probably worse for that poor boy at home. No where in his article did Dan say he thought he was a super father Nikki. By chance was that your husband and son Nikki? Because you sound awfully offended about the whole thing. Maybe that was your kid your husband was mistreating in public. Sound familiar Nikki? Situation hitting a nerve Nikki?


SandraAlvarez1
SandraAlvarez1



My husband has abandon me and the kids for the the past 8months now, and refuse to come back because he was hold on by a woman whom he just met, for that, my self and the kids has been suffering and it has been heel of a struggle, but I decide to do all means to make sure that my family come together as it use to, then I went online there I saw so many good talk about this spell caster whose email is [email protected] so I had to contact him and in just 4days as he has promised, my husband came home and his behavior was back to the man I got married to.I cant thank the spell caster enough what what he did for me, I am so grateful. I even spoke to the spell caster over the phone, to confirm his existence. His email again is: [email protected] 


ArjenDavisha
ArjenDavisha

i want to use this medium to testify of how i got back my ex boyfriend. After 4 years in relationship with my husband with 3 kids, he suddenly started going out with other ladies and coming home late, most at times drunk and each time i confront him about this it turns out to be fight, he even threatened to divorce me severally, I was emotionally devastated because i was not sure of what to do to make him love me again, I tried all i could to make him love me again but all proved abortive until i saw a post on the internet on how a spell caster Dr. Zaki helps people restore back their broken relationship/marriage at first i doubted this but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell caster via email he helped me cast a re-union spell and within 5hours my husband came to me apologizing and today we are happily together again. Contact this great spell caster on your marriage and relationship problems at [email protected] THANKS FOR READING THIS

a mom
a mom

@don Fefinho Put the word mom in where dad is and it applies just as well. Takes mom and dad to make a child and takes mom and dad to raise a child. 

AngelinaaWatson
AngelinaaWatson

Oh for heavens sake, turn it into a battle of the sexes. The guy simply told a story of what he saw. No where in this story did it say anything about mothers let alone how perfect they are.. Why do you seem so offended anyways? Mommy issues? Or you're a sh*tty father?

Womi
Womi

@AngelinaaWatson REVENGE SPELLS and JUSTICE SPELLS
If you are seeking Revenge Spells like Curses, Hex, Black Magic, Witchcraft and VooDoo Dolls you may be surprised at what you find. Revenge Spells are a very tricky thing to find. Legit and effective Revenge Spells are actually called "JUSTICE SPELLS" and are cast by professional Spell Casters to help a client get justice for being hurt or for being wronged.
Here at Modern Love Spells we offer Revenge Spells but the true definition is JUSTICE SPELLS. These Spell Castings are cast for our clients with several goals. Mainly, justice is being sought. Many times a client will need a Revenge Spell cast for him or her because they were wronged by an ex lover. The reason you may need a Revenge Spell or a Justice Spell is irreverent.
If the Casting is Justified or not is entirely up to you. We simply offer the Justice Spell (revenge spell) and you decide who the Casting is for.
Below are a few types of Revenge Spells or Justice Spells and their names. Each Casting is different from the last and creates a different result of course. Let us look at a few names for common Revenge Spells or Curses.
POWERFUL REVENGE SPELLS/ CURSES / BLACK MAGIC And WITCHCRAFT SPELLS
HEX SPELLS - Hex Spells are very powerful Revenge Spells cast to seriously disrupt a persons life with negative Morphic based energies. The results of a HEX Spell Casting can range from simple bad luck to disasters happening in a persons life. One after the next. The same form of energy is used as in common Love Spells - Morphic Energy. This potent energy is used to infuse a person with ANTI - POSITIVE attraction energies. As a result, nothing positive manifests in a persons life. Only bad luck and negative situations arise.
CURSES & CURSE BASED SPELLS - Similar to the HEX Spell, the Curse is a Morphic Spell Casting that infuses a person with negative attraction energies. The biggest difference between the HEX Spell and the CURSE Spell is the power level. HEX Spells are roughly 10 to 50 times as powerful as the basic CURSE Spell Castings. In addition, Curses can be reversed with ease in 99% of all castings while HEX Spells are very difficult if not impossible to cancel or reverse. 90% of HEX Castings are permanent. This is another reason most legit and reputable online Spell Casters do not offer HEX Castings. If you are searching for an online Revenge Spell we strongly suggest choosing a CURSE Spell over a HEX Spell. Let us look at the top reasons WHY you should choose CURSE Revenge Spells over HEX Revenge Spells.
 CURSES AND CURSE SPELLS CAN BE REVERSED - The type of Morphic Energy used in the Casting is very flexable and therefore can be shaped and directed far easier. This is a positive aspect because many clients decide later on they want the negative energies to stop creating so much bad luck and misfortune.
        LEGIT HEX SPELLS ARE VERY RARE - Even if you DO decide a HEX Spell is in order, finding a legit and effective HEX Spell Caster can be very difficult. ONLY find in www.quickrevengespell.com, As we mentioned, Be very diligent when searching for HEX Spell Casters if you need a Revenge Spell cast.
        CURSES and CURSE SPELLS ARE MORE AFFORDABLE - A legit HEX Casting can cost anywhere from $100 to $10,000. These prices are quite a bit higher then the cost of a basic Curse Casting.
THE SAME FACTORS APPLY TO REVENGE SPELLS THAT APPLY TO LOVE SPELLS
As we explain within this site, we use powerful Morphic Spell Energy to create binding and attraction energies. The same principle applies to Revenge Spells, Hex's, Curses and other Justice Spells. The difference is the attraction energies focus on NEGATIVE RESULTS and NEGATIVE SITUATIONS.
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