28 Rules for Fathers of Sons

Every once in a while I come across a real gem on someone else’s blog that I fall in love with. Yesterday I somehow wandered onto a blog post called 28 Rules for Fathers of Sons.And while there are a couple things I’d maybe add to some of these, I couldn’t help but think her post was fantastic.

Her post did well, but I think it deserves a lot more love, and Sarah (who I’m quickly learning is a mom blogger worth following) was kind enough to let me share her post with all of you. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did!

28 Rules for Fathers of Sons

Rules for Fathers of Sons

He will learn to love like you love, and hate like you hate. So choose love for both of you. Devote yourself to it. Love with your whole heart and express that love each and every day. Then, someday down the road, you will see the way he loves his own wife, and know that you played a part in that.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Every child remembers the first time they drove on daddy’s lap. For that one moment, he will believe that he is just. like. you

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Especially when it comes to women and burgers. Teach him to never settle.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

There is something about sharing a day of hot dogs, sunshine and baseball with your father.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Boys have this preconceived notion that they have to be tough. When he is young, he will express his love fully and innocently. As he grows, he will hide his feelings and wipe off kisses. Teach him to be a man who rubs them in instead. It takes courage for a man to show love: teach him to be courageous.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Sometimes, boys need to know that all men are created equal.

Show him how to be brave and tough around the guys. Then, remind him on the ride home that it is okay to cry.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Communicate. Talk. Talk about anything. Let him tell you about girls, friends, school. Listen. Ask questions. Share dreams, hopes, concerns. He is not only your son, you are not only his father. Be his friend too.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Because sometimes you have to be his father, not just his friend. The world is a happier place when made up of polite words and smiles.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

He should know that he doesn’t have to throw punches to prove he is right. He may not always be right. Make sure he knows how to demand respect- he is worthy of it. It does not mean he has to fight back with fists or words, because sometimes you say more with silence.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Make sure he knows which battles are worth fighting- like for family or his favorite baseball team. Remind him that people can be mean and nasty because of jealousy, or other personal reasons. Help him to understand when to shut his mouth and walk-away. Teach him to be the bigger better person.


Rules for Fathers of Sons

Dance alongside him in yours. Teach him that there are moments when it is okay to be absolutely ridiculous.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Introduce him to the classics and learn the words to the not-so-classics. Create a rock band with wooden instruments, share your earphones, and blast Pink Floyd in the car. Create a soundtrack to your lives together.

Fathers with Sons
Rules for Fathers of Sons

Sometimes he needs to know that big things are possible.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Let him know family is always worth fighting for. Family is always worth standing up for. At the end of the day, he has you to fall back on, and pray to God that you will have him.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Being a father—to him—is undoubtedly one of your greatest accomplishments. Share with him the joys of fatherhood, so one day he will want to be a father too. Remind him over and over again with words and kisses that no one will ever love him like you love him.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

If you don’t listen to the little things now, he won’t share the big things later.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Even if they are old and smelly. Let him slip his little feet in and watch him as he hopes like hell that someday he can fill them. He will fill them.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

The kind that squeezes his insides and make him giggle. The kind of hug only a daddy can give.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Because Mom can’t do everything damnit.


Rules for Fathers of Sons

Let him pee outside- such is the joy of being a man. Mom cannot teach this talent, so someone has to.

Fathers with Sons
Rules for Fathers of Sons

He will assume you do. If you don’t know them, pretend you do and look them up later.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

Because little boys love seeing the strength of their father. Throw him up in the air, so that he knows you will always be there to catch him on his way down.

Rules for Fathers of Sons

He will come to you with questions that he won’t always want to ask his mother, about girls and about love. Ask her anyway, she will know the answers.

Little girls are not the only ones who need hugs and kisses. Love is the color yellow of emotions. It is both happy and gender neutral.

Because every child should get the chance to rest their head on the absolute softest pillow ever. Daddy’s belly is the best place to land.

American inventor Charles F. Kettering once said, “every father should remember that one day his son will follow his example instead of his advice.” Be a good one.

You are anyway. To him, you have the strength of Batman, the speed of Spiderman and the brain of Ironman. Don’t disappointment. Prove to him that Daddy’s are the biggest heroes of all. Only Daddy’s can save the day. 

After all, good fathers make good sons.

Sarah Driscoll

Fathers with Sons

PS. She certainly didn’t ask me to do this, but if you loved her post as much as I did, I bet she’d love it if you shared her post and liked her photography page on Facebook!

Image above of father hugging child via laimposta.de

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