feather and stone balance

Sometimes I wonder if there is some great universal balancer whose job it is to make sure that nobody’s life stays too good for too long.

A month ago, I literally examined my life and found nothing to complain about. There weren’t even any small nuisances or annoyances that I was ignoring for the sake of happiness. I had a happy and healthy kid who loved me to death. I had my new and gorgeous partner in crime. My income was steady and nice. My health was perfect. I was content with who I was, and there wasn’t anyone in my personal life who wasn’t accepting of me and good to have there.

I could look anyone in the eyes and honestly tell them life was perfect for me. I wouldn’t have changed a thing.

And then for the past month it’s been big thing after big thing after big thing.

First my health went. I told you about the monster sores in the back of my throat. I wasn’t able to workout at the gym for a week and a half. I gained a couple pounds. I became lethargic and just felt gross and useless in general.

My good relationship with my fellow co-parents went downhill so fast a herd of rabid jaguars couldn’t have kept up with it. It has been a big mess.

Something weird happened with the ads on my site and for the first two weeks of April I lost a big chunk of my usual income.

There was a great big blow-up in my family and I somehow found myself at the center of it. I’m still not sure what exactly happened there.

I started getting all sorts of mean and nasty comments and emails surrounding my sexuality and my blogging. A couple people I really love and respected also started saying some pretty harsh things. Thus my little lash back post earlier this week.

A book thing I was banking on unexpectedly fell through.

And then, the last straw. Costco stopped selling my favorite snack bars.

Here is where things get funny.

I was at Costco yesterday, and I hadn’t even realized that all of this stuff was happening in my life and all at the same time. Yes, event by event I knew it was going on, but I hadn’t yet realized that they had all side-swiped me together the way they had.

Earlier in the day, I had gotten into it with Noah’s mom again. I thought things were finally mending and out of nowhere they got worse than ever.

And there I stood at Costco, staring at the place my favorite snack bars have been for years. I had already made the rounds several times. They were gone. Costco has a way of doing that to you.

And I just started laughing.

I was all alone. No one was with me. Some guy was walking by with giant trees on his push cart. A lady was to my right checking out the dark chocolate. And I just started laughing.

For some reason, as I stared at whatever new crap was in my snack bars’ place, annoyed beyond annoyed, everything hit me like a ton of bricks. The health problems. The ongoing battle with Noah’s other parents. The loss of income. The family blow-up. The escalating internet and personal life difficulty.

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Dan Pearce is an American-born author, app developer, photographer, and artist. This blog, Single Dad Laughing, is what he's most known for, with more than 1.4 million daily subscribers as of 2017. Pearce writes mostly humorous and introspective works, as well as his musings which span from fatherhood, to dating, to life, to the people and dynamics of society. Single Dad Laughing is much more than a blog. It's an incredible community of people just being real and awesome together!