You know what blows big time?

The other night I was sitting with my family, most of whom are very successfully married. We were going in a circle giving our best marriage advice to my little sister on the eve of her wedding. It’s somewhat of a family tradition.

But that’s not what blows. What really blows is that I realized I don’t have any good marriage advice to give. After all, I’ve never had a successful marriage out of the two marriages I did have.

And so, when it was my turn, I just made a joke about divorce and how you should always remember why you loved your spouse when you first met her so that when times get tough, you can find someone new that is just like she was.

There were a couple courtesy giggles, but overall my humor wasn’t welcome in such a beautifully building ring of profundity.

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They finished round one, and for some reason started into another round. And that’s when I realized. Hey. I don’t have marriage advice to give, but I have plenty of “keep your marriage from ending” advice (two equivocally different things), and that might be almost as good.

It eventually came to me again, and what I said would have been such great advice if I were a tenth as good at saying things as I was at writing them.

And so, that night, I sat down and wrote out my “advice list” for my little sister. You know… things I wish I would have known or done differently so that I didn’t end up divorced (twice). After writing it, I thought maybe I’d share it with all of you, too.

I call it my “Ways I Blew My Marriage” list. Also, for the list’s sake, I am just going to refer to “her” instead of “them” even though they almost all were true in both marriages.

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1. DON’T STOP HOLDING HER HAND
When I first dated the woman I ended up marrying, I always held her hand. In the car. While walking. At meals. At movies. It didn’t matter where. Over time, I stopped. I made up excuses like my hand was too hot or it made me sweat or I wasn’t comfortable with it in public. Truth was, I stopped holding hands because I stopped wanting to put in the effort to be close to my wife. No other reason.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: I’d hold her hand in the car. I’d hold her hand on a star. I’d hold her hand in a box. I’d hold her hand with a fox. And I’d hold her hand everywhere else, too, even when we didn’t particularly like each other for the moment.
BONUS! When you hold hands in the winter, they don’t get cold. True story.
2. DON’T STOP TRYING TO BE ATTRACTIVE.
Obviously when I was working to woo her, I would do myself up as attractively as I possibly could every time I saw her. I kept perfectly groomed. I always smelled good. I held in my farts until she wasn’t around. For some reason, marriage made me feel like I could stop doing all that. I would get all properly groomed, smelling good, and dressed up any time we went out somewhere or I went out by myself, but I rarely, if ever, cared about making myself attractive just for her.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: I’d try and put my best foot forward throughout our entire marriage. I’d wait to fart until I was in the bathroom whenever possible. I’d make myself desirable so that she would desire me.
BONUS! when you trim your man hair, guess what. She returns the favor.
3. DON’T ALWAYS POINT OUT HER WEAKNESSES.
For some reason, somewhere along the way, I always ended up feeling like it was my place to tell her where she was weak and where she could do better. I sure as heck didn’t do that while we were dating. No, when I dated her I only built her up, only told her how amazing she was, and easily looked past all of her flaws. After we got married though, she sometimes couldn’t even cook eggs without me telling her how she might be able to improve.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: I wouldn’t say a damned thing about anything that I thought could use improvement. I’ve learned since my marriage ended that there is more than one right way to do most things, and that the imperfections of others are too beautiful to try and change.
BONUS! when you tell her what she’s doing right, she’ll tell you what you’re doing right. And she’ll also tell her friends. And her family. And the dentist. And even strangers on the street.
4. DON’T STOP COOKING FOR HER.
I knew how to woo a girl, for sure. And the ticket was usually a night in, cooking a nice meal and having a romantic evening. So why is it then, that I didn’t do that for her after we got married? Sure, I’d throw some canned soup in the microwave or fry up some chimichangas once in a while, but I rarely if ever went out of my way to sweep her off her feet after we were married by steaming crab legs, or making fancy pasta, or setting up a candlelit table.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: I’d make it a priority to cook for her, and only her, something awesome at least every month. And I’d remember that meat in a can is never awesome.
BONUS! candlelit dinners often lead to candlelit bow chica bow-wow.
5. DON’T YELL AT YOUR SPOUSE.
I’m not talking about the angry kind of yelling. I’m talking about the lazy kind of yelling. The kind of yelling you do when you don’t want to get up from your television show or you don’t want to go ALL THE WAY UPSTAIRS to ask her if she’s seen your keys. It really doesn’t take that much effort to go find her, and yelling (by nature) sounds demanding and authoritative.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: I’d try to go find her anytime I needed something or wanted to know something, and I’d have both gratitude and manners when I did. I always hated when she would yell to me, so why did I always feel it was okay to yell to her?
BONUS! sometimes you catch her doing something cute that you would have missed otherwise.
6. DON’T CALL NAMES.
I always felt I was the king of not calling names, but I wasn’t. I may not have called her stupid, or idiot, or any of the other names she’d sometimes call me, but I would tell her she was stubborn, or that she was impossible, or that she was so hard to deal with. Names are names, and calling them will drive bigger wedges in communication than just about anything else.
IF I HAD IT TO DO-OVER: Any time it got to the point that I wanted to call names, I’d call a time-out and come back to it later. Or better yet, I’d call her names, but they’d be names like “super sexy” or “hotness.” Even in the heat of the moment.
BONUS! she’ll call you names in better places. Like the bedroom.

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Dan Pearce is an American-born author, app developer, photographer, and artist. This blog, Single Dad Laughing, is what he's most known for, with nearly half a million daily subscribers as of 2015. Pearce writes mostly humorous and introspective works, as well as his musings which span from fatherhood, to dating, to life, to the people and dynamics of society. Single Dad Laughing is much more than a blog. It's an incredible community of people just being real and awesome together!
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augustinamelinda31
augustinamelinda31

Contacting dr ahmed is probably one of the best thing that has ever happened to me.I believe every one has his or her option about spell.You may have the impression that its real and others may think spells are for the deranged.For me, i think its doesn't matter what you think or what you know about spell because we both know humans seek solution where ever there is one even if it means believing in something they find to insanely not true.I guess for me i believed in what could help me get full custody of my boys after my marriage fell as a result of my drinking addiction.I once use to drink a lot, my husband was not strong enough to walk through the storm with me.Like he said i ruined our marriage.You know its always goes the same with all men when you need them the most in times of trouble they run as far as possible from you and justify their infidelity based on your wrong doing.While i was getting help my husband was banging our neighbor she was a single mom so it was a good catch for him.she single with three kids and he had a wife who was addicted to drinking it was the perfect match.Maybe if he had done it once out of weakness and was sorry about it we will still be together but no he kept on with it.I don't really blame anybody but myself i was not around and she was there for him.I had drinking problem and she didn't so i was more of a problem to him that i was a wife i think.I am one year sober now, even at that he still treat me like the drunk i was restricting me from seeing my boys.Like he said i am a bad influence and danger to them.I mean i was sober and still he prevented me from seeing my kids.I understand that he didn't love me anymore cos yeah he found a more virtuous woman than i ever was and see had to sort of addiction even at that, i was still the mother of my kids and no matter what that is not going to change.Maybe my drinking problem was a contributing factor to our failed marriage or he never loved me that much to wait or hold my hand through the storm either which that is so not enough use my addiction as a medium to prevent me from seeing my kids i mean ever kid need the love of their mother.I was never capable of hurting my kids before i had my addiction and my kids, where the reason i seeked for help so now am sober i don't see myself as a threat or a bad influence to upbringing of my kids.Before i ever thought of resolving to spell casting i thought about involving the law but my lawyer was so sure that my ex lawyers would have been able to easily convince the judges that i am a threat to my kid and that my addiction can kick in anytime i feel pressured again cos that was the root of my addiction.I don't think anybody a man or a woman, can handle not being able to see their kids just cos you were once an addict of any sort.I was sad, confused and out of options.when i was served the divorce papers my kids custody was brought into the picture again.I realized that i was going to lost my boys forever.No mother wants another woman to raise their kid it was also the same for me i could not think of it at all.Maybe the law may have allowed me to see my them, it will would have been based on how and when its convenient for my ex to want me to go see them and also under his supervision.Either ways i was the loser but thank god i found dr ahmed as silly as it might be, he helped me cast a spell that gave me full custody of my kids.It wasn't the law that was compelled to give me custody, it was my ex the spell compelled.He asked is lawyers to tell the judge that he wants me to have full custody of our kids. dr ahmed doesn't ask anyone for money all he ask for are materials to for the spell casting process.And even that you can get them yourself and send them to him.My experience with him even if i never got to meet him, was an experience that will last for ever cos if not for the spell he helped me with i would still in search for a way to get to see my kids.If you really want to contact him use this email [email protected] com hopefully he can help you resolve what ever problem you bring before him and his god or gods which ever.

augustinamelinda31
augustinamelinda31

hello everyone am here to tell my testimony on how i got my marriage back on track, i got married 7 years ago and everything was going well and we where happy because i love my husband so much and he love me too, we had three kids, fews weeks ago i notices change in my husband behavior coming home late at night i thought it was just because of meetings in the office but it get worse then i decided to ask him, he just go away from me and past 4 night out side i was confuse i called him on phone but refuse to pick up my call he came back the 5th night and told me he want divorce i was surprise i thought it was a joke i beg him to stop later i new he had a girl friend outside i did all i could to get him back but all to no avail, one day i was searching the Internet on advice to get my husband back i saw a testimony on how Dr ahmed help a lady got her husband back i said let me try, i contact him also with his email address [email protected]  and told him what am going through and he promise to help me and he help me and i did what he ask me to do after 3 days my husband came back home and went down on his kneels and be begging me to forgive him and that he don't know what came over him, i was so happy and i thank dr ahmed for bring my marriage back on track, if you have the same problem or similar one just contact dr ahmed now and get your prayer answer contact him with his email address [email protected] and be happy like me

RobertAderson
RobertAderson

Anderson is my name, there is indeed no GLORY without a
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possible without a wonderful person i met in my life,
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Priest Otigbolor. With all sincerity and a glad heart, i want to say thank you for making my failed marriage work again, my wife is now back and we are living happily like never before. my entire life has been a testimony since i came in contact with you, i am not good in typing i would have typed all that happened and how High Chief Priest Otigbolor stepped in. He stepped in and he calmed the storm. High Chief Priest Otigbolor can calm your storm too. he is one in town and so good to be true. contact him for any difficulty or problems
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MC

Wow! The amount of fake spammy posts on this is unreal :-O

Please, please get a filter or something!

I thought your list was very revealing and can't have been easy or comfortable to write. The joke of it is, I came across this post while I was looking for some internet list I could show my husband to prove to him how his behaviour is eroding or marriage, but after reading this I can see that I do pretty much all of these things to HIM. Such an eye-opener. I guess it's never one sided. I need to work on myself and not get so obsessed with finding fault. Thank you so much for this very timely advice!

miracletemple
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MurphyChloe
MurphyChloe

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me because of a mistake I made and I just really want him back. He is the
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complete again, I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I read online
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I grew up with my parents divorced and I don't want that for my son and I
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SandraFoster
SandraFoster

I am sandra foster, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank CHIEF PRIEST AMROS for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. CHIEF PRIEST AMROS released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe. All thanks goes to CHIEF PRIEST AMROS for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too.  [email protected] that is his email address bye or you can call is hot line on +2347052079645.....

Catherin124
Catherin124

wow valentine is finally over. i had the best ever ..

i look back and laugh cus it was only 2 weeks ago i contacted dr igodo when my husband was asking for a legal divorce.

he told me the marriage has become boring and he wanted a new challenge so he moved out at first then later asked for a divorce.

i started making my research online and dr igodo name kept bon showing up so i contacted him.

behold after i contacted him he asked for some infos which i gave me and told me he was going to do a reunion spell toi bring him back and take things to the way they were from the begining.

after 48hrs my man moved him back and said he had realize that life without me was meaningless.

i hold my happiness to dr igodo.

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sarahlus
sarahlus

Hello I’m 25 years old. I was in a sexual relationship with my ex-boyfriend for 5 years, we had rocky start for good 4 years then
our relationship grew stronger and we were so happy and even planned to get married until he & my Mum had a blew, Mum
called him awful names because he did not have a well-paying job. I did what any partner would and stood by my ex-boyfriend,
then he decides to dump me by text and phone telling me that he was hurt by my Mum’s behavior when they had a blew. I was
mad when I noticed that he has reconciled with his old time fiance week after the blew with Mum, I don’t want the years that I
have spent with him to waste because I knows that he truly love me but my Mum won’t allow us to get married.
I contacted Spiritual Doctor named Dr Samura from posts I saw on blogs. This powerful Spiritual Doctor helped me to change
the mind of my Mum to like him and also broke the relationship he had with his new fiance. Our feelings are stronger now, he
loves and appreciates me. We have now got back to where we were happy, affectionate, passionate, romantic and loving. We
will soon get married. I am so happy right now to share Dr Samura email to someone out there that is suffering from heart break,
contact him with Email: [email protected] or call +2348103508204
thank you
John

GabellaSuarez
GabellaSuarez

Hello everyone am  Kim from the united state of America am here to testify in the name of this great man who has brought back happiness into my family after my lover Chris left me for 3years for another woman,i really loved Chris because he was my first love i tried everything within my power to get Chris back to my life but people i met just kept on scamming me and lying to me,Then normally on Saturdays i do go out to make my hair and get some stuff,Then i had people discussing at the saloon if they do listen to there radio well,That there is a program (how i got back my ex)And started talking much about Dr Steve how this man has helped lots of people in bringing back there lover,So immediately i went close to those ladies i met at the saloon and i explained things to them they said i should try and contact Dr Steve that he has been the talk of the town and people are really contacting him for help immediately we searched on the internet and read great things about Dr Steve i now got all Dr Steve contact instantly at the saloon i gave Dr Steve a call and i shared my problem with him he just told me not to worry that i should just be happy,He just told me to send him some few details which i did,And then he got back to me that everything would be okay within 36hours i was so happy then Dr Steve did his work and he did not fail me,My lover Chris came to me in tears and apologized to me for leaving me in deep pain for good 3years,So he decided to prove that he will never leave me for any reason he made me had access to his account and made me his next of kin on all his will,Now the most perfect thing is that he can't spend a minute without seeing me or calling me,Am so grateful to Dr Steve for bringing back the happiness which i lack for years,Please contact Dr Steve for help he is a trustworthy man [email protected]


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bellamoore
bellamoore


I want to use this medium to thank Dr shiva for helping me to get back my husband after he left me and the kids for 5 months to suffer.When he left,he told me that he dont love me again and he has found another woman which he loved.I cry everyday because i love him so much and i decide to go the net for help when i saw a lady's post of how Dr Shiva help help to get her husband back who divorced her and i just say to myself let me give this Dr shiva on ([email protected]) a try and indeed he is wonderful he help me to get my husband back within 2days and my husband return to me and promise to love me forever and beg me for the pain he cost me. I will forever be greatful to you Dr Shiva and i will not stop to publish your name on the internet for people to see because you are so great.You can email him at [email protected] or call +2347051705853 and he will also save your marriage.


TheodoraMarcason
TheodoraMarcason

hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify of it too. i saw a post on how a lady got her man back and i decided to try this prophet that helped her because my relationship was crashing. although i never believed in spiritual work i reluctantly tried him because i was desperate but to my greatest surprise this prophet helped me and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my man now treats me like a queen even when he had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, i can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship try him here is his email [email protected] of a truth he really helps again his email his [email protected]


MandyDianna
MandyDianna

 My name is Mandy Dianna, am from USA. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man DR.Godfather brought my husband back to me, i had three lovely kids for money husband, about four years ago i and my husband has been into quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt a life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i should not worry about it at all, so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so i contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i deed them all, he told me to wait for just two day and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully deed what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away,since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to DR.Godfather spiritual temple. This great man made me to understand that there is no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can email him at:[email protected] or better still his cell phone number is +2348152716685

JoesCandra2
JoesCandra2

I am joes candra, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR.OSAUYI for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR.OSAUYI released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR.OSAUYI for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too.  [email protected] that is his email address bye or you can call is hot line on +2347064294395.....

JoesCandra2
JoesCandra2

I am joes candra, I promise to share this testimony all over the world once my boyfriend return back to me, and today with all due respect i want to thank DR.OSAUYI for bringing joy and happiness to my relationship and my family. I want to inform you all that there is a spell caster that is real and genuine. I never believed in any of these things until i loosed my boyfriend, I required help until i found a grate spell caster, And he cast a love spell for me, and he assured me that I will get my boyfriend back in two days after the spell has been cast. Three days later, my phone rang, and so shockingly, it was my boyfriend who has not called me for past 6 years now, and made an apology for the heart break, and told me that he is ready to be my back bone till the rest of his life with me. DR.OSAUYI released him up to know how much i loved and wanted him. And opened his eyes to picture how much we have share together. As I`m writing this testimony right now I`m the most happiest girl on earth and me and my boyfriend is living a happy life and our love is now stronger than how it were even before our break up. So that`s why I promised to share my testimony all over the universe.All thanks goes to DR.OSAUYI for the excessive work that he has done for me. Below is the email address in any situation you are undergoing a heart break, and I assure you that as he has done mine for me, he will definitely help you too.  [email protected] that is his email address bye or you can call is hot line on +2347064294395

TheodoraMarcason
TheodoraMarcason

hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify of it too. i saw a post on how a lady got her man back and i decided to try this prophet that helped her because my relationship was crashing. although i never believed in spiritual work i reluctantly tried him because i was desperate but to my greatest surprise this prophet helped me and my relationship is now perfect just as he promised my man now treats me like a queen even when he had told me before he doesn't love me anymore. well, i can not say much but if you are passing through difficulties in your relationship try him here is his email [email protected] of a truth he really helps again his email his [email protected]

denisrachel2
denisrachel2

All Thanks Goes to CHIEF PRIEST AMROS i was married to my husband, and we were living fine and happy. it come to an extend that my husband that use to love and care for me, does not have my time again, until i find out that he was having an affair with another woman, i try to stop him,all my effort was in-vain sadly he divorce me and went for the woman. he live me with three of our kids, i cry all day, i was in pains, sorrow and looking for help. i was reading a news paper, i saw how CHIEF PRIEST AMROS help people with his love and reuniting spell. so i decided to contact him and explain my problem to him, he did a love spell that make my husband to come back to me and our kids and never think of the woman. this man is God sent to restore heart break and reunite relationship. may the lord be your strength and continue to use you to save people relationship and any problem they encounter contact him for help ([email protected]) or call his mobile number +23452079645  i promise you that, he will Put a smile on your face and make you feel happy.
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MaryannConnor
MaryannConnor

Hello everyone, i want to use this opportunity to advertise a great man, a spiritual healer.

He helped me when i was at my lowest point in my life,that's when my husband left me without any reason or warning,he refused to pick my calls and messages i left him. He completely abandon me and my daughter. I was so confused and frustrated and didn't what to do,that was when a friend introduced me to Dr dako through email i wrote to him and explained what i was going through. He told me he can help me,that my husband will back to me once he is done,to my greatest surprise my husband came back to me crying and begging me to forgive him. I was way too happy to stay mad at him cause i love him so much,Connor and my daughter lily are my entire world.Is there anyone going through such or other kind of thing? i sincerely believe he can help you. Why not contact him and solve your problem. You can reach him via email.[email protected]

Thomas
Thomas

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BennyMichealz
BennyMichealz

i want to thank Dr. Ikhine for what he did for me and my family by bringing my ex husband back to back us within 24hours and ever since i contacted him on [email protected] my life and my family life has turn around for good you can also call him on +2347060552255 for your urgent response.

rosebeller13
rosebeller13


My name is CAROLINA STEWART, I am sharing my testimony to everyone that has tried everything possible and had lost hope on how they can get their ex back, i want you all to know that their is one man called Dr OGUNBO that work for me and after 3days of his spell brought my ex back to me without any delay, i am really happy now that we are together again and we are living happily with so much love and respect for each other, Email:[email protected]

mrs  morgan jane
mrs morgan jane

Am Mrs Ann, i am on here to comment on my personal encounter with a spell man that has help to restore harmony to my relationship and marriage and also he has also given my life a new meaning. i want you all to know that dr.oyalo helped me restor peace in my marriage that was shattered was restored back and my husband is back to the house and taken full responsibility of the family and also he has been promoted at the office with the help of Lord Zilialia. Words are simiply not enough to say thank you. You are indeed a blessing to man kind dr. oyalo. if you wish to meet with this man and get your problem sovled his email is [email protected] Mrs.ANN