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On Saturday I got a horribly long email from someone on Facebook in which he let me know under no uncertain terms that he was disappointed in all of my life decisions and that if I couldn’t change the way I do things, he would be unfriending me on Facebook.

I started laughing. Out loud.

And after I wiped the tears out of my eyes, I wrote back, “I’ll make this easy for you.” I then went to his Facebook page and unfriended him.

And that got me to wondering… who are all these 744 friends that I have on Facebook?

I started scrolling through my home feed, and I realized… I don’t really know a lot of these people enough to actually care what they ate for breakfast this morning.

And then I got all belligerent and went on a massive unfriending spree. By the time I was done, I had cleaned out about 300 people. And then I looked at my work. And I thought, this is good. And then I looked at my home feed. And there were only updates from people I do want (desperately) to know what they ate for breakfast this morning.

So who were the 300 people that I was friends with but didn’t actually know? I of course had my blogger hat on and I made myself an awesome list as I went from page to page, mercilessly clicking that  powerful “unfriend” button.

These were the 35 (often recurring) types of friends I unfriended.

  1. People I always wished I was friends with in High School. I’ll admit it. When I first got on Facebook, I scrolled through my graduating class and added my real friends, but also all the cool kids (a group I was just a daydreamed part of). Amazingly, a huge percentage of them accepted my friend request and we’ve been FB besties ever since.
  2. Neighbors I saw across the room at church once. I had a lot of neighbors (in Mormontowne, we call them ward members) as Facebook friends. Most of these people I had never talked to more than to raise my hand at church and answer Sunday school lessons. And of course, if we were neighbors we were also besties.
  3. My 14 year old cousins. Now, maybe I’m a jerk older cousin to remove them (at least five of them). But I didn’t really know why I was Facebook friends with all my little teenager cousins. I love ’em. We are besties. But I really don’t care about their drama class drama or their math class miscalculations.
  4. Past friends’ siblings. There are people I used to hang out with all the time. And of course, good friends often had siblings that I would get to know. And after we became besties, I’d add them on FB. But, friendships move on as they often do, and I realize that years down the road, I don’t really care what an old friend’s little brother’s favorite post-apocolyptic movie is.
  5. Ex fitness-group pals. This was admittedly the hardest group to unfriend, because we really were besties for a long time. I’ve been in a couple Biggest Loser groups on Facebook and I had lots of friends from those groups. But in the end, I was on an unfriending spree and I had made a firm decision that any Facebook friend had to also be someone I knew in real life.
  6. People I kind of met at a party once. When you’re a little drunk, everyone is your bestie. And I had a lot of people on my friends list that I met once, pinkie promised that we’d be friends forever, and then never saw again.
  7. Girls I thought were hot. This kind of goes with number one, but there was a definite group of girls who I added on Facebook over the years for no other reason than that they were hot. And I’m man enough to admit it, even if it means we won’t be besties anymore.
  8. Judgmental family members. Yes, I deleted a few actual extended family members for no other reason than that I often worry about what I post because I know they will think non-bestie thoughts about me when I share things like underwear charity events.
  9. People I used to know and now I don’t no mo’. There were several people I actually knew once upon a time. You might even say we were besties. But time has faded those relationships so much that I had to think really hard, “who are these people?” And is it okay that I just don’t care anymore?
  10. My ex wife’s little brother’s friends. Noah’s mom and I lived with her family for a little while, and her little brother always used to bring his friends over to the house. We (of course) became besties, and later on we became Facebook friends. But now, all these years later, I just don’t know that I need to know why they love or hate Chick-fil-A.
  11. Girls I became FB friends with just so I could digitally stalk them before saying yes to a date. When you meet girls on dating websites (like I often do), sometimes the pictures and profiles leave you wondering just how real they are. And when I’m worried about it, I like to become Facebook friends so that I can digitally stalk the hell out of them as I make my informed decision about bestie potential. Problem is, I’ve always been too chicken to unfriend them, whether we ever went on a date or not.
  12. Neighbors I once cared about. Unlike #2, there were some neighbors I once actually knew. We were “sidewalk besties” and would talk to each other, attend neighborhood barbecues, shoot the breeze while out walking our dogs, whatever. But now when I see them on my friends list, I almost prefer them to stay memories of good sidewalk buddies. As much as I’d like to hear about their current adventures on the PTA…
  13. My ex-wife’s friends. When I was married to Noah’s mom, she would get together with old high school friends sometimes. And they were pretty cool. And pretty soon we all were besties. And pretty soon we all were Facebook friends. But now I can admit without fear of sleeping on the couch that some of them were too cool for me.
  14. My second ex-wife’s friends. Repeat my explanation of #13. And add an extra word besties in for good measure.
  15. Friends of ex-girlfriends. When you’re dating someone that you think is AWESOME, you’re not going to have a chance if you don’t make her besties your besties too. After all, besties will make or break any relationship. What I wasn’t sure of is why I was still friends with the besties of some of the girls who now walk by the town square every day, hoping to see my head show up on a spear.
  16. People I added because I thought they were someone else. When details of past friendships get hazy, sometimes you see a person pop up on the “someone you might know” section of Facebook and think, “OH YAY! MY OLD BESTIE!” Then they accept your friend request. And you realize, this is not the person I thought it was. Yes, I had several of these on my friends list, all of whom I never unfriended because I couldn’t admit that I was that out of touch with reality.
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Dan Pearce is an American-born author, app developer, photographer, and artist. This blog, Single Dad Laughing, is what he's most known for, with nearly half a million daily subscribers as of 2015. Pearce writes mostly humorous and introspective works, as well as his musings which span from fatherhood, to dating, to life, to the people and dynamics of society. Single Dad Laughing is much more than a blog. It's an incredible community of people just being real and awesome together!
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MAtafool
MAtafool

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KellFaith
KellFaith

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         MY LIFE IS BACK, Am so happy to share this testimony on how Dr Okwyzil, was able to heal me from HIV Disease, well i was detected positive on 23th may 2013, and ever since i have been looking for a way to treat and cure this disease from me, but all ways i try there was no solution, few weeks ago i saw a testimony of some people on how Dr Okwyzil,was able to cure them from HIV disease, still on i heard about it on media when a young lady also gave her testimony about this same Dr, well left with no hope i message Dr Okwyzil, telling him all my problem, he told me what we where going to do, that he was going to send me a portion which i am going to take, and after which i took this herb portion he sent to me, he told me to go back to the hospital for check up and after i have done that i should come and tell him the good news result, at first when i saw the message i was so shock and still did not believed i will be cured, well friend to make my story short i am HIV negative now after many time of sorrow, i am Negative, and my sickness are gone, i thank God for leading me to this man....you can email him on ([email protected] or [email protected]

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SegioCollins
SegioCollins

My name is Segio Collins from United States Las Vegas, I want to quickly tell the world that there is a real on line spell caster that is powerful and genuine, I was the world’s biggest septic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like that, but I was told by a reliable source Doctor Ebakor a great spell caster helping me retrieving back my relationship with my EX girlfriend back when she ended and turned back to me for quite a long time now (3 months ago). He performed a spell for me and for 24 hours after the spell had been casted i receive a text from my EX girlfriend saying that she is sorry for what happened and the she needs me back. I want to recommend Doctor Ebaklor to the world. You can reach and contact him on his private email; [email protected] thank you so much Doctor Ebakor.

HelenMorgan
HelenMorgan

I had my long distance relationship for almost 4 years now, Our relationship was okay and good, but for some reasons I couldn't understand My ex boyfriend broke up with me for almost 3 years now, and i was sad,frustrated, devastated having mix emotions to face the reality that he doesn't want to work it out anymore, I dint know what else to do until I search and bumped into this testimonies regarding Love spell and i read some of those who had the same problem i had and until i found Dr Aigbehi who can cast spell to bring your partner back at first i was hesitant to do so but eventually i tried his power to cast spell bring back your partner back because of his kind hearten, generosity He did Help me and i am so happy about it .Thank you so much Dr Aigbehi.

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CharlesMorgan
CharlesMorgan


I had already tried three different internet spell caster's services, but all the spell caster I meet were jerks and scams. Then my friend told me about [email protected] Spells. I wasn't sure anything would come of it, but I thought, why not take a chance? I cast a Love Spell, and the very next week a gorgeous guy came up to me at a club and asked me to dance. He is caring, kind, romantic - everything I always wanted. We've been together for six months now, and we're talking about getting married. I'm a believer!" If you need help you can contact him for assistance, EMAIL:[email protected]

CharlesMorgan
CharlesMorgan


 I am kasha i lives in uk and i was in a serious relationship with my ex guy for three good years.. One day we were in a dinner party, we had a little misunderstanding which lead to a Quarrel and he stood up and left me at the dinner party. i try to call him but he was not picking my calls so after than i contacted my brother and told him about it,my brother so much love me that he had to see him on my behalf,he told my brother that it is over between us.. Then i contacted a friend of mine that had this similar experience and she directed me to one of the spiritual diviner ([email protected]).at first i thought it was not going to be possible and i contacted him i was ask to come up with a little requirement,so i did what i was ask to do, after 3 days i was in my office when my ex guy called me and was asking me to forgive him and come back to him. i was very surprise it was like a dream to me,so ever since we have been happily married with one kid my lovely baby(Ceslav)...i wish you the best of luck.

KomalMalekar
KomalMalekar

My name is Komal Malekar.living in California Uk, i want to say a bigger thanks to Dr IDIALU for taking time to help me cast the spell that brings back my ex husband .No one could have ever made me believe that the letter I’m about to write would actually be one day be written. I was the world’s biggest skeptic. I never believed in magic spells or anything like this, but I was told by a reliable source (a very good friend of my was the one own told me about the Dr IDIALU that him say man of is world that what ever him say so shall it be) the man call the Dr IDIALU is a very dedicated, gifted, and talented person,and is a good man that have help so many people to bring them Ex-lover back to them,It was one of the best things I have ever done. My love life was in shambles; And i said let me give him a try,and that was how he help me to get back my ex-husband. He did a love spell that make my ex-husband come back to me and marry me, With this testimony right now i am the happiest woman on earth and our love is now stronger than how it was even before. I will keep sharing this testimony all over the world. All thanks goes to Dr IDIALU for the good work that he has done for me and people. he deeply enjoy helping people achieve their desires,thanks to my friend who introduced me to him. Should in case anybody need his help you can contact him on his email address:([email protected] or [email protected]

  Dr IDIALU restore my life in my matrimonial home you can thank him for me or email him for urgent help in any bad situation i promise you he will also help you,his email address: ([email protected]
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JamesJerry
JamesJerry

I USED TO HAVE HIV,,,AND I WORK WITH THE U.S ARMY......I LOOKED FOR CURE ALMOST ROUND THE WORLD,NOT UNTIL I CONTACTED A GREAT SPIRITUALIST,I NARRATED MY PREDICAMENT TO HIM,I WAS SHOCKED HE SAID''NO CAUSE FOR ALARM'''I SEND HIM MY PHOTO,,,,HE SAID HE WILL NEED TO BUY SOME ITEMS,AND I PAID FOR IT...AFTER THREE DAYS HE TOLD ME TO GO FOR TEST AGAIN,...... MY FRIENDS YOU WON'T BELIEVE IT WAS NEGATIVE....NOW I'M SOUND AND HEALTHY STILL WORKING WITH THE U.S ARMY . I BELIEVE HE CAN CURE ANY TYPE OF SICKNESS HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: [email protected] and [email protected] or call +2347031362391''

JamesJerry
JamesJerry

I USED TO HAVE HIV,,,AND I WORK WITH THE U.S ARMY......I LOOKED FOR CURE ALMOST ROUND THE WORLD,NOT UNTIL I CONTACTED A GREAT SPIRITUALIST,I NARRATED MY PREDICAMENT TO HIM,I WAS SHOCKED HE SAID''NO CAUSE FOR ALARM'''I SEND HIM MY PHOTO,,,,HE SAID HE WILL NEED TO BUY SOME ITEMS,AND I PAID FOR IT...AFTER THREE DAYS HE TOLD ME TO GO FOR TEST AGAIN,...... MY FRIENDS YOU WON'T BELIEVE IT WAS NEGATIVE....NOW I'M SOUND AND HEALTHY STILL WORKING WITH THE U.S ARMY . I BELIEVE HE CAN CURE ANY TYPE OF SICKNESS HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: [email protected] and [email protected] or call +2347031362391

Emillssyrus
Emillssyrus

I am from Australia, I want to testify of how i got back my ex girlfriend, I and my girfriend have been together for 4 years, recently her character and behaviour towards me totally changed and she eventually broke up with me, I tried all i could to get her back but all to no avail until i saw a post in a relationship forum about a spell caster who helps people get back their lost love through his powerful love spells, at first i doubted it but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this love spell caster via his email he helped me cast a love re-union spell and my girlfriend came back to me within 72hours (3 days), and we are happily together again. Contact this love spell caster via his email [email protected]

LiliayanLockwood
LiliayanLockwood

My husband left us a year ago when we had our last kid because he has always been afraid of having kids (so embarrassing). I was in a dark world, things did not go as we have planned when we exchanging our marriage vows, he hates kids and never plays with them even on their birthdays; he always wants to have me alone for reasons best known to him. I tried teaching him ways to love kids but he constantly keeps his distance away from them which made them to think that he is not their father. 

He finally left us to an unknown destination when he couldn’t bear with the pressure around him. I suffered and convinced them that their father will change to a better man and come back. This made me stand by my word because I don’t want to be a lying Mother, so I had to find ways to bring back my Boo as a changed man until I overheard a woman in a mall talking to her friend about a Spell Doctor called Dr.Osaz who help her sister get back her husband; so I quickly asked her if she can help me with the doctor’s contact if he can help me.Thanks to her and Dr. Osaz who changed my husband and brought him back to us as I promised our kids. He now loves them and plays with them. Dr. Osaz him a lovely Father and Husband. I am so happy that I finally fulfilled the promise I made to my kids.   Doctor Osaz if you are suffered relationship humiliation via: spirituallove @ hotmail . com

anavegas221
anavegas221

My name is Ana from USA, my lover is back with the great help from Dr Olu he help me cast a spell that brought him back to my arms in just two days. my lover left me with out a formal notification and now he is back, once again i want to thank Dr Olu for his wonderful spell, am now a happy woman. you can contact the great spell caster on his email: [email protected]

lisa5223
lisa5223

I AM SO HAPPY THAT MY EX IS BACK TO ME HE NOW ADORE AND RESPECT ME ANYTHING I TELL HIM THAT IS WHAT HE FOLLOWS ALL THANKS TO DR vOKE,THE GREAT SPELL CASTER,THIS MAN HIS THE BEST AND STRAIGHT FORWARD SPELL CASTER THAT TELLS YOU THE TRUTH AND YOU WILL GET RESULT UNDER 3DAYS,OTHER SPELL CASTER ARE SCAM BUT DR VOKE IS VERY TRUSTWORTHY PLEASE IF YOU NEED YOUR LOVER ONCE BACK PLEASE KINDLY CONTACT DR VOKE ON HIS PRIVATE MAIL ([email protected])

IkewenJide
IkewenJide

..I am Alice from New York USA,I want to use this golden opportunity to appreciate the great spell caster called Dr.makuta for helping me get back my relationship with my ex lover when he ended and turned his back on me for quite a long period of time. Dr.makuta performed a spell for me and within 48 hours after the spell had been cast i receive a call from my ex saying that he is sorry for hurting me and that he will not do such thing to me in his life again, I was surprised but later accepted him back. Anyone that is in the same line of problem or having difficulties in there marriages or any part of life should contact Dr.makuta email address:[email protected]  OR +2348110035171  .

IkewenJide
IkewenJide

I am Alice from New York USA,I want to use this golden opportunity to appreciate the great spell caster called Dr.makuta for helping me get back my relationship with my ex lover when he ended and turned his back on me for quite a long period of time. Dr.makuta performed a spell for me and within 48 hours after the spell had been cast i receive a call from my ex saying that he is sorry for hurting me and that he will not do such thing to me in his life again, I was surprised but later accepted him back. Anyone that is in the same line of problem or having difficulties in there marriages or any part of life should contact Dr.makuta email address:[email protected]  OR +2348110035171

MirandaHamiltonParker
MirandaHamiltonParker

My list went from nearly 330 a few months ago...down to 312. Then...in just the past few minutes, I did a cleanse, and now I am down to 276. The list might get smaller as time goes on...but baby steps, baby steps! If any of these people even NOTICE that I am not on their list anymore, then they will send me an add request. And then I will likely ignore it. lol  Some people that you didn't mention, which only may be a problem since I am from a small town, is past faculty and teachers! In particular, the lady who was the guidance counselor, and our math teacher who is now the school's prinicpal. Both of them are friends with TONS of alumni. For now, I don't care if they know what's happening in my life, and I am not going to screen borderline inappropriate topics just because they're on there (hey, we're all adults now, right?) but one of these days, I might give 'em the boot.

Emillssyrus
Emillssyrus

I am from USA, I have been married to my husband for 9 years with 2 kids, just of recent my husband started seeing another lady outside our marriage, he started coming home late and each time i confronted him, he treathened to divorce me and  he finally moved out of the house to stay with his mistress abandoning me and my kids, I tried all i could to get him back but all was to no avail until i saw a post in a love forum about a spell caster who helps people get back lost love through love spells, at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contacted this love spell caster through his email, he helped me cast a re-union spell and my husband called me within 72hours apologising, he is back home again and we are happy together again as one happy family. Contact this Great spell caster for your marriage or relationship problems via his email [email protected] Goodluck

MarianJessop
MarianJessop


I was searching for help on the internet to get my ex lover whom will got divorced 5 months ago, i came across this wonderful man called Doctor Kasee of [email protected] who did a nice job by helping me to get my divorced husband back within 48hours.. I never believe that such things like this can be possible but now i am a living testimony to it because Doctor Kasee actually brought my lover back, If you are having any relationship problems why not contact Doctor Kasee for help via email: [email protected] or call him at +2347051705853. Then i promise you that after 48hours you will have reasons to celebrate like me. 

bouchardemil
bouchardemil



I am Emil Bouchard,I want to say thank to Dr Agumagu for everything he did in my life. To everyone who doesn't believe in spell, I was one like you at first. I wasn't quite sure if I wanted to do this since I've tried others so-called spells casters and they did not work and was a waste of my time and money. However, when I read so many testimonials of Dr Agumagu how he help people to get back their ex lover. Dr Agumagu answered all my questions and was very nice about everything, I decided to give it a try. I figured it would be my last try to get my ex girlfriend back. So my story is that I was at my office when the girl I suppose to marry told me that she wasn't in love with me and never will it be and that she didn't want to speak or see me again, especially since she was talking to this other guy. i email Dr Agumagu and tell him everything.he let me know which spells would be most appropriate for me and I chose the one that was to get her back to me and stay with me and to marry me.As soon as he finish the spells, my girlfriend came back into my life! It was a miracle to me and I’m so thankful to him, that is why i am sharing this testimony to those who need his help. Things have been going well, and pretty much according to what Dr Agumagu said would happen. I’m very happy for the love spell Dr Agumagu have done for me, my ex girlfriend is now back to me and we are living so happy. if you asked me or my friends if I would have anticipated how things were right now…no one would believe it! contact is email address ([email protected] or [email protected] tell +2348158847627) Emil Bouchard

Marisa Martins
Marisa Martins

Am Marisa Martins I want to thank Dr. Ekpiku for getting my lover back to me within 48 hours. When my lover left me i was so tired and frustrated till i search the internet for help and i saw so many good talk about Dr Ekpiku of [email protected] and i decided to give him a try and i contact him and explain my problems to him and he cast a love spell for me which i use to get my husband back.If you want to get your lover back contact Dr. Ekpiku via email: [email protected] Dr. Ekpiku the great man that is able to bring back lost love

KaylanMelissa
KaylanMelissa

My lover dumped me for any another woman, and i was divorce by my husband with my two son after 8 years of marriage, and also i really love him, so i contacted Doctor Azul for a love spell to get my Husband back, to my greatest surprise he cast a love binding spell to get him back for me and my lover came back after 48 hours. i will advice you anyone looking for any kind of spell should contact Doctor Azul via email address: { [email protected] } or call his cell phone for urgent response on +2348136047017


From: Ontario

Name : Kaylan Melissa

LewisSlimberly
LewisSlimberly

Am Lewis Slimberly from south africa, my regards goes to dr olubam, for the great thing he has done for me, my husband left me with two kids and still yet i was on pregnancy, i and my family members has try all we could to plead him to come back but he refuses, i decided to call my pastor and invite him, tell him the all story and my pastor also talks to him and both his family members also talk to him, he still refuses that he has nothing to do with me anymore, i was so confused and fraustrated and i was praying to GOD to take away my life because i have nothing with me not even the money to take care of my kids and my unborn child, one blessed morning, after praying i decided to search the internet on what must i do to bring my husband back when he refuses to come back, i met a testimonial written by willam collins, i took the doctors email and search it on internet, i found so many intresting reviews about him, everybody say good about him, everybody says this doctor is so wonderful and great, he don't disappoint anyone like other he always do what you ask he to do, i was so excited in hearing this and decided to memail DR, he replied give me some informations to fill after sending them all to him, he called me back in 45mins time and told me what to do, after i have done it he said i should wait for three days that my husband is going to come back to me, it sound like a joke in my ears i never beleived it until three days time in the afternoon my husband called me on phone and told me he is coming to my house that we have something serious to talk about, when i heard this, smiles came to my face and my hearts was filled with joy immediately, after some minutes he droved to my house and i welcomed him in, he told me that he is sorry for everyhting that, he did not know what came upon him, i thought it was just playing until he kneel down before me, he pleaded me with tears and i accept him back it has been a month now since doctor cast the love spell on him, nothing has change him and he is now a man full of respect for the love he has for me and my kids, i now enjoy the love no fighting no drinkings of alcohol anymore, i am so happy that great dr Olubam has done it for me again, thanks to him and may the good Lord and gods he serves continue to protect him and abide with him always...

for more info contact dr on his private email via:  [email protected] thanks

regards dr from your beloved daughter Lewis Slimberly
my private email is [email protected]

DarleenTeves
DarleenTeves


my names are George Ewumbua and am from the united state of America, i would really want you to hear my true life testimony...  on how i got my healing and family back again. it all started on 11th June 2013 i felt so ill so my husband  had to take me to our family hospital  for proper text and the medical doctor carried out a text on me and the result came out to my surprise i was HIV-AIDS positive,i felt so bad and lost all my hopes of  living again, so immediately my husband left the hospital with great anger living me behind, on my getting home i discover that my husband has packed out of the house living me and the kids behind so i search for him all over the town but could not find him on the second day a friend of mine came to my house and told me that she saw my husband with a lady in a hotel, so i started crying......... due to my illness i spent a lot of money trying to cure my self from the deadly virus but nothing change in me, rather  my business was just crumbling and i lost everything, all my good friends left me due to my condition, so one day i was browsing through the net i came across a testimony of a friend on how she got healed by a priest doctor, at first i never wanted to contact him  because i was duped  by some fake spell casters, but my spirit keep on troubling me to lay my problems to him, which i did and i also told him how i was duped, he gave me hope and courage that all will be well soon, so finally i agreed, he carried on and he prepared a herbal drugs for me and gave me the instruction on how to use it which i did for five(5) days on the sixth(6) day i was feeling some strange feelings so i immediately call him and explain my  body experience then he told me not to be worried and ask me to go to the same hospital were i did my first text, which i did and the medical doctor conducted a text on me again and the result was....negative i was so shocked  and was short of words  so latter on i gain my self back i felt so happy and every one around me was also happy with me, but immediately i felt sad again because something was missing which happens to be my husband  who i really love so much, and i told the  priest about him, he then ask for his photo and cast a spell on him, the next day my husband came back to me and started begging  me to forgive all he has done, which i did because of the love i have for him... so my dear friends is better to be of help to our self than to watch our close once  go through pains... so i decided  that i must place his email for those in need of his help in any situation you may be going through contact him just as i did and see the good things God is using this good man to do (mail him on )  [email protected] or [email protected] or you can possible call his mobile on +23400368288     for he will accept you and solve all your problems and remember a problem share is a problem solve..............

LydiaEMill1
LydiaEMill1

I'm now married to the father of my two kids who i love so much.Before all these sudden happiness took place in my life i went through hell.I dated my fiance for 8years with little breakup's between until a whore came into our life who was my best friend.When i discovered my fiance was cheating on me with her i was so mad at him that i could not even look at him anymore.As time went on i and my fiance was trying to fix things but my best friend wanted us to be apart from each other in other to have him to herself which she later achieved.Soon my fiance wasn't paying attention to me anymore.All he could think of was how he could dump me and his two beautiful kids in other to be with my best friend.I was so heart broken because i loved him so much i tried all means to get him back but it wasn't possible.After a long while of unhappiness i meant a spell caster on-line whose name is dr ogedide i explained my problem to him and he demanded for some materials to prepare a spell and i proved the materials and since then my life has been transformed from sadness to total happiness.If you have a similar problem he might be the right person to solve your problem so if you need help contact him via [email protected] all your problem will be solve.

LisaNadia
LisaNadia

 THE GRAT DR OGUL THAT BRING MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME AM NOW A HAPPY WOMAN i am sharing my testimony to everyone that has tried everything possible and had lost hope on how they can get their ex back, i want you all to know that their is one man called Dr. ogul that work for me and after 2days of his spell. my ex came back to me without any delay, i am really happy now that we are together again and we are living happily with so much love and respect for each other, so i will advise everyone to ask for this same man's help so that you can be happy again and make your dreams and wishes you have with your ex come true. via [email protected] he can help you without any delay

MarisHoover
MarisHoover

This testimony came as a result of the spell I ordered from [email protected] to gain the heart of my lover who has been having affair outside our marriage Which result to many scandal in the house. Though I try the best I could to make him stop the cheating I couldn't, due to the love I have for him I could not seek for divorce either until my friend told me about DR Eziza at [email protected] that him could help me to make him the type of man I want him to be, so I seek help from Dr Eziza and it was excellent, we are living together with two kids. Thanks to DR Dr Eziza for the solution he provide for me 

mom4allissa
mom4allissa

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I  just had a friend un - friend me I guess my status's irritated her.Then again shes always been moody so it could be something i posted like a quote etc. I wished her all the best in life.I am not hurt but disappointed in my friend.I thought she was an adult.But it seems shes still acting like many from the small town where i grew up.Oh well its her loss.


My childhood friend has it all .A great husband and beautiful perfect kids. Not to mention a beautiful home and a great job. Where as my life is not perfect.I am a single mom of 4 and im going through a a lot right now.It was so nice of her to un- friend me .  think   to many people live in glass houses these days.The world is full of selfish arrogant people.In the end it catches up to them.. 

CauldronRose
CauldronRose

I just unfriended a guy I work with who friended me in the first place about a month ago. He acted interested and was totally leading me on. I finally asked him what the story was, that I had a huge crush on him and wanted to go out with him and if he was interested or not. He said he was attracted to me but he was already talking to someone else before me. So I defriended him. Too harsh? I was just tired of seeing his face keep popping up in my thread. I know I could have just restricted him but I felt I wanted to send a statement.

InfiniteSadness
InfiniteSadness

I once found out that I had a "beloved" family member un-friend me in order to try to "punish" their ex. They claimed that they wouldn't be friends with me as long as their ex was friends with me and that it would be the ex's fault if they were never friends with me again. I told the ex that my family member was the one who would suffer because they would lose out on a relationship with me by doing that. I also told the ex to not let that family member try to abuse them in that manner. The ex was grateful. We are still friends. I haven't heard from the family member since. Which is a shame, because that family member had so few "friends" on their side and I was one of them. 


I also have a "friend" who continually removes themselves from my list and then sends me another request to add them again. For a while, I went ahead and re-added them. Then, recently, they "punished" themselves (for something that didn't need any punishment) and removed themselves from my list again! I'm fed up. They've sent me two friend requests that I've ignored at this point. I'm done with them doing this to me on facebook. We talk on skype, that will have to be enough for them. 

EtxebarriaE
EtxebarriaE

It must make you feel so so powerful. I don't have FaceBook Anymore, it is rubbish.

HarryKelvin
HarryKelvin






MY LOVER IS BACK THANK YOU DR UKAKA AFTER 2YEARS WITHOUT A WORD FROM MY LOVER HE FINALLY CAME BACK TO ME AFTER DR UKAKA CAME INTO THE QUESTION.
I HAVE DR UKAKA THE GREAT TO THANK FOR MY HAPPINESS AND JOY FOR HE BROUGHT BACK MY MAN AFTER HE LEFT ME FOR ANOTHER WOMAN FOR TWO YEARS.
DID NOT KNOW HOW TO THANK HIM ENOUGH THAT IS WHY I AM TESTIFYING SO THAT THE WHOLE WHOLE WILL KNOW WHAT HE HAS DONE FOR ME AND ALSO HELP ME THANK HIM FOR HIS WONDERFUL DIDS .
DR UKAKA MY PRAYER FOR YOU IS THAT MY THE MIGHTY LORG IN HEAVEN CNTINUE TO STRENGTHING YOU SO YOU CAN KEEP PERFORMING WONDERS IN OUR VARIOUS LIFE.
THANK YOU SO UCH SIR I AM VERY GREATFUL.
YOU CAN CONTACT HIM FOR HELP DIRECTLY ON [email protected] or+2348133873774.
HARRY FROM CANADA

Lisa
Lisa

I don't think you understand what the word "besties" means. ... It means BEST friends. You know, like ONE or two people, not EVERYONE.

But anyway, those are all fine reasons, and you have no reason to feel guilty. I'd follow your rules on a spree, but then I'd be down to like, 50 people, which is fine with me, but not even my friend's pet's profiles have that few.

MaghanTremain
MaghanTremain

the main group of people on my friends list is game friends. I admit, I play farmville, so a lot of them are there simply for that. A few though, I've become friends with. One I talk about kids with quite often. What my son was getting into, what cute thing her daughter did, ect. I would say a good 80% of my facebook I don't know in person, and most of that is facebook game related.  

Hyhybt
Hyhybt

Interesting. Coincidentally, the number of reasons on your list is precisely the number of FB friends on my list.

One thing I do hate, though: no notification when you've been unfriended. The only way to know, unless they tell you, is pretty much to notice you haven't seen anything from soandso for a while and check your list to see them missing.

DeenaMarieTracy
DeenaMarieTracy

@Hyhybt lol, interesting enough if you haven't seen a post from them for an extended period of time, how important were they anyways its like boxes in the attic the stuff inside hasn't been seen or touched in over a year or two maybe you should throw it out.

Hyhybt
Hyhybt

@DeenaMarieTracy @Hyhybt You seem to be describing a situation where someone is on your list but just never posts, or possibly where they do but you don't read them. I wasn't speaking of that. More like, some people are on almost every day, while others only pop up occasionally, and even the ones who are pretty regular sometimes go a few days without posting, so someone's absence isn't immediately apparent... and then when you realize it's been a while since you heard from them, you find out it's not because they've been off Facebook lately but because they unfriended you for no apparent reason whatsoever. To alter your analogy to make it fit, it would have to be an item in your home you *do* use now and then, but where you wouldn't notice its absence until you went to look for it.

atm
atm

Interesting, but the overuse of the word "besties" irks me...

MirandaHamiltonParker
MirandaHamiltonParker

@atm I found it funny. He was making fun of using the word 'bestie.' He probably hates the word in real life, lol.

John23423
John23423

This is kind of interesting. In my opinion what you did... and what many others do is like the opposite of the same coin. You have tolerance and intolerance and then you have understanding.. It should be that anyone should do anything as they please as long as it's not forcing someone else to do something or harass someone intentionally. So someone said they would unfriend you and then you went and did the same as they were and to more people whom you don't really know, out of insecurity. It would make sense that a person who is confidant in himself and knows how to use his/her own mind would simply be fine with them because that person will do as he or she pleases regardless of the circumstances. In my experience: I've lost friends because they though I was someone else, yet I never forced anything on them; I did as I pleased and they didn't like that. So it made me feel bad and then It made me think who are they to do that to me, when they don't know me and rightfully so. Then I learned why would I let another person govern the way I felt. I should do as I please and If we can't co-operate then we simply won't; and we'll go our separate ways. I understand the way you acted because I've done the same for a long time.

modernmom23
modernmom23

I unfriended all my ex-husbands family.  Some were nice, but its an ugly divorce and I don't need divorce gossip getting back to them via FB.  I have had an animal icon for quite a while as my profile pic.  It's a tree frog and represents my personality perfectly.  Plus after cancer and hair loss I'm not very photogenic from the neck up.

But I also hate hearing what my real friends had for breakfast.  Fortunately only one does that, and not very often.

Mary
Mary

Thanks for the smiles. Why did I find this article? Because after someone got on my nerves last night on FB, I looked at my account and discovered that out of close to 150 friends, more than 100 are in some sort of filter so I don't see them much. Facebook has become a drain. More and more I think, "I wouldn't say this to everyone face-to-face, so why online?" and "Ugh, I really didn't want to know that..." And that doesn't include the "friends" who've made Facebook (yes, both mine and theirs) into a bulletin board or even a billboard for quotes and other inanities.

RebeccaOwens
RebeccaOwens

unfortunately the not animal rule would apply to my twin sister. Her profile picture is one her cow favorite cow and her background is of her horse. She switches them up every once in a while but I rairly see her face.

cmt123
cmt123

How about the spouses of people you are friends with, just so they can see if you are talking about them?  I have had a few requests for that, and I just ignore them...They know they're just being nosey!  Good for you!  I don't have the guts to defriend anyone yet...But then again, I don't have 1,000 friends!

EvanKaqasi
EvanKaqasi

The strangest part of this article is that you seem to say that you DO care about what 444 people eat for breakfast every morning

Mark in Irvine
Mark in Irvine

I recently unfriended two people I actually met through other people, but who always seemed to prefer to argue with me about politics (a guy whom I met through my cycling group) and (surprisingly) things I said to her to be friendly (a woman I met through French-speaking friends).  I know have much less pointless aggravation in my life!!

janked
janked

LOL. I think this list might include EVERYONE on my FB friends list, save one or two people.

Roland
Roland

I defriend people who repeat themselves 35 times.

PamBrown
PamBrown

Must resist urge to see if you unfriended me.........