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[sigh] Today is another Single Dad Ranting post.

I am admittedly very upset right now over a heated conversation that just took place, and I don’t know where else to release that steam. I’m sure I’ll step on some toes in the process. I usually do. Frankly, I don’t care this time. Dads need to stop leaving their kids, and I’m tired of men not being the ones to say it. I’m tired of the world tip-toeing around these guys’ feelings. I’m really tired of society acting like such behavior is now “normal” or “expected”. I’m tired of the media making light of it. I’m tired of the emails and comments from endless mothers who’ve been thrown under the bus. More than anything, I’m tired of dads not taking their responsibilities and duties seriously.

As far as I can tell, there are three kinds of dads who willingly “leave” their kids.

The first simply leaves. He packs up, he walks away, and he wants nothing to do with his child or his child’s mother.

This man is not a man at all. He is a coward. He is a lazy and an ignorant little boy who cares nothing for those whom he has been enlisted to provide for and protect. His self-centeredness and narcissism rank him among the most selfish human beings on the planet. He is a quitter, a deserter, and a weakling.

Sadly, he’ll never fully realize what he left behind. His own rationalizations and reasoning blind him to anything but a life of justification and attempts to forget his wrongful deed. He’ll never know of the hundreds of Saturday morning snuggles that could have been his. He’ll never know of the hundreds of colorful drawings his child would have handed him over the years, made with tiny loving hands just for him. He’ll never realize that he left behind so many trips to the park or the zoo. He’ll never know of the camping trips, fishing excursions and soccer games that without doubt would have filled him so much happiness. He’ll never realize that his self-absorption caused him to leave behind every bedtime story, pancake breakfast, bike ride, and tuck-in.

Even more sadly, he’ll never realize that he left behind a tiny person that would have looked at him as his hero. He’ll never know that he left a child who would have trusted him and loved him more than any other person reasonably should. And he’ll also never know that he left a child who would have done anything to be like him. To be like his daddy.

He’ll never understand or take responsibility for the giant hole in his child’s heart that will never be patched. He’ll never understand the anger and tears that his child will experience as he tries to comprehend a father that would vanish, and without sensible explanation. He’ll also never understand just how much harder his child’s life is going to be because of his absence.

No, fathers like this never realize, understand, or comprehend any of it. They can’t. A person can’t miss what they don’t know they never had.

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Maybe it’s wrong of me, but I have neither room in my heart, nor in my ability to understand these types of fathers. I have no compassion for them. In my best attempts to fathom their decisions, I have only found anger.

But there is another kind of father who leaves as well. This dad leaves in disguise. He works to make it appear that he’s not leaving at all. He, like that first man, cloaks himself in rationalization and reasoning. He shows up just often enough to pull off his ruse, and he goes to bed each night feeling good about himself as the dad that he thinks himself to be. This second type is the divorced dad who by choice becomes nothing more than a weekend or a summer dad.

I cannot comprehend fathers that do this. I don’t understand how they can be okay with their choices, and I don’t understand how they can be okay offering such trace amounts of time and support to their children.

A dad like this is okay being a dad every other weekend and a couple weeks every summer. He’s okay spending such minimal and limited time with his child.  He’s okayletting his child’s mother do the vast majority of the raising, and he is often okay watching another man step into the picture and be the dominant father figure for his own children.

He doesn’t fight to constantly be with and near his child. He doesn’t fight to be a realdad to his child. He doesn’t really fight at all.Though, he probably claims that he does. He probably spends a lot of wasteful hours telling the people in his life that he did and is doing everything he can for his child. He probably has painted a picture so pretty that even he has started to believe it.

Many of these dads hide behind phone calls and text messages to their kids. They believe that a quick check-in every so often is sufficient enough to brand themselves as “there”. They lie to themselves, they lie to others, and they lie to their kids.

Many of these dads can be wrapped under the label of Disneyland Dads. They have their children so infrequently, that when they do, it’s nothing but fun and revelry. These dads really never parent at all. A dad like this convinces himself that as long as his kid is spoiled and happy when she leaves, he’s a good dad. He’s doing his duty. After all, his kid loves him…

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Dan Pearce is an American-born author, app developer, photographer, and artist. This blog, Single Dad Laughing, is what he's most known for, with nearly half a million daily subscribers as of 2015. Pearce writes mostly humorous and introspective works, as well as his musings which span from fatherhood, to dating, to life, to the people and dynamics of society. Single Dad Laughing is much more than a blog. It's an incredible community of people just being real and awesome together!
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Aramudele
Aramudele



MARRIAGE RESTORED! My name is Elizabeth Degado from Australia. my husband asked to pack out of the house with my kids and go because he wasn't interested in me anymore. He said all the abusive words and said am not a good wife because I wasn't working, instead I was wasting his money so contacted this Strong Healer a week ago after reading Miracles about his spell over the net I consulted this strong man for a love spell, crying not knowing what to do. he told me that he will cast a return lover spell that same day. It didn't take time for my husband to call me apologizing and begging me to come home. The tender that i was waiting for was approved and he started telling me that am a good wife so I must forgive him for the bad things he had said. My husband asked me to look for any University of my choice and will take care of my fees.  Thanks so much Dr Okolia Email : [email protected], for the Faith and Trust he showed me all along... Email:  

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Aramudele
Aramudele

MARRIAGE RESTORED! My name is Elizabeth Degado from Australia. my husband asked to pack out of the house with my kids and go because he wasn't interested in me anymore. He said all the abusive words and said am not a good wife because I wasn't working, instead I was wasting his money so contacted this Strong Healer a week ago after reading Miracles about his spell over the net I consulted this strong man for a love spell, crying not knowing what to do. he told me that he will cast a return lover spell that same day. It didn't take time for my husband to call me apologizing and begging me to come home. The tender that i was waiting for was approved and he started telling me that am a good wife so I must forgive him for the bad things he had said. My husband asked me to look for any University of my choice and will take care of my fees.  Thanks so much Dr Okolia Email : [email protected], for the Faith and Trust he showed me all along... Email:  

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the Kid20
the Kid20

You forgot the 4th Dad! That is I and a pile of others who pay their child support, Pay child care, pay for activities, Pay for almost everything for their kids and lives with nothing. Also I might add we Dads are the ones that are left behind because our ex wives took our kids a very long distance away and breaches every court order ruled. We are the Dads that never put the kids in the firing line, We are the Dads that hardly ever see their kids activities and we are the Dads living in a basement apartment while our ex wives reap the benefits that the law set forth. We are the Dads that our ex's alienate us from our kids! We are the Dads that drive 2 1/2 hours to pick up the kids and our ex's refuse to bring them. We are the Dads that have to wait for a court date to even address the problem! We are the Dads that sold everything that meant anything to them to buy the kids clothes because their mother won't send any with them when they do finally come to visit. We are the Dads that finally give up because it is a losing battle between the courts and our ex's! Today I have made a decision to walk away because the pain in my kids eyes during the exchange from the yelling and screaming at me my ex does in front of them is heartbreaking! I am not paying anything anymore so now she can come after me to go to court! I have been alienated from my children by her....and enough is enough! If you don't like the 4th Dad....Too bad, That is the reason we walk away.....!

singleteenmom
singleteenmom

@the Kid20  I'm sorry--that is a poor excuse.  Go to counseling with your ex-wife, learn to behave like two grown adults that happen to have children that need them.  Your ex-wife sounds difficult, but your children should not pay the price of not having a father.  Enlist a mediator, do something but God forbid don't walk away from your children, your own flesh and blood.  Not paying will only land you in jail and they will come after you.  Your ex sounds like a B but do not allow her to destroy your children's lives and yours. 

His mommy means more
His mommy means more

How about a dad and husband who decides life is too hard so he goes home to mommy; A mommy who entices him home by paying him wages, and buying him everything he wants just to keep control of him! My husband and I have been married 25 years and I hate to see all that time together go to waste, we have been through a lot of hard things together and we stood the test of time together, but this has been very difficult to take . We have taken a back seat to my husbands mom.. He calls every night to talk to me, but never asks to talk to our children; daughter 20, son 11. I have to ask don't you want to talk to your kids? Then he will say yes and talk to them for a while.

He originally made these plans to move over to his moms, with his mom. He never included me or our children in the decision. It has been very hard on me as well as our children, we cry a lot; well except my son, he acts out in other ways. I have tried to show my husband what he is doing because he doesn't seem to understand what he is doing., but when I bring it to his attention; that our family should come before his mother, he turns it on me and gets mad and says that I said, I want a divorce, when I never even once mentioned the word. So I have stopped saying anything about this arrangement.  He used to be such a good man, always caring, hard worker, and taking time with the kids. I don't know what happened to him, why the change. I know for a fact he is with his mom and she won't let him out of her sight, so it is not an affair, at least not with any other woman but his mom, that is how I feel about it. My children and I travel back and forth from our home to where he is at, at his mothers, but it is really hard on us. You may ask why we don't move there, well it is a long story, but part has to do with the fact that we take care of my 91 year old dad; the best example of a father ever! My dad has never meddled in our marriage or parenting. My husband agreed to this arrangement, after my mother passed away; he takes, or I should say took care of the yard and house, and I made the meals etc...the other reason; my children and I hate it there where he has gone, I don't feel welcome by my mother in law, and it is a very rural area. Plus I have lived here 40+ years of my life, our friends are here, etc... It really broke my heart again as I read your "Dads don't leave" article, because I see so much of what you wrote about, in my husband and it never really hit me as hard as when I seen it in print! When things get tough he quits, gives up, leaves...I hate to say this but he's the coward! I can't stop crying, how can a man be so selfish, callous and unfeeling for his own family?! I don't understand!


soulman713
soulman713

Hurting pretty bad I have been engadged to the love of my life for 4 years and she told me 5 days ago that she needs ti find herself and cant do that with me. we have a 2 year old son. they are my world. I understood what she meant about needing to find herself and was fine with it it just hurts so bad that she seems to have moved on within the same hr. i dont really feel like going on any more. my son is all that keeps me going. im not intrested in meeting someone new. I gave up everything for her and gave her anything she ever needed or asked for. Now im alone surrounded by nothing but our friends that seemed to just try to get with her now that shes not with me. I need some help here i really cant go on like this.

Katie
Katie

The father of my daughter is #2 I guess. She's 7 months old and he has seen her 5 times, never more than a few hours at a time though. I send pictures all the time and try to text him at least once a week, sometimes I text him every day. He acts like he wants to be there for her around his family, but it is like pulling teeth to get him to even see her (I had to go through his mom last time). He lives 2 1/2 hours away with the mother of his first child and expecting their 2nd son together (his 3rd child) in September. He is very busy. And I try to travel down to where he lives as much as possible and always offer to drop by with her. I never get responses from him. I am tired of fighting to get him to be a real dad. I'm not even sure if it is possible with him being so busy with his job his first child. Also speaking of his first child, maybe it's just because he lives with him, but I feel lots of favoritism already. I don't want her growing up with a dad who is barely there and always favoring his other children above her. It sucks trying to be the one to get him to see her and him never giving a damn. I feel my patience wearing thin, and I'm not sure how long I should try (or how long I can stand trying) to make him be in her life.

Now she does have a father figure in her life and he is my dad. He has been a real dad to me my entire life even if it meant tough love sometimes. He is the best and I love seeing the way my daughter lights up when he gets home from work, I only wish that her real father could do that.

KimberlyMarie
KimberlyMarie

Thank you....my husband was/is all three, he was number three for years, never going to the park with us, events, teakwondo classes....nothing came between himself and, well, himself. I loved him completely, totally devoted, and not a bad looking wife, our children have autism, and are perfect. They are sweet, lovable, loving, laughing, precious children. Then, he became number two to his children from previous relationships, eventually becoming number one to all of them. I guess he feels tha moving across the states, saying his reason for doing so was so that he didn't have to babysit his children was what he wanted....yet, why then, did he, a fifty year old man with a family, take on a girlfriend younger than his oldest child? I am sickened, disgusted...I pity him....stupid, stupid man is missing out on so much love. Our children were devastated, now, they hope to never see or hear him again. I forced my children to call him. He was very abusive mentally, emotionally, and financially, and still is. Refuses to pay support, and has become so incredibly nasty, blaming all of his faults and actions on me. I let him because I pity him. And because I really don't care what the new girlfriend thinks of me, she will learn, I just hope she doesn't get pregnant first.

So, thank you for this, for writing, for caring, for seeing. Thank you.

Rhiannom
Rhiannom

My husband is the second type. He walked out last July and now has a new family with a new baby on the way. This weekend just gone, he dumped our daughter at his mum's so he could spend the weekend with his girlfriend. I went and picked her up. It breaks my heart because she's three and when she asks for her dad, I don't know what to say. I've pushed and pushed for him to make more effort but since he left, he's treated her like she's secondary to everything and hasn't paid a penny in support. I work part time and try to give her everything. I understand he doesn't love me any more and hasn't for some time....but why does it feel like he stopped loving her as well???

Dawn
Dawn

I love this article. It gives me hope that real men still exist. 

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There is a lot i have to say but i really don't know were to start from. I guess i will have to build my story, that is life story form the begin but will try has much to make it short. I fell in love with my boyfriend Daxson about three years ago and since then we have being living together. We are not married or engaged because like he said he wanted to finish his med school and all that. I was not even bothered because we were in love and as long as there is love who really need marriage and somehow even with all the stress he was going through, he finds the time to make me feel loved always. He is literally the definition caring. But here is the twister i never knew or rather he never told me he was scared for being a father at least we never talk about it because it never crossed our mind and we always i mean always played it safe. I was on my pills and he always used protection. Like they say, i guess when its time its time like, i got pregnant. Looking at it then i will say, that was my greatest mistake in life only now i see a baby is really a blessing. Ok let me go back on track. When i told him about it, i couldn't say he was happy or sad but he had an expression on his face like "de f*** i ve got med school and now this ?" but he assured me, it was fine and he was happy and we are going to do it together as a family and i wished all that where true. On my third trimester, he said to my face he was not ready to be a father and was not going to do it with me anymore and that he doesn't think he is gonna be a good father. We all know its hard to believe soon we all gonna be parents but for real, it comes when we are not even prepared for it and all we can do then is accept it as it comes. I tried to make him see what he was doing to me and his baby i mean i loved him so much and i was the happiest woman alive to be carrying his child i just wished he was too. He was not even there to see his girl when she was born he just left me and our baby. I could not understand why i was just too heart broken knowing that he has been the only one in my life for three years and now he just left me with some silly excuse i could not understand. I literally became a single mom for four months before Metodo Acamu a witch doctor helped me get back the man i love. Its not like i couldn't do it all alone i mean take care of my baby girl its just that i loved him so much that i could not leave without him and all i could think of was him. Even with all that happened i could not bring myself to hate him i was only heart broken and wished i could get him back. When i contact Motodo Acamu ,he asked me to get some materials of which he was going to use to prepare a spell that was coming to reunite me, Daxson and April my baby girl. I sent him the money for the materials because it was less stressful and he made me see he was an honest and truthful witch doctor. He helped me a lot, he sent a package to me which i paid for . He told me to burning the content of package with the incense he sent along with the content of the package and in seven days Daxson will be my one and only again. Just as Metodo Acamu said it happened. I can say i was surprise because i have never done this kind of thing before and i was not so sure how it will play out. Though i made Daxson beg, i had to let him into my life and that of April again because that was all i ever wanted. And the spell is totally safe like Metodo Acamu told me and the love is real because the spell only made him see how much i mean to him and how much his life revolves around April and i . Everyone has his or her own opinion about the witch doctor Metodo Acamu but for me he is the reason my family is complete and happy if you want to Contact him use this email
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Kenna J
Kenna J

There is a fourth kind of dad who leaves that I think should be mentioned here. This type of dad is a very confused man.  He needs a lot of guidance that he never seems to get.  There are far more people who will support him in his evil ways than people who will point out that what he is doing is wrong, because, for some reason, society loves to blame the woman.  This is the kind of dad who leaves the mom and then, instead of trying to be a co-parent, instead of trying to be supportive to the mom, decides that loving his children means waging an enormous legal battle to take them away from their mother.  That's what he thinks being a good dad is.  Anything the mom tells him about the child, any trouble she or the child has with anything, instantly becomes a mine for ammunition for him to call Child Protective Services on her.  He tells the children during his parenting time that he's protecting them from their mother.  He encourages them to be informants for him on everything their mother does.  Any insecurity the children express to him to try to get comfort turns into a "Yes, that terrible mother of yours."  He has a new wife whom he's enrolled in this idea that they MUST get the children away from their mother.  He and his new wife's entire marriage becomes about trying to defeat the enemy, the children's mother.  There are a LOT of dads like this in the world, men who think their manliness is proven by how much money they have for attorney's fees and how they never let a woman's preference override their own-- unless they feel they own her. 

I don't like how this post uses the word FIGHT so much.  I don't think loving your children is about fighting anyone.  Maybe men have fights they need to do internally or in their own lives.  Maybe this is part of being a man, I wouldn't know.  But it doesn't need to be part of being a father.  There is no reason to turn fatherhood into a fight.  THAT IS NOT LOVE.

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(2), dacă aveți mereu coșmaruri.
(3) Vrei sa fie promovat în birou.
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(10) În cazul în care aveți nevoie de asistență financiară.
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RebeccaGeorge
RebeccaGeorge

I and my boyfriend have been dating for four year now and just last three months he told me, he no longer have feeling for me. He did not just say it like that he made it seem like it was his fault. He was like he has been thinking about his life and he feels like he doesn't know himself anymore and that he doesn't want to hurt me in the processes. I mean we all know those line i have used them and we all have the next words are always "I think we should take a break" which mean i want out of this relationship. I wish he told me all those things before he asked me to marry him i would totally move on with my life but now, it turn out that we were already engaged and for six months at that. I felt bonded to him my whole heart beats and skips just for him for the record his name is Sean. I tried all i could to get by knowing or having the thought in my heart that we could still fix us only to realize he broke up with me to actually date a girl i he meant. It was like he got tired of me or something. I basically never turned any of his request down what ever it was. Sean was literally the first guy i had sex with the every first day i meant them. Usually i make them wait for 40 day but with Sean everything felt right. Anytime i was with him i felt this pain in my heart it was like its bleeding but it was bleeding love. It was so magically that i can't just explain it. So living without him knowing he left me for another girl was torture. I tried to talking to him in every way i could to make him see i love him but it was impossible. He made me feel like trash like am good for nothing and he called me fat and ugly. That really broke me down i could not believe it that of every person i have ever dated the one i love the most called me fat and ugly. My friends asked me to stop fooling myself trying to make him love me again but i was too in love i mean the heart wants what it wants right? and the more i tried the more he hated me. I was tagged by his new girlfriend and himself a sociopath. I was losing it and i fell into depression. Heaven know i was gonna kill myself because i really had nothing to leave for and he didn't even care if i lived or died. I know this sound crazy but it was just what happened. Though we dating again with the help of a great and reliable witchdoctor Metodo Acamu, it still hurts a lot that i had to pass through all those pain. All my friend thought i was crazy because even when they tried to help me i pushed them all away so basically i was all alone in my world of pain i had already given up on life i mean i thought to myself if can't have Sean, i was not going to live to watch him be happy with someone else. As foolish and crazy as this my sound , it was what i almost did. I was going to kill him and kill myself after wards. I don't know, some how, maybe the universe wasn't totally again me i came across the name witch doctor Metodo Acamu and his email address on the Internet there were a lot of comments on how real, nice and how much he has helped a lot of people fix there relationship , money issues, jobs and lottery ticket i thought contacting him was the last thing i should try before pushing on with my plan to take the life of the man i love. Believe me i was so lucky to have contacted him. He told me if i had killed Sean i would have tried in so many ways to kill myself to join him but it won't have worked. I don't know how true that is but i know that i was asked to get some materials for the witch doctor to make a spell that will reunite me and my fiancé. I sent him the money for the materials only because i could not get them anyway. He helped me a lot he sent a package for me with ups of which i paid for to get to me from an international. He told me to say what i want when burning the content of package with something that has the smell of incense and that in seven days Sean will be mine again and believe me please that was just what happened. It was so spiritual and out of earth that i could not understand how but i knew it worked for me and it is totally safe like Metodo Acamu told me. I know this all sound crazy but its so true and real life so. You can only know when those who need Metodo Acamu help get it. Contact him her metodoacamufortressx@yah oo. com

GinyinerJoy
GinyinerJoy

I would just like to thank DR OSEGHALE for all his help and care during the time he cast a love spell for me,he was able to bring back my man after 8Months of Breakup, he encourage me not to worry that he was going to restore Husband back to me, although alot of poeple have been taking good about him on net that he was powerful and Godsent to save relationship, i never believed in spells , but afetr working with DR OSEGHALE, He gave me reasons to smile again, I highly recommend anyone to try him and believe in him it truly honestly works,,Thank u so much for helping me in my time of need.. i will be recommending you to my friends and anyone who needs help in their  lives Contact him through his email if you need his help ([email protected])

ElizaberthBarbara
ElizaberthBarbara

my name is Elizaberth barbara brown I am from usa i want to testify to the world about a great man who has made it possible for me to have a child of my own after 8years of barrenness i have nothing but shame until a friend of mine introduced me to a great man by name Dr igbudu of

[email protected],he told us that we will either conceive in Jan 2015 or Feb. 2 4,buttwo years of trying we were at a point where we were willing to try anything. And I'm glad we came to Dr igbudu of zaza kingdom Because his pregnancy spell cast put us at ease, and I honestly believe him,after 3months i fell always dizzy and then i went to see my doctor who discovered that i was 2months pregnant, i feinted at the moment because i was so surprise i never new that it will work thanks to Dr igbudu of zaza kingdomwho made it possible for i to have a child of my own and i believe he will do yours today ,you can email him via :[email protected] you are trying to get a baby or want your lover back. he has powers to do it, he has done mine,and he will do yours.

Onlydaddycares
Onlydaddycares

The number of comments is my birth year, so here goes:


I'm a stay at home dad to our 4 year old and my wife is divorcing me. She works full time, leaves before we get up in the morning and is in about 1 hour before our son goes to bed. At the weekends she only wants to spend time with him if he's using her ipad, cell phone or watching TV. Now she wants equal custody, she's an accountant and knows that this is the most financially beneficial situation for her. She earns over $200,000pa $50k bonuses and has shouted at me several times that she's only prepared to give me the minimum by law. I'm an immigrant to the USA, have never worked here, have no recognized qualifications and retired 10 years ago. The only family I have within 3500 miles are her family, who now won't have anything other than hostile contact with me, I also don't have any 'real' friends here, only acquaintances, as I've not been here that long and have spent almost all my time at home looking after our property and son. There was no infidelity, violence etc, she just doesn't want to have to support me as I don't want us to have any more children (she's been so hostile, it just didn't feel right). She's been threatening divorce within 12 months of our sons birth, I just couldn't believe she was serious. She's been taking our son to her parents against my wishes regularly and forced me to have an attorney (she's not allowing me to pay for it with marital income) send her a letter asking her not to. This morning she took him again, so I called 911. The outcome of this was that she was allowed to take him anyway as I wanted the least traumatizing outcome for him. She shouts criticisms and berates me when our sons in the room and over his head. She uses her parents to 'ring-fence' and tag team him, isolating him from me, at less than 4 he doesn't understand that his father is being pushed out of his life. I don't know how I'm going to cope.

lisa
lisa

What about a man that disappeared for  five years while I remained in the same house. No phone call, no gift no card, no letter to my son. 

He lives twenty minutes away. Just left, and that would be ok if he had just stayed away. I remarry and my new husband is the dad my son needs. He didn't stay away he returned five years later and wants to see my son now. Disrupt his life. This total stranger who is no longer wanted or needed. The courts and the lawyers will not be on my side. They do not get it. They want this guy to have a second chance. He is not stable, and will damage my child. Unfortunately, he is stable enough that he doesn't have anything against him that I can use to keep him away. So he will win, and he will damage and destroy my little boy for selfish reasons. He doesn't love my son. If he did he couldn't have left for five years. It wouldn't have been possible. 

I don't know what to do! Please any advise is welcome. 

ChantelGuinn
ChantelGuinn

I have the first one, except I had to make him leave. We'd lived together for a year and were horrifically codependent. He didn't understand my stances on meth and babies not mixing, or why I felt he should like, get a job. I explained to him that I couldn't raise two and bought him a bus ticket home. I found out after giving birth to my amazing daughter that he is a sex offender. I count my lucky stars that the knowledge of her growing life gave me moxy enough to cut out an abusive relationship. It's been two years that I haven't seen him, and I hope I never do.

stressedoutmom
stressedoutmom

This is a great article!  I left my husband four years ago and at that time, he was content for me to have full custody of our daughter.  He insisted that he pay a reduced amount of child support and I agreed.  We had a fairly peaceful arrangement until he got back together with an old girlfriend and moved into her house.  Suddenly, he wants full custody and the ability to claim our daughter as a tax exemption.  He took me to court last year at a time when he knew I couldn't afford to hire an attorney.  He and his attorney basically bullied me into a shared parenting agreement.  I have had so little experience with the legal system that I caved in and agreed to it.  Once they got this in place, he didn't have to pay child support, he got two additional overnight visits with her, and he believes that he should get to claim her as an exemption on his taxes  for this year, even though the arrangement started in September of last  year.  All of this and he finally discloses that his girlfriend's teenage son is a convicted sex offender and he feels that there is no problem with our eleven year-old daughter having to be around him on a regular basis.  When we originally separated, he definitely fit into the Disneyland Dad category.  He was always trying to do things that I couldn't afford to do for our daughter.  He made a little more money than I did at the time and it was easy for him to do that.  Now that he is living with this woman and her kids and not paying child support, he is doing absolutely nothing special for our daughter other than making her miserable by having her stay in the presence of a woman who doesn't like her and her two kids who treat her badly because she is a Christian and doesn't enjoy doing the same things they enjoy.  And yes, we are in court again, I'm fighting to have the shared parenting agreement broken and full custody restored to me so that she will not have to be around the sex offender, but our court system is dragging its heels. 

I'm not sure if there is a category for this type of dad, but I'm sure if anyone could write a good one, it would be you.  In any case, you're right.  There are many situations and variables out there, but the bottom line is that if you are the father of a child you need to put your own selfish needs aside and think about how your actions impact that child at all times.  The same goes for mothers.  When my daughter was born, my life was forever changed.  I no longer wanted to make myself happy.  It was all about making sure I didn't mess this child up.  I've worried every day since she was born that I would get it wrong and because of that, I've tried twice as hard to make decisions that were in her best interests.  When she's grown and making her own decisions, then I can do my own thing.  When I chose to have a child, I chose to be a parent.  And so, that's what I do.  Thank you for this article.

ChandellerRose
ChandellerRose

Having my lover back has been the greatest thing that has happened to me this week, I am from Florida Miami and i was not having a great time since when my lover decided to call our relationship a quit .. But i never knew that there was one powerful spell caster called Dr.Tamazaki who with his help of spell casting is capable to restore broken relationship. I must say that with the help of Dr.Tamazaki my lover who was in a hurry to end our relationship turns out the one begging me to accept him It all still seems to be a miracle to me. For proper confirmation for what i have just said all you just have to do is to contact Dr.Tamazaki through phone number +2348051994146 or email [email protected]

EricMurphyjeff
EricMurphyjeff


What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen.

My name is Mrs Katherine Eric from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR.  Osarobo  he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr. Osarobo. I contacted his email address at ([email protected]) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again.So my advice for you now is to contact this Man through email: [email protected] if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems.

THANKS..


EricMurphyjeff
EricMurphyjeff


What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen.

My name is Mrs Katherine from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR.  Osarobo  he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr. Osarobo. I contacted his email address at ([email protected]) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again.So my advice for you now is to contact this Man through email: [email protected] if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems.

THANKS..


tararichard721
tararichard721

No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I'm about to write would actually one day be written. I was the world’s biggest sceptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source (a very close co-worker) that Dr Marvel is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person, and after much “cajoling,” she (my co-worker) got me to visit this website. It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; I had been through two divorces and was on the brink of a third. I just couldn't face another divorce, and I wanted to try harder to make our relationship work, but my husband didn't seem to care. So, with nothing but my pride to lose, I checked it out. I was flabbergasted. Dr Marvel is for REAL. He did whatever magic he does, and lo and behold – no more than TWO DAYS later, I had my husband back! It was like a miracle! He suddenly wanted to go to marriage counselling, and we’re doing very, very well, on the road to recovery! Love and Many Blessings Back to You! Contact Dr Marvel through his email on [email protected].

stacey sleck
stacey sleck


I have been married for 4years and i have a break up with my husband 3months ago and i was worried and so confuse because i love him so much. i was really going too depressed and a friend directed me to this spell caster Dr. OLOKUM on his email ([email protected]) and i made all my problems known to him and he told me not to worry that he was going to make my husband to come back to me and in just 48hours i receive a call from my husband and he was appealing that i should come back to the house. I have never in my life believe in spell but now he has just helped me out to be a fulfill woman and i am now so happy. All Thanks to DR OLOKUM and if you also want to have your Husband back to yourself here !! his email again is [email protected] i am so happy to testify of your work and kindness.. 

AdamsHelen
AdamsHelen

 My name is Adams Helen from United States, I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, His name is DR TRUST, He helped me recently to reunite my relationship wih my husband who left me, When i contacted DR TRUST he cast a love spell for me and my husband who said he doesn't have anything to do with me again called me and started begging me. he is back now with so much love and careing. today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the powers to bring lovers back. because i am now happy with my husband.  To anyone who is reading this article and needs any help, DR. TRUST can also offer any types of help like Reuniting of marriage and relationship, Curing of all types of Diseases, Court Cases, Pregnancy Spell, Spiritual protection and lot's more. You can contact him Via this email [email protected] or [email protected] call him +2348156885231.

Catherin124
Catherin124

Valentine is here again and i remember vividly its is about a year ago that dr igodo restored my marriage.

i look back and smile cus last here my story was a pathetic one. my marriage was drifting away and my man was asking for a divorce cus he said he was seen another woman already who happened to be his colleague at work and he wanted to leave me for good and settle with the woman.

a part of me was happy cus he told me the truth another part was not happy cus i was not willing to let go cus not only his he the father of my 3 kids i also loved him and vowed to do what ever it cost to have him by my side.

behold i contacted dr igodo some days before val and he said i will have result within 24hrs which i did. eventually my man gave me the best val gift ever by buying me a brand new car.

i am happy to share this testimony cus till date we still together and its like our love increases by the day.

contact dr igodo on email: [email protected] or Tel:+2348169138446.

Catherine from Dallas USA


MurphyJeff
MurphyJeff

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because if you do, you will never find the solution to it. so i advice you to visit DR. OGUDU SPELL TEMPLE today and 


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get them solved because god didn't send you to this world to suffer.if you are interested you can contact us via 


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MurphyJeff
MurphyJeff

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because if you do, you will never find the solution to it. so i advice you to visit DR. OGUDU SPELL TEMPLE today and 


get all your problem solved. i am a living testimony to his good work. money spell, financial problems, marriage problem, court case, what ever your problem is, 


get them solved because god didn't send you to this world to suffer.if you are interested you can contact us via 


email>[email protected]}


MurphyJeff
MurphyJeff

Are you finding it difficult finding the right solutions to all your problems? you don't need to hide your problem 


because if you do, you will never find the solution to it. so i advice you to visit DR. OGUDU SPELL TEMPLE today and 


get all your problem solved.money spell, financial problems, marriage problem, court case, what ever your problem is, 


get them solved because god didn't send you to this world to suffer.if you are interested you can contact us via 


email>[email protected]}


Emillssyrus
Emillssyrus

My name is Cyrus, I want to testify of how i got back my boyfriend after breakup, we have been together for 3 years, recently i found out my boyfriend was having an affair with another girl, when i confronted him, it led to quarels and he finally broke up with me, i tried all i could to get him back buh all to no avail until i saw a post in a relationship forum about a spell caster who helps people get back their lost love through spell, at first i doubted it but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this spell via his email, he helped me cast a re-union spell and my boyfriend left the girl and returned to me within 72 hours, we are happily together again. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship and marriage problems via his email [email protected] Goodluck

sarahlus
sarahlus

My name is sarah dixon, am from Dublin. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr. Okafor brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i shouldn't worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to [email protected] This great man made me to understand that there no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at: Email: [email protected] or call +2348058573008

anonymous32
anonymous32

Thank you for saying what so many wont. For months I've been in limbo and waiting for my sons dad to come back, fighting with him to try and make him realize how much his baby needs him in is life. He left us when our baby was only three months old and took my step daughter with him. He didn't just leave and move into another house across town. He moved a good seven hours away (back to his mothers place) He kept saying he wanted to be here, he was going to stay around for his son but in the end he hopped into another relationship and decided to stay where he is. Which is probably better because he hasn't tried to stay and his visits and communication is inconsistent and I am worried that if I keep letting him be apart of babys life when he is so inconsistent and constantly breaks his word that I will ultimately be setting my son up for a lot of heart break and I couldn't stand for that. If there was ever a point where he decides to change, where he gets his stuff together and shows me he can be responsible I would welcome him back in our babys life. I have managed to stay in contact with my step-daughter via text and video chat and it just kills me when she tells me how much she misses us, and how much she misses our home, I've wished so many nights that I could have kept her too. He just tore our family apart because he is too wrapped up in himself and his addictions and you're right no one said anything everyone just excepted it and decided that's just how it goes these days but it shouldn't. So thank you so much for sharing your words. It really does help especially to have it coming from a male voice I hope more men will read this and we start to see a change.

anonymous32
anonymous32

PS...now I have to go and watch something funny....I had a good cry just now reading your article. Thanks again and stay blessed.

alexandathegre1
alexandathegre1

am taking my time to tell the whole world of what this great man called alexanda did for me and my family 18months ago me and my husband have been having marriage issues just because on one of his girlfriend that wanted to take him away from me and i was very desperate not to loose him and i contacted many spell casters who all failed me but when a friend told me about this man i never beleived until i contacted him and i told him all my problems and he told me not to worry that is just going to take five days that i should do what he tells me and to my greatest surprise after the fifth day my husband was crying and begging me for forgiveness and now we are living happily once again thank you alexanda were ever you are and you are having this kind of problem or any other you can contact him for help through his email @ [email protected]

vanella
vanella

I am Vanella  Jones  i lives in united states and i was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend  for 3 years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us. I cry all day, Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to dr osasuyi , and i contacted him and tell him my problems how i lost my relationship with my lover. at first i thought it was not going to be possible.i was ask to come up with a little requirement information of me and my boyfriend,so i did what i was ask to do, after 24Hours the spell was cast i was in my office when clark called me and was asking me to forgive him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me. my boyfriend is now back and he treat me well. and our relationship is now stronger ask ever before. if you are out there looking for help is time for you to still put your hope on dr osasuyi love spell, i promise you that you will be happy with your boyfriend again email him. [email protected] or you can also call him with this number +2347053161101.
 

JoanRose
JoanRose

I am Mrs Kate Davies from NeI promise to share this testimony all over the world once my husband return back home and today with all due respect i want to thank DR ADUDU for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my husband I required help until i found DR ADUDU of [email protected] a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured w york, me that I will get my husband back in just 24 hours time after the spell has been cast, in 24 hours later, my phone rang, and so surprisingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past a years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR ADUDU released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my Husband is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break u[email protected]p. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to DR ADUDU for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. [email protected]I am Mrs Kate Davies from NeI promise to share this testimony all over the world once my husband return back home and today with all due respect i want to thank DR ADUDU for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my husband I required help until i found DR ADUDU of [email protected] a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured w york, me that I will get my husband back in just 24 hours time after the spell has been cast, in 24 hours later, my phone rang, and so surprisingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past a years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR ADUDU released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my Husband is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break u[email protected]p. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to DR ADUDU for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. [email protected]

JoanRose
JoanRose

I am Mrs Kate Davies from NeI promise to share this testimony all over the world once my husband return back home and today with all due respect i want to thank DR ADUDU for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my husband I required help until i found DR ADUDU of [email protected] a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured w york, me that I will get my husband back in just 24 hours time after the spell has been cast, in 24 hours later, my phone rang, and so surprisingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past a years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR ADUDU released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my Husband is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break u[email protected]p. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to DR ADUDU for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. [email protected]I am Mrs Kate Davies from NeI promise to share this testimony all over the world once my husband return back home and today with all due respect i want to thank DR ADUDU for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my husband I required help until i found DR ADUDU of [email protected] a great spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured w york, me that I will get my husband back in just 24 hours time after the spell has been cast, in 24 hours later, my phone rang, and so surprisingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past a years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR ADUDU released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I’m writing this testimony right now I’m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my Husband is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break u[email protected]p. So that’s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to DR ADUDU for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too. [email protected].............

howigotmyexback12
howigotmyexback12

If you have tried everything, and still aren't able to get your Ex back, then you need to pay attention. 

Dr igodo brought back my own lover within 24hrs after so many fail attempt by other spell casters.  i am sharing this testimony so that people out there dont make ths same mistake i made by wasting so much money.

after i contacted dr igodo concerning my case he told me he would return my lover within 24hrs and behold my man came back and apologized for all he did to me.

Take that bold step today and contact dr igodo on Email: [email protected],Tel:+2348169138446 and bring back happiness into your life once again as i did.

Thanks to dr igodo i am an happy woman again.

Winnie, from Houston Texas

SarahRuthSmith
SarahRuthSmith

This post is 4 years old and I don't know if you'll ever see this but it's important for me to just say it. I am new to SDL this year and have just found it this post... I am one of those kids. I am one of those kids whose father left and never turned back. Thank you for saying all of this because NO ONE EVER DOES. It gets shoved under the carpet as something that shouldn't be talked about. As a fatherless daughter, let me say, we need it to be talked about. Us kids tend to blame things on ourselves. When I realized my dad left and my mom was a raging alcoholic all I could wonder was "what did I do wrong?" What did I do so horribly that my father left me before I was 12 months old? What was so difficult about me that my mom decided she couldn't handle me and decided alcohol was the way to go? Thank you for not pushing this under the rug. Fathers still need to know that backing out will screw up your child. At least that's what it did to me. Though I believe that I can't miss something I never had, I'm still allowed to be heartbroken at 21 years old. I'm just starting to deal with my "daddy issues" because I let everyone believe that I'm a freaking superstar and nothing effects me... THIS effects me. Thank you for this post Dan. I needed it.

joepublicva
joepublicva

We r all pawns to other ppl hidden and sometimes manipulative motives. Its nothing to do w who u r but in sick ways pawns r needed. Im a dad that had to leave bc courts and the mothers' ( of my daughter) power and weakness, respectively. Few ppl voice a wrong when issues of forced abandonment or intrusions of paternal relationships r in public view. Even this sites commentary is of question to me......b careful how far u seek to find solice. Kno ur self and pursue ur aspirations.

jena benson
jena benson



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AdamsBella1
AdamsBella1


My name is Adams Bella, i live and work in Oxfordshire, UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr.Trust of Ultimate spell cast which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email.After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever.Dr.Trust you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him anytime, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on ([email protected] or [email protected]) or call him +2348156885231. he is the best caster that can help you with your problems.  

MarianJessop
MarianJessop


I want to use this medium to tell the world about Dr Kasee who helped me in getting my lover back with his powerful spell, my ex and i where having misunderstanding which led to our breakup though i went to beg him several times to please forgive and accept me back because i knew i offend him but each time i went i always feel more deeply in pain and agony because he always walk out on me and would not want to listen to what i have to tell him but on one faithful day as i was browsing i came arose a testimony of a woman whose problem was worse than mine and yet Dr Kasee helped her with his spell so i was happy and also contacted Dr Kasee for help via email ([email protected]) and then told him my story but the only thing he said was that i will wipe your tear out with my spell so luckily for me everything want well just as he promised and right now i have got my fiance back and we are both living happily. there is nothing Dr Kasee can not do with is spell and just as promise myself i will keep testifying on the internet of how Dr Kasee helped me.Are your problem greater that mine or less i give you 100% guarantee that Dr Kasee will put an end to it with his powerful spell, contact Dr Kasee today to help you email: [email protected]