[sigh] Today is another Single Dad Ranting post.

I am admittedly very upset right now over a heated conversation that just took place, and I don’t know where else to release that steam. I’m sure I’ll step on some toes in the process. I usually do. Frankly, I don’t care this time. Dads need to stop leaving their kids, and I’m tired of men not being the ones to say it. I’m tired of the world tip-toeing around these guys’ feelings. I’m really tired of society acting like such behavior is now “normal” or “expected”. I’m tired of the media making light of it. I’m tired of the emails and comments from endless mothers who’ve been thrown under the bus. More than anything, I’m tired of dads not taking their responsibilities and duties seriously.

As far as I can tell, there are three kinds of dads who willingly “leave” their kids.

The first simply leaves. He packs up, he walks away, and he wants nothing to do with his child or his child’s mother.

This man is not a man at all. He is a coward. He is a lazy and an ignorant little boy who cares nothing for those whom he has been enlisted to provide for and protect. His self-centeredness and narcissism rank him among the most selfish human beings on the planet. He is a quitter, a deserter, and a weakling.

Sadly, he’ll never fully realize what he left behind. His own rationalizations and reasoning blind him to anything but a life of justification and attempts to forget his wrongful deed. He’ll never know of the hundreds of Saturday morning snuggles that could have been his. He’ll never know of the hundreds of colorful drawings his child would have handed him over the years, made with tiny loving hands just for him. He’ll never realize that he left behind so many trips to the park or the zoo. He’ll never know of the camping trips, fishing excursions and soccer games that without doubt would have filled him so much happiness. He’ll never realize that his self-absorption caused him to leave behind every bedtime story, pancake breakfast, bike ride, and tuck-in.

Even more sadly, he’ll never realize that he left behind a tiny person that would have looked at him as his hero. He’ll never know that he left a child who would have trusted him and loved him more than any other person reasonably should. And he’ll also never know that he left a child who would have done anything to be like him. To be like his daddy.

He’ll never understand or take responsibility for the giant hole in his child’s heart that will never be patched. He’ll never understand the anger and tears that his child will experience as he tries to comprehend a father that would vanish, and without sensible explanation. He’ll also never understand just how much harder his child’s life is going to be because of his absence.

No, fathers like this never realize, understand, or comprehend any of it. They can’t. A person can’t miss what they don’t know they never had.

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Maybe it’s wrong of me, but I have neither room in my heart, nor in my ability to understand these types of fathers. I have no compassion for them. In my best attempts to fathom their decisions, I have only found anger.

But there is another kind of father who leaves as well. This dad leaves in disguise. He works to make it appear that he’s not leaving at all. He, like that first man, cloaks himself in rationalization and reasoning. He shows up just often enough to pull off his ruse, and he goes to bed each night feeling good about himself as the dad that he thinks himself to be. This second type is the divorced dad who by choice becomes nothing more than a weekend or a summer dad.

I cannot comprehend fathers that do this. I don’t understand how they can be okay with their choices, and I don’t understand how they can be okay offering such trace amounts of time and support to their children.

A dad like this is okay being a dad every other weekend and a couple weeks every summer. He’s okay spending such minimal and limited time with his child.  He’s okayletting his child’s mother do the vast majority of the raising, and he is often okay watching another man step into the picture and be the dominant father figure for his own children.

He doesn’t fight to constantly be with and near his child. He doesn’t fight to be a realdad to his child. He doesn’t really fight at all.Though, he probably claims that he does. He probably spends a lot of wasteful hours telling the people in his life that he did and is doing everything he can for his child. He probably has painted a picture so pretty that even he has started to believe it.

Many of these dads hide behind phone calls and text messages to their kids. They believe that a quick check-in every so often is sufficient enough to brand themselves as “there”. They lie to themselves, they lie to others, and they lie to their kids.

Many of these dads can be wrapped under the label of Disneyland Dads. They have their children so infrequently, that when they do, it’s nothing but fun and revelry. These dads really never parent at all. A dad like this convinces himself that as long as his kid is spoiled and happy when she leaves, he’s a good dad. He’s doing his duty. After all, his kid loves him…

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Dan Pearce is an American-born author, app developer, photographer, and artist. This blog, Single Dad Laughing, is what he's most known for, with nearly half a million daily subscribers as of 2015. Pearce writes mostly humorous and introspective works, as well as his musings which span from fatherhood, to dating, to life, to the people and dynamics of society. Single Dad Laughing is much more than a blog. It's an incredible community of people just being real and awesome together!
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JannD
JannD

I wish my kids father could read this article. We have three small children together 3, 1.5 and 10 months old. I saw him over one year ago when I was pregnant with our third child. He recently married a stripper and lives at his parents house with her and 2 kids that are there own, one of which isn't his child at all whom he allows her to call him daddy. He doesn't call or come around because his new wife won't allow him to and partially because he doesn't want to be around.  It is the most hurtful feeling in the world that you spend over 15 years with a person and they leave you for someone else and then act as if your children doesn't exist because that's what she wants. But she wants him to be a father to a child that isn't even his. She text me one day to tell me that she felt sorry for my children because their father didn't want anything to do with me or them. That made me angry. I hope this anger and hurt goes away soon. It's definitely taking a toll on me.

Eimear OSullivan
Eimear OSullivan

When i met my husband then it crystal clear to me that he was the man of my dream. When i looked at him, i saw perfection. He was tall, respectful, looked at me like i was the only one on earth i  mean words cannot describe that moment that is the day we met. It lives on here in my head. I know i was not blind and i know there was nothing really to make me suspect he also like the company of men as well as women. Yes i mean we were sexually active just like every other normal couple who are in love. It never seem like he was avoiding me when i want to have *** like he always comes up with excuse no he was just like every other man. I only got to know when i was two years into our marriage. The first year was healthy for us i mean we were happy and had our first child. It was my sister who caught him passionately kissing another man in his car after spending all night together in the movie theater. He told me he was going out with friends for a drink or two. I was hurt because he was not honest with me and also was cheating on me. Even before i knew, this thing he had going on started before we got married at least he was honest about that. Hadn't been my sister, i would have been locked in the dark. I have nothing against same sex relationship but when you claim to love a woman and also want to be with a man it becomes a problem i mean you are either with one or the other. You can't be married to me and expect me to shear you with another be it a woman or a man. We promise we will stay together just us and not us with some one else. I gave him an ultimatum it was either me or his male love i was hoping his love for me will make him pick me but no he ended our marriage simply before he could not pick. H wanted it all i wished i never made him choose then. I was in a traumatized i could not understand how he could be so selfish i mean we have a son together you don't just walk out like that. I remember i even asked him to go ahead with relationship with his lover as long as he was here with me but then i realized i would be at the losing end in all ways. I was so much in love with him letting him go was not an option for me i mean i knew that if it wasn't him it was going to me no other. After months of trying and searching with no success to find a way to make him see i am more important than his lover i came across a lot of comments on the internet of how a spell caster Obudun Magonata and how he has help a lot of individual with relationship and life problems. I was skeptical about it but i thought giving it a try would not kill me. What can i say, my experience with Obudun Magonata was real, honest i mean everything that was said about him was nothing but all true. I shared my problem with him that is how my husband ended our marriage  because i was not OK with him have a male lover even when we were married and what i needed him to do for me. All i had to get was the materials needed to caster the spell that was going to get me my husband. I could only find one of the spell materials but he help me get the rest with the total estimated cost i sent to him for help. I don't know how to explain what happen just after the spell process was concluded and made effective with the parcel he sent to me. I was like a fairy tale i mean i got my love back my family was whole again. My husband picked me he choose to be with me. It been more than six months now all i can see is a man loves and dedicate his self to me he goes every where with me aside work though yeah. Contact him here at [email protected] hope you all with similar problem get all help from Obudun Magonata also.

Emotionally Torn
Emotionally Torn

I Loved the article. I have been telling my ex for years. That even though we couldn't make it work that he needs to be there for our daughter. 14 years later and he still doesn't get. When we did talk he would hate it when I mentioned that he is the one who left. He told me to get over it, but never lets me finish my sentence, to add that because he chose to move more than a 1000miles away is why our daughter is hurt/sad/mad. I personally don't care that he moved across the country but it kills me to see my hurting because of him. She is now 16 and he moved when she was 3. She flies out to see him for 3 weeks every summer. But for the last couple of years she goes more and more reluctantly. I have told her that she doesn't have to go, but she always chooses to go. Two years ago he got married and now has 3 step-daughters. He lives with them and his wife, and my daughter is the outsider in her father's home. I have read numbers of books on single parenting and helping your child cope with divorce and even dealing with my daughter having a second mom. It pisses me off that my baby has to go through all these weird and strange situations, I never wanted the divorce, and then when all was said and done I tried to get him to stay close for her. That didn't work either, he said he had to move for him. I never got that. When I decided to be a mom my life became all about this child. I couldn't and still don't know how he could leave her. Is that just the difference between a mom and a dad? I am actually asking how someone could choose to be so far away from their child. I am not trying to step on any toes. What the books would never tell is how do you deal with him being there for his stepkids and not her. I say to HELL with him but she doesn't see it that way. She says she loves him she just doesn't like him. Can't say i blame her, I put my Daddy on a pedistal, but couldn't like someone who treated me bad. I have read about how to make your stepkids feel like they matter but never the reverse. My ex seems to care more about his stepkids than he does about his biological one. It breaks my heart to see my daughter so heartbroken. I feel I need to fix it but don't know how. HELP please, anyone who has advice or has been in a similar expierience. I want to help my baby not to hurt.

Disheartened
Disheartened

Or you be a great dad as you describe it by doing your share caring for her half the time doing your responsibility ensuring she is a part of your family - your partner loves her as her own her siblings love her spending quality and non quality time in her life ( as you would if still with her mum as life is amixture)- for ten years of your daughters life to have her decide at 11 she no longer wants to talk to you or be a part of your family ( grandma included) and to have her mother decide that is acceptable and she wont force her if she doesnt want to. No reason. No rules . No ability to contact her. Just cut off and repeatedl told to leave her alone. A crying stepmum who feels like achild of hers has died. Younger siblings becoming anxious from the uncertainty of ever seeing a much loved sister again. And judgement. Judgement from everybody who thinks you must have done something wrong. Or maybe you shouldnt force her- and what right does the stepmum even have to care? And who cares if it damages dad stepmum or siblings as long as she is happy ( and told its quite ok to stop being a part of her family if she simply wishes) judgement is all dads get. the facts are irrelevant. Nobody cares about the facts the decisions that need to be made to decide to pursue legal orders to insist a child you love and care for dhould come when she consciously( subconscious probably different story) doesnt want to....to figure out her best interests while most likely damaging other family members... To figure out when pushing is doing more harm than good - i guess fortunately for you you arent in this situation so its easy to judge. We have always been a big part of our little girls life and never saw this coming. A shock for sure.. And the thing that seems to come up when discussing this with people most of all is the need for control and judgement. The only support i see when searching the internet - is telling the mothers that its ok and im sorry you "have to send your child to her dads". All coming from a mothers one suded story - a talented one too showing all sorts of compassion to win over the crowds. children are growing up

With out dads and more often thannot its not because of their dads its because of their mum.

Alexander
Alexander

My best friends dad is leaving her for no apparent reason. He is just moving away to wherever and leaving her, her mom, and her two older brothers. She feels like it is all her fault and I really really sad about it, she might even hate her dad now. Can someone please tell me why someone would willingly destroy another persons life like that? Why? I'm trying to help her, but it doesn't seem to be working. Can someone please help me, she is my best friend and seeing her in this much pain is killing me too.

He put her over his baby
He put her over his baby

My son is 3, my soon to be ex and I were married 5 years. He decided to cheat numerous times until he found one willing to let him move in with her. He told me that if he couldn't take our son around his women then he just wouldn't see him, that was 4 months ago and he has not attempted to call, text me about him or ask to see him. There is and hasnt been any child support or attemot to help.My now fiance provides for my son and wants to adopt him, my son said to my fiance one night during dinner " will you be my daddy?" Since that night my fiance has been his daddy in every way. My ex also has 4 other children, 1 he walked away from and is now 16 only having seen his father twice in his 16 years. The other 3 have a psycho mother who kept the kids away from him throughout our marriage that he just let go because he said the kids will come around.. this harlot he is with now got a protection order against me in Kansas because when I found out about her, my ex and I were starting marriage counseling and she knew he was married and a baby in the middle of it so we exchanged words over messaging. Of course the court sided with her because she claimed fear for her safety (even though no threats of that nature were made) .. if I had wanted to hurt her I certainly wouldn't have sat around to think about it given the level of anger I felt in her blatant attack on my baby's future. Obviously I had my son as my first priority and just needed to express how I felt when she said I needed not worry because she would be a good mom to my son.. but anyway, the laws are so messed up on both sides that they make it hard for the true best interest of the child to be put first. If a parent chooses another person over their children and chooses not to attempt to be in their lives, then how does that constitute them to have a right to that child when the wind blows up their backside to do so? He offered to sign over his rights but the state won't let him and now I recieved papers that the state is awarding support that I don't want or need. Would I love to nail him and make him pay?.. Absolutely. .but my son has a full time daddy and has fully forgotten about the one who disappeared so I'll be sending him his support back. At this point the only reason he would even try to be in my sons life would be to get at me, which at that point I'd be nailing him for alimony and child support. He cost me my job, home and he let a truck get repossessed that had my name on it so I have been nothing but cordial and patient but some people just don't deserve to be parents.

Lingggg
Lingggg

Why would you even consider having a baby by a man with 4 kids who he just let go to come back around later in life.. He's repeating that cycle with your son.. How could you not see the wrong in the previous situations you should of ran like hell!

Alice
Alice

@Lingggg Sometimes you can't. Sometimes they're good liars. I'm assuming by your comment that you have never been in this situation. Good for you. But until you have, don't judge.


I am a victim of emotional and sometimes physical abuse at the hands of my sociopath ex-husband. I have a genius IQ, am well-respected in my career, and help others whenever I can by volunteering and donating, and I know the difference between "should of" and "should have." I am what I consider an intelligent, capable person. I am also an extremely easy target for a sociopath. They lie. They make excuses. My ex has three kids, but their mother is the one who wouldn't let him see them. Whenever we DID see them she was angry, so it helped solidify his story in my mind. I even made him take her to court for set visitation, and when he got it, I did most of the work and didn't even realize it because I loved all of them so much (I keep his visitation with his youngest even now, and see her whenever I can, even though he is off with his mistress playing house in her parents' basement).


It wasn't until about a year ago that I realized that no, I was not all of those bad things he made me out to be. I was slowly being beaten down by this man, slowly enough that I didn't even notice. I started thinking that I had developed social anxiety because I was flawed. The reality was he had alienated me from my friends. I wasn't a bad mother, he just found examples of mistakes I had made and amplified them so that I felt that way. And now, he sees OUR daughter for 1/2 to 1 hour a week, and blames it on me, saying I won't allow him more time. He blows her off half the time on our set visitation day, then tries to reschedule when he knows I won't be able to bring her to see him. That way, he can tell her that it is mommy's fault she doesn't see him every week. The sociopath's games never, ever stop.


Sad Mom
Sad Mom

My 8 year old is a brilliant, kind-hearted, generous, cuddly Bear Scout with a quick sense of humor and a handsome grin. He looks a lot like my ex, which tells me he's going to be tall, handsome, and boyish. I raise this little monkey man 350 days a year. His dad is facebook friends with me, and pays child support, and takes the other 15 days a year... that's where the involvement ends. He has never gotten our child a present for a birthday or Christmas. He doesn't call, text, Skype, or even "like" pictures I post on Facebook. He begrudgingly acts like a responsible adult and takes his son (with his sister's help) for 2 weeks a year. I push for it so that he gets SOME paternal involvement in his life. I stopped trying to force the phone calls and messages. It was too disappointing.

Well, I just was woken up by a phone call tonight... the night before we planned to road trip to his house for the kiddo to spend 2 weeks with dad. He is bowing out. He doesn't have the time, apparently, and work comes first right now. Not sure why he says "right now" as that seems an applicable statement year round. I begged, I pleaded, I guilt tripped, I cussed. I tried every tactic to get him to change his mind, but he stood fast. No summer trip for the kiddo.

I am dreading having to tell my son this when he wakes up in the morning. He is going to have that same look of hurt and disappointment on his face that I have still not gotten used to. And there will probably be tears, and that will break my heart.

This was well written and too true. Thank you... I am sending it to him tonight.

Arlie
Arlie

Darling, you are doing so well. You will make it through. Your son will flourish because of your love and sacrifice. I pray that his father will rise up to be the dad he needs. God bless and keep you. Xo

joepublic
joepublic

Hey mr. Bullshit. I agree w u. Now u as I hav the time to exercise our 1st amendment right....much different than the creator of this site for he scarily has a far different agenda. Look at the judge that brought ur wife bs. Theres usually a pattern of judicial bad judgment usually out of expediency. Go check if ur presiding judge has complaints. Post ur complaints. Check his supervisor or the administrative judge. He may b complacent in his duties that allow the system to b flawed. This site is only a ranting site. Go beyond this to fix a broken system lik that I experienced in queens family court.

Saved
Saved

My "father", and i use that term very loosely, fell in the first category. However, he was much worse. I wish he had just left, rather he left while trying to make our lives hell. Its like he hated us. He cheated on my mom, and when she stood up to him and told him that he could not have  side chicks while being married(Yes there where more than one over the course of 6 long years), he decided that he would do everything to try to hurt us. He got his goon friends to try to intimidate my mom and threaten her saying that they would take me and my brother from her if she didn't sign the divorce papers and give everything to him. During the divorce, he stole our car, so that my brother and I couldn't go to school, and he even bugged the house (as we found out later). He sent emails to all our 'friends' filled with lies speaking bad about us. He refused to pay child support, instead he took every penny we had an fled the country to go live with his girlfriends. He made our lives hell for 6 years and we are still living with the repercussions, but his leaving  the country and thus exiting our lives was the best thing that ever happened. He was the devil. And I am happy that the devil is no longer in our lives to drag us to hell with him. 

Bia
Bia

My boyfriend left me and my daughter before she was even 2 years old. He never did anything with us, and never did anything in the house anymore because he felt like I was using him. WTF. Seriously? This was his reason for leaving, plus because I didn't want to have sex with him since he never helped me ever and actually started to get abusive. He told me that he never really wanted to be with me, but it was his idea to have a family so I am really lost.  I guess he planned to go since he just announced one night that he was leaving and actually left at that moment and never came back. I have no idea where he is living and he said he will never tell me. My child was devastated at this young age....crying all the time and sitting on the floor and having fits and crying so badly....I was so concerned for her. I could see she noticed that he left and she even started pushing me away. I was and still is heartbroken. I really have no idea if he should even be in her life....and he is not really anyways since he sees her twice a month for an hour and I do not even talk to him. This is just weird and stupid and I think bad for my child to see us like that. Maybe the best is for her to never see him at all. My child's family is broken forever, and I can only pray that she will be alright.

Bullshit
Bullshit

Bull shit!!!!!!. My wife lied to get restraining order. Extended it 5 years because I'm told they Erik extern add long as she wants. Lied and said I threatened her for leverage in divorce and too take kids. No proof and was told they don't care. Newest study shows 60% of restraining orders were obtained by lies for leverage in divorce. I'm not allowed to see my kids ever on her time. They have her so much child support I am researching where I will live when I lose apartment and am homeless. I may move 3 hours away for a much better paying job rusty will allow me to keep my weekend vivid because I won't be homeless. You act like if every dad stays their allowed to see their kids on their mothers time. If I take a better job I will be able to send them to college and give them a better future. So to people that thinks they know every body elses situation, fuck off

pjdurkin
pjdurkin

Same thing happened to me, these man hating cunts blame everything on man and take no responsibility for forcing man out, most these cunts giving their two cent opinions have personality disorders

CRCFU
CRCFU

And if you are a mom who has watched your child’s father leave, my heart goes out to you. I also pray that you had no part in it. I pray that you didn’t make it impossible for him while he was there. I pray that you didn’t try and force him to live up to impossible expectations. And, I pray that if he is a good man and he wants to be there in his child’s life that you love your child enough to let him. Even if that seems impossible to you.


And what do you call a mother who decides she wants to screw her gym instructor and leave the children with their dad so she can holiday in Bali with the gym instructor for 4 days.  And then coming back and totally belittling her husband telling him it was all his fault.  But refused to try and reconcile.  Then she constantly accuses him of abandoning the children.  When unless it suits her for him to access, talk to the children.

Aramudele
Aramudele



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Aramudele
Aramudele

MARRIAGE RESTORED! My name is Elizabeth Degado from Australia. my husband asked to pack out of the house with my kids and go because he wasn't interested in me anymore. He said all the abusive words and said am not a good wife because I wasn't working, instead I was wasting his money so contacted this Strong Healer a week ago after reading Miracles about his spell over the net I consulted this strong man for a love spell, crying not knowing what to do. he told me that he will cast a return lover spell that same day. It didn't take time for my husband to call me apologizing and begging me to come home. The tender that i was waiting for was approved and he started telling me that am a good wife so I must forgive him for the bad things he had said. My husband asked me to look for any University of my choice and will take care of my fees.  Thanks so much Dr Okolia Email : [email protected], for the Faith and Trust he showed me all along... Email:  

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JessicalMuller
JessicalMuller


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the Kid20
the Kid20

You forgot the 4th Dad! That is I and a pile of others who pay their child support, Pay child care, pay for activities, Pay for almost everything for their kids and lives with nothing. Also I might add we Dads are the ones that are left behind because our ex wives took our kids a very long distance away and breaches every court order ruled. We are the Dads that never put the kids in the firing line, We are the Dads that hardly ever see their kids activities and we are the Dads living in a basement apartment while our ex wives reap the benefits that the law set forth. We are the Dads that our ex's alienate us from our kids! We are the Dads that drive 2 1/2 hours to pick up the kids and our ex's refuse to bring them. We are the Dads that have to wait for a court date to even address the problem! We are the Dads that sold everything that meant anything to them to buy the kids clothes because their mother won't send any with them when they do finally come to visit. We are the Dads that finally give up because it is a losing battle between the courts and our ex's! Today I have made a decision to walk away because the pain in my kids eyes during the exchange from the yelling and screaming at me my ex does in front of them is heartbreaking! I am not paying anything anymore so now she can come after me to go to court! I have been alienated from my children by her....and enough is enough! If you don't like the 4th Dad....Too bad, That is the reason we walk away.....!

singleteenmom
singleteenmom

@the Kid20  I'm sorry--that is a poor excuse.  Go to counseling with your ex-wife, learn to behave like two grown adults that happen to have children that need them.  Your ex-wife sounds difficult, but your children should not pay the price of not having a father.  Enlist a mediator, do something but God forbid don't walk away from your children, your own flesh and blood.  Not paying will only land you in jail and they will come after you.  Your ex sounds like a B but do not allow her to destroy your children's lives and yours. 

joepublic
joepublic

The 4th forth dad is expected to b the forgotten dad. Looking bac at the litigation process that got to this undesirable result u can then c the real problem....that judge, if appointed, has to lobby for his job.....if elected has to pay. Its a process open for opposition. Dont allow his/her re-appointment or election go unchallenged. U may not help ur situation but the person behind u that doesnt hav to suffer ur heart-wrenching, demeaning, manipulated alienation from their wont hav that same judge. That is my only motive for 24 yrs. Observe caution from any fly by nite pro-dad organizations......includes the creators of this site. Arterial motives hurt a just cause.

joepublic
joepublic

Hey teen. Let ur own advice b ur solution.

His mommy means more
His mommy means more

How about a dad and husband who decides life is too hard so he goes home to mommy; A mommy who entices him home by paying him wages, and buying him everything he wants just to keep control of him! My husband and I have been married 25 years and I hate to see all that time together go to waste, we have been through a lot of hard things together and we stood the test of time together, but this has been very difficult to take . We have taken a back seat to my husbands mom.. He calls every night to talk to me, but never asks to talk to our children; daughter 20, son 11. I have to ask don't you want to talk to your kids? Then he will say yes and talk to them for a while.

He originally made these plans to move over to his moms, with his mom. He never included me or our children in the decision. It has been very hard on me as well as our children, we cry a lot; well except my son, he acts out in other ways. I have tried to show my husband what he is doing because he doesn't seem to understand what he is doing., but when I bring it to his attention; that our family should come before his mother, he turns it on me and gets mad and says that I said, I want a divorce, when I never even once mentioned the word. So I have stopped saying anything about this arrangement.  He used to be such a good man, always caring, hard worker, and taking time with the kids. I don't know what happened to him, why the change. I know for a fact he is with his mom and she won't let him out of her sight, so it is not an affair, at least not with any other woman but his mom, that is how I feel about it. My children and I travel back and forth from our home to where he is at, at his mothers, but it is really hard on us. You may ask why we don't move there, well it is a long story, but part has to do with the fact that we take care of my 91 year old dad; the best example of a father ever! My dad has never meddled in our marriage or parenting. My husband agreed to this arrangement, after my mother passed away; he takes, or I should say took care of the yard and house, and I made the meals etc...the other reason; my children and I hate it there where he has gone, I don't feel welcome by my mother in law, and it is a very rural area. Plus I have lived here 40+ years of my life, our friends are here, etc... It really broke my heart again as I read your "Dads don't leave" article, because I see so much of what you wrote about, in my husband and it never really hit me as hard as when I seen it in print! When things get tough he quits, gives up, leaves...I hate to say this but he's the coward! I can't stop crying, how can a man be so selfish, callous and unfeeling for his own family?! I don't understand!


soulman713
soulman713

Hurting pretty bad I have been engadged to the love of my life for 4 years and she told me 5 days ago that she needs ti find herself and cant do that with me. we have a 2 year old son. they are my world. I understood what she meant about needing to find herself and was fine with it it just hurts so bad that she seems to have moved on within the same hr. i dont really feel like going on any more. my son is all that keeps me going. im not intrested in meeting someone new. I gave up everything for her and gave her anything she ever needed or asked for. Now im alone surrounded by nothing but our friends that seemed to just try to get with her now that shes not with me. I need some help here i really cant go on like this.

Bia
Bia

@soulman713

sorry about that but she sounds selfish and used you . Some women are brutal and really pretend to love...was it love or sex? Because many men think sex is love but sorry that is not true. My partner left me as well and our child because he is selfish. Sometimes people just get scared off with kids and responsibility....not able to handle that. Rather be free to find themselves a better life i guess

Katie
Katie

The father of my daughter is #2 I guess. She's 7 months old and he has seen her 5 times, never more than a few hours at a time though. I send pictures all the time and try to text him at least once a week, sometimes I text him every day. He acts like he wants to be there for her around his family, but it is like pulling teeth to get him to even see her (I had to go through his mom last time). He lives 2 1/2 hours away with the mother of his first child and expecting their 2nd son together (his 3rd child) in September. He is very busy. And I try to travel down to where he lives as much as possible and always offer to drop by with her. I never get responses from him. I am tired of fighting to get him to be a real dad. I'm not even sure if it is possible with him being so busy with his job his first child. Also speaking of his first child, maybe it's just because he lives with him, but I feel lots of favoritism already. I don't want her growing up with a dad who is barely there and always favoring his other children above her. It sucks trying to be the one to get him to see her and him never giving a damn. I feel my patience wearing thin, and I'm not sure how long I should try (or how long I can stand trying) to make him be in her life.

Now she does have a father figure in her life and he is my dad. He has been a real dad to me my entire life even if it meant tough love sometimes. He is the best and I love seeing the way my daughter lights up when he gets home from work, I only wish that her real father could do that.

Bia
Bia

@Katie

you cant force a guy to do what he dosnt want. If he wanted to see her he would. I have the same situation and I just gave up trying....you just make your life more stressful forcing him to be someone he is not. 

KimberlyMarie
KimberlyMarie

Thank you....my husband was/is all three, he was number three for years, never going to the park with us, events, teakwondo classes....nothing came between himself and, well, himself. I loved him completely, totally devoted, and not a bad looking wife, our children have autism, and are perfect. They are sweet, lovable, loving, laughing, precious children. Then, he became number two to his children from previous relationships, eventually becoming number one to all of them. I guess he feels tha moving across the states, saying his reason for doing so was so that he didn't have to babysit his children was what he wanted....yet, why then, did he, a fifty year old man with a family, take on a girlfriend younger than his oldest child? I am sickened, disgusted...I pity him....stupid, stupid man is missing out on so much love. Our children were devastated, now, they hope to never see or hear him again. I forced my children to call him. He was very abusive mentally, emotionally, and financially, and still is. Refuses to pay support, and has become so incredibly nasty, blaming all of his faults and actions on me. I let him because I pity him. And because I really don't care what the new girlfriend thinks of me, she will learn, I just hope she doesn't get pregnant first.

So, thank you for this, for writing, for caring, for seeing. Thank you.

Rhiannom
Rhiannom

My husband is the second type. He walked out last July and now has a new family with a new baby on the way. This weekend just gone, he dumped our daughter at his mum's so he could spend the weekend with his girlfriend. I went and picked her up. It breaks my heart because she's three and when she asks for her dad, I don't know what to say. I've pushed and pushed for him to make more effort but since he left, he's treated her like she's secondary to everything and hasn't paid a penny in support. I work part time and try to give her everything. I understand he doesn't love me any more and hasn't for some time....but why does it feel like he stopped loving her as well???

Bia
Bia

@Rhiannom

I can not understand these men....like they are 15 years old or something? Why is sex always this reasoning for their behavior as if they never had sex before.....? Why are these girlfriends so important? More than their child? It is so sad because you can not explain that to a child.

Dawn
Dawn

I love this article. It gives me hope that real men still exist. 

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luarenfisher
luarenfisher

There is a lot i have to say but i really don't know were to start from. I guess i will have to build my story, that is life story form the begin but will try has much to make it short. I fell in love with my boyfriend Daxson about three years ago and since then we have being living together. We are not married or engaged because like he said he wanted to finish his med school and all that. I was not even bothered because we were in love and as long as there is love who really need marriage and somehow even with all the stress he was going through, he finds the time to make me feel loved always. He is literally the definition caring. But here is the twister i never knew or rather he never told me he was scared for being a father at least we never talk about it because it never crossed our mind and we always i mean always played it safe. I was on my pills and he always used protection. Like they say, i guess when its time its time like, i got pregnant. Looking at it then i will say, that was my greatest mistake in life only now i see a baby is really a blessing. Ok let me go back on track. When i told him about it, i couldn't say he was happy or sad but he had an expression on his face like "de f*** i ve got med school and now this ?" but he assured me, it was fine and he was happy and we are going to do it together as a family and i wished all that where true. On my third trimester, he said to my face he was not ready to be a father and was not going to do it with me anymore and that he doesn't think he is gonna be a good father. We all know its hard to believe soon we all gonna be parents but for real, it comes when we are not even prepared for it and all we can do then is accept it as it comes. I tried to make him see what he was doing to me and his baby i mean i loved him so much and i was the happiest woman alive to be carrying his child i just wished he was too. He was not even there to see his girl when she was born he just left me and our baby. I could not understand why i was just too heart broken knowing that he has been the only one in my life for three years and now he just left me with some silly excuse i could not understand. I literally became a single mom for four months before Metodo Acamu a witch doctor helped me get back the man i love. Its not like i couldn't do it all alone i mean take care of my baby girl its just that i loved him so much that i could not leave without him and all i could think of was him. Even with all that happened i could not bring myself to hate him i was only heart broken and wished i could get him back. When i contact Motodo Acamu ,he asked me to get some materials of which he was going to use to prepare a spell that was coming to reunite me, Daxson and April my baby girl. I sent him the money for the materials because it was less stressful and he made me see he was an honest and truthful witch doctor. He helped me a lot, he sent a package to me which i paid for . He told me to burning the content of package with the incense he sent along with the content of the package and in seven days Daxson will be my one and only again. Just as Metodo Acamu said it happened. I can say i was surprise because i have never done this kind of thing before and i was not so sure how it will play out. Though i made Daxson beg, i had to let him into my life and that of April again because that was all i ever wanted. And the spell is totally safe like Metodo Acamu told me and the love is real because the spell only made him see how much i mean to him and how much his life revolves around April and i . Everyone has his or her own opinion about the witch doctor Metodo Acamu but for me he is the reason my family is complete and happy if you want to Contact him use this email
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Kenna J
Kenna J

There is a fourth kind of dad who leaves that I think should be mentioned here. This type of dad is a very confused man.  He needs a lot of guidance that he never seems to get.  There are far more people who will support him in his evil ways than people who will point out that what he is doing is wrong, because, for some reason, society loves to blame the woman.  This is the kind of dad who leaves the mom and then, instead of trying to be a co-parent, instead of trying to be supportive to the mom, decides that loving his children means waging an enormous legal battle to take them away from their mother.  That's what he thinks being a good dad is.  Anything the mom tells him about the child, any trouble she or the child has with anything, instantly becomes a mine for ammunition for him to call Child Protective Services on her.  He tells the children during his parenting time that he's protecting them from their mother.  He encourages them to be informants for him on everything their mother does.  Any insecurity the children express to him to try to get comfort turns into a "Yes, that terrible mother of yours."  He has a new wife whom he's enrolled in this idea that they MUST get the children away from their mother.  He and his new wife's entire marriage becomes about trying to defeat the enemy, the children's mother.  There are a LOT of dads like this in the world, men who think their manliness is proven by how much money they have for attorney's fees and how they never let a woman's preference override their own-- unless they feel they own her. 

I don't like how this post uses the word FIGHT so much.  I don't think loving your children is about fighting anyone.  Maybe men have fights they need to do internally or in their own lives.  Maybe this is part of being a man, I wouldn't know.  But it doesn't need to be part of being a father.  There is no reason to turn fatherhood into a fight.  THAT IS NOT LOVE.

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emilyluv20


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AishaGarrett

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(1) În cazul în care doriți ex-vă înapoi.
(2), dacă aveți mereu coșmaruri.
(3) Vrei sa fie promovat în birou.
(4) Vrei femei / bărbați pentru a rula după tine.
(5) Dacă doriți un copil.
(6) Or, dacă doriți să fie un fotbalist
[7] câștiga un caz în instanță
(8) Vrei să fii bogat. sau ai nevoie de bani
(9) Vrei să lega soțul / soția să fie a ta pentru totdeauna.
(10) În cazul în care aveți nevoie de asistență financiară.
(11) Cum ai fost scammed si doriti pentru a recupera banii pierdut
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RebeccaGeorge
RebeccaGeorge

I and my boyfriend have been dating for four year now and just last three months he told me, he no longer have feeling for me. He did not just say it like that he made it seem like it was his fault. He was like he has been thinking about his life and he feels like he doesn't know himself anymore and that he doesn't want to hurt me in the processes. I mean we all know those line i have used them and we all have the next words are always "I think we should take a break" which mean i want out of this relationship. I wish he told me all those things before he asked me to marry him i would totally move on with my life but now, it turn out that we were already engaged and for six months at that. I felt bonded to him my whole heart beats and skips just for him for the record his name is Sean. I tried all i could to get by knowing or having the thought in my heart that we could still fix us only to realize he broke up with me to actually date a girl i he meant. It was like he got tired of me or something. I basically never turned any of his request down what ever it was. Sean was literally the first guy i had sex with the every first day i meant them. Usually i make them wait for 40 day but with Sean everything felt right. Anytime i was with him i felt this pain in my heart it was like its bleeding but it was bleeding love. It was so magically that i can't just explain it. So living without him knowing he left me for another girl was torture. I tried to talking to him in every way i could to make him see i love him but it was impossible. He made me feel like trash like am good for nothing and he called me fat and ugly. That really broke me down i could not believe it that of every person i have ever dated the one i love the most called me fat and ugly. My friends asked me to stop fooling myself trying to make him love me again but i was too in love i mean the heart wants what it wants right? and the more i tried the more he hated me. I was tagged by his new girlfriend and himself a sociopath. I was losing it and i fell into depression. Heaven know i was gonna kill myself because i really had nothing to leave for and he didn't even care if i lived or died. I know this sound crazy but it was just what happened. Though we dating again with the help of a great and reliable witchdoctor Metodo Acamu, it still hurts a lot that i had to pass through all those pain. All my friend thought i was crazy because even when they tried to help me i pushed them all away so basically i was all alone in my world of pain i had already given up on life i mean i thought to myself if can't have Sean, i was not going to live to watch him be happy with someone else. As foolish and crazy as this my sound , it was what i almost did. I was going to kill him and kill myself after wards. I don't know, some how, maybe the universe wasn't totally again me i came across the name witch doctor Metodo Acamu and his email address on the Internet there were a lot of comments on how real, nice and how much he has helped a lot of people fix there relationship , money issues, jobs and lottery ticket i thought contacting him was the last thing i should try before pushing on with my plan to take the life of the man i love. Believe me i was so lucky to have contacted him. He told me if i had killed Sean i would have tried in so many ways to kill myself to join him but it won't have worked. I don't know how true that is but i know that i was asked to get some materials for the witch doctor to make a spell that will reunite me and my fiancé. I sent him the money for the materials only because i could not get them anyway. He helped me a lot he sent a package for me with ups of which i paid for to get to me from an international. He told me to say what i want when burning the content of package with something that has the smell of incense and that in seven days Sean will be mine again and believe me please that was just what happened. It was so spiritual and out of earth that i could not understand how but i knew it worked for me and it is totally safe like Metodo Acamu told me. I know this all sound crazy but its so true and real life so. You can only know when those who need Metodo Acamu help get it. Contact him her metodoacamufortressx@yah oo. com

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ElizaberthBarbara

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Onlydaddycares
Onlydaddycares

The number of comments is my birth year, so here goes:


I'm a stay at home dad to our 4 year old and my wife is divorcing me. She works full time, leaves before we get up in the morning and is in about 1 hour before our son goes to bed. At the weekends she only wants to spend time with him if he's using her ipad, cell phone or watching TV. Now she wants equal custody, she's an accountant and knows that this is the most financially beneficial situation for her. She earns over $200,000pa $50k bonuses and has shouted at me several times that she's only prepared to give me the minimum by law. I'm an immigrant to the USA, have never worked here, have no recognized qualifications and retired 10 years ago. The only family I have within 3500 miles are her family, who now won't have anything other than hostile contact with me, I also don't have any 'real' friends here, only acquaintances, as I've not been here that long and have spent almost all my time at home looking after our property and son. There was no infidelity, violence etc, she just doesn't want to have to support me as I don't want us to have any more children (she's been so hostile, it just didn't feel right). She's been threatening divorce within 12 months of our sons birth, I just couldn't believe she was serious. She's been taking our son to her parents against my wishes regularly and forced me to have an attorney (she's not allowing me to pay for it with marital income) send her a letter asking her not to. This morning she took him again, so I called 911. The outcome of this was that she was allowed to take him anyway as I wanted the least traumatizing outcome for him. She shouts criticisms and berates me when our sons in the room and over his head. She uses her parents to 'ring-fence' and tag team him, isolating him from me, at less than 4 he doesn't understand that his father is being pushed out of his life. I don't know how I'm going to cope.

lisa
lisa

What about a man that disappeared for  five years while I remained in the same house. No phone call, no gift no card, no letter to my son. 

He lives twenty minutes away. Just left, and that would be ok if he had just stayed away. I remarry and my new husband is the dad my son needs. He didn't stay away he returned five years later and wants to see my son now. Disrupt his life. This total stranger who is no longer wanted or needed. The courts and the lawyers will not be on my side. They do not get it. They want this guy to have a second chance. He is not stable, and will damage my child. Unfortunately, he is stable enough that he doesn't have anything against him that I can use to keep him away. So he will win, and he will damage and destroy my little boy for selfish reasons. He doesn't love my son. If he did he couldn't have left for five years. It wouldn't have been possible. 

I don't know what to do! Please any advise is welcome. 

ChantelGuinn
ChantelGuinn

I have the first one, except I had to make him leave. We'd lived together for a year and were horrifically codependent. He didn't understand my stances on meth and babies not mixing, or why I felt he should like, get a job. I explained to him that I couldn't raise two and bought him a bus ticket home. I found out after giving birth to my amazing daughter that he is a sex offender. I count my lucky stars that the knowledge of her growing life gave me moxy enough to cut out an abusive relationship. It's been two years that I haven't seen him, and I hope I never do.

stressedoutmom
stressedoutmom

This is a great article!  I left my husband four years ago and at that time, he was content for me to have full custody of our daughter.  He insisted that he pay a reduced amount of child support and I agreed.  We had a fairly peaceful arrangement until he got back together with an old girlfriend and moved into her house.  Suddenly, he wants full custody and the ability to claim our daughter as a tax exemption.  He took me to court last year at a time when he knew I couldn't afford to hire an attorney.  He and his attorney basically bullied me into a shared parenting agreement.  I have had so little experience with the legal system that I caved in and agreed to it.  Once they got this in place, he didn't have to pay child support, he got two additional overnight visits with her, and he believes that he should get to claim her as an exemption on his taxes  for this year, even though the arrangement started in September of last  year.  All of this and he finally discloses that his girlfriend's teenage son is a convicted sex offender and he feels that there is no problem with our eleven year-old daughter having to be around him on a regular basis.  When we originally separated, he definitely fit into the Disneyland Dad category.  He was always trying to do things that I couldn't afford to do for our daughter.  He made a little more money than I did at the time and it was easy for him to do that.  Now that he is living with this woman and her kids and not paying child support, he is doing absolutely nothing special for our daughter other than making her miserable by having her stay in the presence of a woman who doesn't like her and her two kids who treat her badly because she is a Christian and doesn't enjoy doing the same things they enjoy.  And yes, we are in court again, I'm fighting to have the shared parenting agreement broken and full custody restored to me so that she will not have to be around the sex offender, but our court system is dragging its heels. 

I'm not sure if there is a category for this type of dad, but I'm sure if anyone could write a good one, it would be you.  In any case, you're right.  There are many situations and variables out there, but the bottom line is that if you are the father of a child you need to put your own selfish needs aside and think about how your actions impact that child at all times.  The same goes for mothers.  When my daughter was born, my life was forever changed.  I no longer wanted to make myself happy.  It was all about making sure I didn't mess this child up.  I've worried every day since she was born that I would get it wrong and because of that, I've tried twice as hard to make decisions that were in her best interests.  When she's grown and making her own decisions, then I can do my own thing.  When I chose to have a child, I chose to be a parent.  And so, that's what I do.  Thank you for this article.

ChandellerRose
ChandellerRose

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EricMurphyjeff
EricMurphyjeff


What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some time things you don’t believe can just happen.

My name is Mrs Katherine Eric from U.S.A am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i discussed it with my best friend and she promise to help me he told me of a man called DR.  Osarobo  he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot do that is why they call him Dr. Osarobo. I contacted his email address at ([email protected]) And i told him everything that happen all he told me is that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, it really happen i was very surprise and very, very happy our relationship was now very tight and we both live happily again.So my advice for you now is to contact this Man through email: [email protected] if you are in any kind of situation concerning love issues and any other things that give you problems.

THANKS..